Locked whilst feeling unwell

youdontknowme Something like gastrointestinal issues might call for frequent or even continuous belt removal, if you constantly need to run to the toilet at moment's notice and the rear opening of the belt makes clean toilet use difficult.

I know these situations from my own experience. They are definitely not comfortable, but a shower/unbelted cleaning afterwards solves the problem from a health related point of view as well as not being belted. It's just more work for the keyholder.

Even a belted shower can solve the issue, but I think an unbelted shower is more appropriate.

youdontknowme And unlocking and cleaning up after the fact can be an unpleasant experience

Do we talk about what is NECESSARY or about what is pleasant? Of course it's unpleasant and an opening before toilet should be the norm. But it's not necessary to stay hygienic.

youdontknowme Comfort can be a valid factor in diseasr recovery

I agree, but if wearing a chastity belt is so uncomfortable for you that it impacts your recovery, you shouldn't wear this chastity belt at all not only when you are sick.

youdontknowme unless the belt directly gets in the way of your health, in which case off with it.

Of course, if I break my hips or something like that, I can't wear the belt or if the reason for being sick is located in the area where the belt usually is, the belt needs to get off without questioning. But these situations are rare.

Sara2001 Do we talk about what is NECESSARY or about what is pleasant? Of course it's unpleasant and an opening before toilet should be the norm. But it's not necessary to stay hygienic.

24/7 chastity is not strictly necessary either. When the situation makes the arrangement more unpleasant than what you agreed to, it is a good idea to have an honest conversation with your keyholder

youdontknowme 24/7 chastity is not strictly necessary either. When the situation makes the arrangement more unpleasant than what you agreed to, it is a good idea to have an honest conversation with your keyholder

Chastity belts in general are not necessary. Every couple has it's own goals. I never said it shouldn't be pleasant when this is how it should be for a couple.

The question was what is necessary. Or with other words, what would be the minimum freedom that is needed. The question was not: "What would be the best comprim between security and a pleasant situation".

I for example can accept that I have to wear the belt when I am ill, others can see it differently. For me it would feel like he doesn't care for me when it becomes complicated, so he chooses the easiest way for him and just let me out, risking that I do things I am not allowed to do. Why should I invest so much effort and why should I give up such an important thing, just to make him happy, when he is not willing to take care of this gift when it's a bit more complicated to take care of it. I wouldn't feel valued and honoured but used and cheated. It wouldn't help me to get my health back quicker but that's just my opinion.

youdontknowme Something like gastrointestinal issues might call for frequent or even continuous belt removal, if you constantly need to run to the toilet at moment's notice and the rear opening of the belt makes clean toilet use difficult.

at this point, i would only see a safe solution that is still good for health. it may sound disgusting, but then the key holder has to go to the toilet with you, remove the belt and then wait until the wearer is done.

Sara2001 Or with other words, what would be the minimum freedom that is needed.

so my father and i would do it like this: the belt would only be put on very loosely, so i could probably at least masturbate, but it would still be difficult. i would be controlled much more during this time and my room door would be removed. In addition, the punishments for attempted cheating would be increased.

Sara2001 The question was what is necessary. Or with other words, what would be the minimum freedom that is needed. The question was not: "What would be the best comprim between security and a pleasant situation".

You made this into a question of necessity. The original question was whether unlocking was OK, and that depends on what both parties feel is the best course of action. Obviously if both parties would prefer maximum security and can find a way to take care of a person's health needs without taking a break from enforced chastity, that is a valid course of action. But if the wearer feels that the present agreement is not doing her well-being any favors, this is absolutely something that she should have an opportunity to discuss with her keyholder. That is all I am saying.

youdontknowme But if the wearer feels that the present agreement is not doing her well-being any favors, this is absolutely something that she should have an opportunity to discuss with her keyholder.

Definitely. If both are fine with this and this is how their agreement is working, that's a perfect solution. I think it depends on what they want, but that's always the case, not only when you are sick. I am happy for anyone who is happy with this solution and can understand your point of view. I just wanted to say that there is not necessarily an automatism for everyone in such a situation.

In the case of a gastro problem I can't see why anyone would have a problem with unlocking. If you're lying there feeling miserable with your stomach churning I doubt you are really thinking of either leaping into bed with a random man or masturbating

it's not that complicated, there are other ways than the belt to ensure chastity. but that would mean permanent supervision (personally or by kamereas etc.), of course it's not a permanent solution like the belt, but for a transitional period until the wearer is healthy again, it would be an alternative.

I repeat. I don't say you should continue wearing it. I don't suggest it. I just say it is possible in these situations. My husband opened me for toilet use dozens of times these days and it happened that he was not fast enough because he was in a call. It was not nice, it was not convenient, but I could clean myself in the shower and later he opened me to check if everything is really clean and healthy. There was no need for additional cleaning, but the check was of course still important. It takes a lot of effort. But it is possible, when the keyholder is close the whole time.

Sara2001 My husband opened me for toilet use dozens of times these days

did you have stomach problems? normally the belt does not have to be unlocked for toilet visits, or what was going on with you?
in general, of course, one can always unlock the belt when it is ensured that the wearer has no opportunity for sexual gratification.

Megan Do you mean "diarrhea" because yes everyone gets it at least 1 point in their life and we need to be careful with that.
So far I mostly get sleepy when sick but that can be awful for me too.

Yes

Angelina did you have stomach problems? normally the belt does not have to be unlocked for toilet visits, or what was going on with you?

I had to go to the toilet every hour and it would have been very messy if I had to clean everything every hour afterwards. So luckily he opened me before I went to the toilet. Normally this is of course not the case.

Sara2001 I had to go to the toilet every hour and it would have been very messy if I had to clean everything every hour afterwards. So luckily he opened me before I went to the toilet. Normally this is of course not the case.

that sounds very unpleasant, i hope you are feeling better now. it's good that your husband was very understanding about it.

Angelina that sounds very unpleasant, i hope you are feeling better now. it's good that your husband was very understanding about it.

Yes, it was a while ago, so everything is fine. Of course my husband is understanding. As long as I had no unsupervised access to my private parts under the belt, he was of course very caring.

Sara2001

as if it is contagious, i have the same case reversed today, i.e. constipation, i run to the toilet every hour but nothing happens, but otherwise no pain, so no reason to be without belt

Angelina I hope you will be well soon.

Angelina
Get better soon, @Angelina

Angelina get well soon

Joh

Ines

Sara2001

thanks, things are a bit better today (although still not good), i think the stress of university the last few days has hit me on the stomach