Most of you may know that I am not a christian girl, but we do the presents thing on christmas just like anyone else do.

I will give my parents the present of being pure and chaste until next christmas and will renounce the sunday breaks for having time alone with myself without the belt. That doesn't mean I won't have cleaning breaks of course.

I think I can manage it and I hope that I will be able to stick to my promise. And if it becomes harder and harder for me I am sure these will be helpful. points at my thigh bands

    Maija wow, that’s horible that your always in thigh bands. I’m starting to regret reading that with my daddy looking over my sholder

        CharInChastity
        Yes, I do agree with him about that. I want to learn to have control about that part of myself.

          Amira

          interesting gift, i hope you manage it, it could be a pity if you promise too much, think about it carefully

          CharInChastity I’m starting to regret reading that with my daddy looking over my sholder

          You generally shouldn't do that when you're here on the forum 😂

                Angelina interesting gift, i hope you manage it, it could be a pity if you promise too much, think about it carefully

                is there a difference between gift and present? No, I think I won't.

                    Amira is there a difference between gift and present? No, I think I won't.

                    no, it could have been a language error on my part, somehow i currently have problems writing in english. I mean, you promise to stay in your belt 24/7 until next Christmas, that's a big step and extremely hard, I hope you've thought twice about promising that

                      Amira I will give it up because I think that I shouldn't touch myself at all.

                      Then try giving up touching yourself (without using a belt). That will mean you are pure and chaste. Wearing a belt just means you are a prisoner. There's a gift for your parents.

                          Avery

                          I should say that being "a little prisoner" is far easier be a good girl.
                          I am not any whore, but I prefer my belt around me.

                              Ines I should say that being "a little prisoner" is far easier be a good girl.
                              I am not any whore, but I prefer my belt around me.

                              All true. All I am asking her to do is to go one day a week, to renounce the Sunday breaks. Do you feel one day a week is an unreasonable ask if someone truly has a commitment to being pure and chaste (her words)?

                                  Avery I mean, she has decided to take the step and give up the sunday touching, but she probably also knows that it's very hard to do so on herself, so she is kind of asking them for help. I see nothing wrong about that

                                      Max9 she probably also knows that it's very hard to do so on herself, so she is kind of asking them for help. I see nothing wrong about that

                                      No, you don't. That's because you've never tried to do anything that's hard.

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                                          Avery Do you feel one day a week is an unreasonable ask

                                          I can not say It, @Avery, I have not had ever such situation.

                                              Ines I can not say It, @Avery, I have not had ever such situation.

                                              @Ines I believe that Amira's experience puts in serious doubt the premise on which many of the posts here rest: that to maintain chastity a female must be in a belt, plus maybe a bra and thigh bands.

                                              She was born in a Muslim country. As far as I know all Muslim countries require young women to be virgins when they marry and I have never read that Muslim girls wear belts. So millions of Muslim women over time put the lie to the idea you need a belt to stay a virgin. I believe if Amira had stayed in her home country she would have succeeded without a belt just like all the others. Why not?

                                              But Amira moves to Europe. Soon she is told that she must wear a belt. What changed? Just the ideas of the people she now lives with. The ideas are wrong. Millions of Muslim women prove it.