Getting a car for wearing a belt for a few days sounds like a pretty good deal to me.
Complaining - requirements - bribes - I dunno
Amira
I don't think that this is what Jen needs to worry about.
If they really wanted to have her belted 24/7, they simply could have refused to open the belt one morning and told her "get used to it".
And put yourself into the position of her parents. They have probably other priorities in their life than thinking about what after exam party Jen has planned. Now that party is getting closer and with the old car becoming available now, the question what to do with it came up. It might be on short notice for Jen, but from her partents perspective it was most likely just what came up naturally at this time.
And I don't think it is unfair from her parents to make that offer.
If Jen rejects the car, nothing in her life has changed. She can party just the way she has planned. So why is that unfair then?
Of course parents are worried that in such a situation self-control over the key will not be good enough for the same reasons that I have doubted that in general this self-control will work until marriage. Both her parents and I might be wrong, but I bet they have their own life experience and based on that they want her belted more strictly at least during such high-risk events and then they just came up with the idea of offering her the car in return for accepting that additional control.
curious If they really wanted to have her belted 24/7, they simply could have refused to open the belt one morning and told her "get used to it".
Yes and destroying any trust Jen ever had in them and as well any good relationship. That would have been a not smart move.
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only because Jen has said that this is not negotiable for her, it is not unfair of her parents to try to change her mind.
As I said, she can reject the offer and everything is exactly as if that offer was never made.
Jonas In terms of keeping clean or in terms of physical discomfort while dancing etc?
No I can keep clean. It's the physical - it's a long time and yeah activities too.
Jonas It would be a whole lot easier if you could be open with your mates about it. Are you going with the friends who already know you wear?
Yes the girls I'm sharing with know but most of the group (in other rooms) don't know
Ines They say it, but it works and for sure you can use it a bit loose.
They had it in few days.
I think I should get one. To late for tomorrow though.
Hi, we've agreed - I need to take the belt tomorrow but not wear it till 10pm and we will video call so they can see I'm not drunk. If I want to drink the belt gets locked first. So that's Saturday night. Mum's going to drive down Monday morning to unlock me. Then I'm free Monday and same rules Monday night. Then I'm belted till I come home Wednesday.
So I that will work. But the car's not actually gonna be mine, I just get to use it. But I need to keep using the belt like I have been and keep committed to chastity and no exceptions or excuses. So yeah there's that.
I was writing while you postedYikes my friends - they think I have the keys. They're gone freak
Jen I feel like that process would have gone smoother by giving you a key, a container for it and a handful of single-use seals so they can be sure you only ever access the keys while on a video call. But I guess it is still a major improvement over the original plan to give you two days of freedom.
The lack of ownership transfer for the car is a bit of a bummer though. I mean, not formally transferring it may have some tax or insurance benefits, but them still being firm that they only let you use it at their pleasure seems like a bit of a cop-out.
Jen Yikes my friends - they think I have the keys. They're gone freak
I do not understand 100%
youdontknowme I feel like that process would have gone smoother by giving you a key, a container for it and a handful of single-use seals so they can be sure you only ever access the keys while on a video call.
They're going on and on about alcohol. I mean I get it yeah like if I'm drunk and don't care seals won't help.
youdontknowme I do not understand 100%
I didn't tell my friends my parents have the key - like yeah nah that's just a bit too weird.
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Jen They're going on and on about alcohol. I mean I get it yeah like if I'm drunk and don't care seals won't help.
You can get drunk and not care before locking on the belt as well, so if they are already trusting you to obey their terms and not drink too much before you lock up...
Jen I didn't tell my friends my parents have the key - like yeah nah that's just a bit too weird.
You could still say you left the keys at home so you don't do anything stupid after drinking. And then just wing it when your mum comes by for the monday unlock. "Told her I forgot something" or something along those lines.
Jen I didn't tell my friends my parents have the key - like yeah nah that's just a bit too weird.
Simple solution. You just go 'f... K. I left the key at home. Now I am stuck in this thing until I get back'.
That way you don't need to explain that your parents have it, but you need to not be seen without belt during that trip.
Whatever is better for you.
Jen But the car's not actually gonna be mine, I just get to use it. But I need to keep using the belt like I have been and keep committed to chastity and no exceptions or excuses. So yeah there's that.
I initially understood the offer as being given a car. Instead of giving you something as a reward, it feels like you are giving them power to control you with access to the car. If you don't wear it this weekend will they never give you access to the car? If you do wear it this weekend could they not take away the privilege the next day (perhaps insisting that you start wearing it 24/7)?
Any problem... style it out! 
Enjoy your schoolies, Jen.
It is very stressful that @Jen parents waited until just before to tell her she needed to bring her belt to vacation...
However theres not really a reason to say "My belt wont last for a week of hard partying" 
How bad is your vacation???? 
️ I mean here in the middle of USA we have BURNINGMAN day with rituals to pagan gods and public group sex and NO plumbing or water Uhhhh....
But unless I have to go to that for graduation I think my belts are great to take to vacations. 
It sounds like you will have help. You can go to the beach without rubbing sand into your pants. No problem...
If you get super angry about it I wouldnt bother because you will get angry everytime you have to go meet your mom.
IDK what to do with all the talk about seals and phone video calls to your mom, if you could use a box of those and your private bathroom none of your friends will see you have to meet your mom and be suspicious of your chastity.