curious Not surprisingly, she is therefore opting for a much higher level of protection even though that protection is comes with a lot of discomfort.

She is not opting for anything. When her mother married her stepfather he insisted that she start wearing a belt.

curious In Amira's world, failure is more comparable to catching Ebola.

And why do you think she is going to fail? She is old enough to keep Ramadan. If she can go from sunrise to sunset for a whole month with nothing to eat or drink, not even a sip of water, I think she can go one day a week without touching herself. I can even do that and there's no way I could keep Ramadan for even a day. Or even 'til lunch time.

We are still waiting for you to tell us all why she needs thigh bands to protect her hymen. Good luck with that.

        Avery
        If I remember correctly, she herself decided that she wants to avoid exercises or movements that could pote tially damage the hymen and talked with her mother about volunteering for thigh bands.
        Personally I do not care whether or not it is damaged, but if it is of such importance to her, then it is not for you or me to argue that this is wrong.

        • Ines replied to this.

            curious

            curious Personally I do not care whether or not it is damaged, but if it is of such importance to her, then it is not for you or me to argue that this is wrong.

            This is a forum, so if @Amira writes something in the forum, it is logical that the rest of the users give her opinion, especially if it is well-founded and informed.

            There are several occasions in which you have incurred the same behavior, also with me.

            If @Amira did not want to talk about it, or did not want feedback, she would not write here. From now on, I would suggest that you continue to enjoy the forum, giving your opinion, contributing or even discussing, but do not try to prevent someone else from doing the same.

                curious In your world, failure to follow through with your goal of chastity would be the equivalent of catching influenza

                curious In Amira's world, failure is more comparable to catching Ebola.

                a good comparison, i see it similarly. for @Amira this is an important goal to stay chaste, so she should do what she thinks is necessary to achieve this goal. I don't think thighbands protect the hymen because @Amira doesn't wear them 24/7 for practical reasons, but I think she knows what she's doing.

                PS: i don't think it has anything to do with whether she is muslim or not, she seems to behave very western, besides there are enough examples of christian girls here. we should stop linking this to religion

                      Angelina i don't think it has anything to do with whether she is muslim or not, she seems to behave very western, besides there are enough examples of christian girls here. we should stop linking this to religion

                      I don't think so. Nowhere has she said she wants to reject her religion and her heritage. She says "I will give my parents the present of being pure and chaste until next Christmas". That's a Muslim thought, it's a gift. Since she came to the west what has happened to her? Her new (step-)father has locked her into a belt just as your father did to you.

                          Natalia hmm, the smiley tells me you like it
                          I'm Max by the way. Freut mich dich kennen zu lernen (Nice to meet you)

                              Max9 Nice to meet you too, nice to meet all here too 🙂

                              The main language is englis but hope an short german answer would be ok? Schön alle hier kennen zu lernen! Ich nutze übersetzer um englich zu schreiben, wenigst teils. deutsch ist einfacher aber fairer ist englisch!

                              The translation: nice to meet all here. I use sometimes translater to write in english is mor easy for me. But more fair is english!

                              You are right at moment i like it! You could read them also too in my own post here 😉

                                  Natalia I think the red silicone which you chose looks very nice. We also have some girls here with the same choice of configuration 🙂

                                    @Natalia @Max9

                                    You showed you are well mannered people.
                                    Obviously you can use small sentences, and specially if you write the translation.
                                    I only "scold" when people makes entire posts in German... or Chinese... 🤭

                                    Avery also the consequences for those women are very severe if they are thought or suspected of “immoral” behaviour. I don’t think the 2 can be compared.

                                        hanna_anders also the consequences for those women are very severe if they are thought or suspected of “immoral” behaviour. I don’t think the 2 can be compared.

                                        In any case, Muslim societies have been in operation for 1400 years and seem to be thriving (1/4 of the world's population). I doubt they need our advice on how to live by their own values. Especially since we need to encase women in iron to live by ours.

                                            Avery I doubt they need our advice on how to live by their own values.

                                            Agree with you, and anyway, they would not heard it.

                                            Avery Especially since we need to encase women in iron to live by ours.

                                            Well... only girls with the most elevated and delicate values do it. We are the state of art of feminity, and the belt guards us.

                                                Avery we need to encase women in iron to live by ours.

                                                No, most people don’t, as @Ines said, we are very different to most western women.

                                                    hanna_anders
                                                    Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to reform, pause or reflect. — Mark Twain

                                                      hanna_anders we are very different to most western women.

                                                      Yes. But we can all learn from what @Amira says. "I will give my parents the present of being pure and chaste until next christmas." What an excellent Christmas gift.

                                                        Ines Girls like you or @Jen are a step above us by virtue.
                                                        I think I am not a slut, but I appreciate that my belt is there so I don't have to check it.

                                                        Nah you're way more pure than me. like my reason for doing this - it's an excuse I've been telling myself and you guys. I lock myself up every night because I've got a fetish for the belt and for the denial. Like going to sleep with my body screaming at me under the belt is bliss. Wearing my belt is only depressing when I'm not aroused. And during the day any thought of touching - nah I love my "not since 2021" and the looking forward to the belt at night - and like it's easy actually. And it's actually been a year now!!!! Kinda blows my mind lol

                                                            and like it's easy actually.

                                                            Not sure it's easy but I do think it's easier than people think. One has to be able to create an atmosphere to do it in. No sexy clothes, no porn, no booze, controlled showers, etc. No going to bars, no guys hanging about.

                                                            • Jen replied to this.

                                                              Avery showering in the belt is easiest then I get it taken off after to get properly dry. No guys - I agree but it's becoming a problem

                                                                  Jen showering in the belt is easiest then I get it taken off after to get properly dry. No guys - I agree but it's becoming a problem

                                                                  See I have an edge. I shower at the gym (no belt, of course) where there are people coming and going so nothing more than a quick swish with a towel is possible. Not everyone has that situation of course.