Sara2001 The question was what is necessary. Or with other words, what would be the minimum freedom that is needed. The question was not: "What would be the best comprim between security and a pleasant situation".

You made this into a question of necessity. The original question was whether unlocking was OK, and that depends on what both parties feel is the best course of action. Obviously if both parties would prefer maximum security and can find a way to take care of a person's health needs without taking a break from enforced chastity, that is a valid course of action. But if the wearer feels that the present agreement is not doing her well-being any favors, this is absolutely something that she should have an opportunity to discuss with her keyholder. That is all I am saying.

      youdontknowme But if the wearer feels that the present agreement is not doing her well-being any favors, this is absolutely something that she should have an opportunity to discuss with her keyholder.

      Definitely. If both are fine with this and this is how their agreement is working, that's a perfect solution. I think it depends on what they want, but that's always the case, not only when you are sick. I am happy for anyone who is happy with this solution and can understand your point of view. I just wanted to say that there is not necessarily an automatism for everyone in such a situation.

        In the case of a gastro problem I can't see why anyone would have a problem with unlocking. If you're lying there feeling miserable with your stomach churning I doubt you are really thinking of either leaping into bed with a random man or masturbating 🙂

        it's not that complicated, there are other ways than the belt to ensure chastity. but that would mean permanent supervision (personally or by kamereas etc.), of course it's not a permanent solution like the belt, but for a transitional period until the wearer is healthy again, it would be an alternative.

        5 days later

        I repeat. I don't say you should continue wearing it. I don't suggest it. I just say it is possible in these situations. My husband opened me for toilet use dozens of times these days and it happened that he was not fast enough because he was in a call. It was not nice, it was not convenient, but I could clean myself in the shower and later he opened me to check if everything is really clean and healthy. There was no need for additional cleaning, but the check was of course still important. It takes a lot of effort. But it is possible, when the keyholder is close the whole time.

          Sara2001
          Do you mean "diarrhea" because yes everyone gets it at least 1 point in their life and we need to be careful with that.
          So far I mostly get sleepy when sick but that can be awful for me too.

              Sara2001 My husband opened me for toilet use dozens of times these days

              did you have stomach problems? normally the belt does not have to be unlocked for toilet visits, or what was going on with you?
              in general, of course, one can always unlock the belt when it is ensured that the wearer has no opportunity for sexual gratification.

                  Megan Do you mean "diarrhea" because yes everyone gets it at least 1 point in their life and we need to be careful with that.
                  So far I mostly get sleepy when sick but that can be awful for me too.

                  Yes

                  Angelina did you have stomach problems? normally the belt does not have to be unlocked for toilet visits, or what was going on with you?

                  I had to go to the toilet every hour and it would have been very messy if I had to clean everything every hour afterwards. So luckily he opened me before I went to the toilet. Normally this is of course not the case.

                        Sara2001 I had to go to the toilet every hour and it would have been very messy if I had to clean everything every hour afterwards. So luckily he opened me before I went to the toilet. Normally this is of course not the case.

                        that sounds very unpleasant, i hope you are feeling better now. it's good that your husband was very understanding about it. 🙂

                            Angelina that sounds very unpleasant, i hope you are feeling better now. it's good that your husband was very understanding about it. 🙂

                            Yes, it was a while ago, so everything is fine. Of course my husband is understanding. As long as I had no unsupervised access to my private parts under the belt, he was of course very caring.

                                Sara2001

                                as if it is contagious, i have the same case reversed today, i.e. constipation, i run to the toilet every hour but nothing happens, but otherwise no pain, so no reason to be without belt

                                    Joh

                                    Ines

                                    Sara2001

                                    thanks, things are a bit better today (although still not good), i think the stress of university the last few days has hit me on the stomach

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                                            Joh I recommend Sauerkraut.

                                            interesting, i will put it on my shopping list 🙂