Equipment in public showers or dressing rooms (e.g. gyms)
I'm dreading what it'll be like in the locker rooms in schools.
in mine there were several companions. if it's not usual in yours, don't go with a belt, it will be weird and sometimes the other girls are whores and it's hard to be intimacy
Barbara I'll tell mom but she's insisting belt to school.
youdontknowme Because the other people in the dressing romm do not have a free decision whether or not they participate in her exposure kink
that's true, but that's why i don't use public showers/changing rooms, because there are things i don't want to see (i also have hygiene reasons)
when someone enters a public space, he/she must expect to see something that is outside of one's comfort zone
Joh If They think it is Not a good behavior to get nacked If underage in the same showers room.
But that should also be a matter for the parents, the bad feeling many people have when they are naked also has something to do with the fact that they have a bad relationship with their own bodies
Angelina But that should also be a matter for the parents, the bad feeling many people have when they are naked also has something to do with the fact that they have a bad relationship with their own bodies
You are the one who wants total freedom in parenting, what happens in a family. If they decide to handle it that way, you should accept it.
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Nudity is natural and intrinsic for all people around the world.
Only EDITED christianity made it bad...
@Kaja , I made some posts in last days calling for moderation. I accept totally that you disagree with christianity, but I cannot allow you to add a derogatory term.
This is a small community and I am sick of a bad environment that only weakens it.
Kaja and Islam.
BrittanyDeel Christianity is much older. And at our civilisation (Europe - after it America and others) it was christianity, not islam.
Kaja where i am there are lots of Muslims like my mom's bf
BrittanyDeel Yes but not historically. They did not make our society.
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Kaja ok agree. but not all Pilgrims were Christians.
BrittanyDeel Interesting!
But our culture was made a long time ago before it. Christiants morality was create at medieval age... So to America it was only an import of it
Kaja I would agree to disagree.
Kaja The thing that was created in the medieval Europe would be called an western morality or something like that. It comes from christian faith, but is mainly about creating the right interpretation that matches the requirements of politics and economics of the time. The thing that contrasts this to other abrahamic faiths is that in modern christianity/western culture the common values are presented as mostly being orthogonal to the faith (which is certainly a good thing, but it still makes you think about how these values were determined).
In both judaism and islam there are quite obvious religious values that were originally motivated by public policy reasons and have nothing to do with faith at all that are still orthodoxly observed by large groups of the relevant believers. The obvious thing are various dietary restrictions that have to do with not eating stuff that is hard to store such that it does not go stale.
And by the way various religious beliefs about chastity before marriage and chastity of preachers and chastity of who knows who are also product of public policy of the pre-modern era. The state essentially needed married couples producing and caring for children that would become another (preferentially larger) generation of unqualified indentured labor.
The modern society needs significantly different demographic structure to be sustainable and solves completely different set of day-to-day problems than meat going stale.
Joh If they decide to handle it that way, you should accept it.
Of course, the only question is whether it is healthy to convince a child that nudity is something unnatural. we were all born naked and even if we don't think it's good socially when people are naked, we should accept it in certain situations (I'm just saying)
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PS: does every second thread (at least it feels) have to be created a religious discussion?
