curious Dont persuade her. She doesnt want and thats the point. Amen.

curious for example because you meet someone really nice and your hormones take over control of your thinking

And it can happen to anymore. That's why a chastity belt is supposed to prevent it, rather than for punishment after it happened.

    Renita
    Exactly. And the decision to wear a belt should not be based on whether you think you need it (because if it turns our you do, then it is too late) but rather on if you value chasitty. If you do, the belt is a reflection of these values and the negative side effect in everyday life is something you just have to learn to cope.

    • Kaja replied to this.

      Kaja
      We are well aware, that you do not consider chastity a value and object to everything and everyone who does. But again: This is about people for whom chastity is a value and who therefore want to use a belt seriously and not just like you as a sex toy for entertainment.

      • Kaja replied to this.

        curious It has no connection.

        But for your weird mind is chastity the only one value that exist. You prefer it bedore everythink other.

        Thankufuly for most of the people are other values more important - for example that they prefere normal life (freedom of sports, moves etc etc).

        curious You are obsessed by chastity. You want to put everybody around the world to chastity belt from birth to dead (idelly by inviolable law).

        EDITED

        Im sorry but this is what I see when I read your posts.

          Kaja
          First: You are wrong and obviously you see things that are not there. And again - how else could it be - your accusations are again insulting and are not based on anything real.

          Second: There are people who actually value chastity, even if you do not. I have no problem with your preference of freedom and using a chastity belt only as a sex toy. But I ask that you respect different opinions as well and do not constantly insult people with whom you disagree and imply that their values are wrong and sick.

          Third: Did you actually look at the name of this forum? There is a big "CHASTITY" in the name. This forum is dedicated to ther SERIOUS use of chastity belts, not use as a sex toy. You do not go to a catholic church and loudly proclaim there that everyone is wrong and should become an atheist instead, do you? So, if you are against serious use of chastity belts and cannot see the value in chastity, why do you constantly act against what this forum is actually for, rather than finding a place that offers something suitable to your taste?

          Four: I really hope @"Ines" starts acting against your constant insulting behaviour. You can disagree but you have to do it in a respectful way and you should consider where you voice your opinion and if this is actually the right place to promote your values of free sex and fetish / play use of chastity belts / cages.

            curious really hope @"Ines" starts acting against your constant insulting behaviour.

            You can read a Big EDITED in her post.

              Kaja No and no and no

              Kaja, take it easy. Based on @Christine's story, it's rather unlikely that @curious (or anyone else) will convince her to wear the belt again. However, if she agreed to it, it would be a conscious consent (she knows perfectly well what wearing a belt is) and her own choice.

              curious Sorry but I never say any word against somebody who wears cb from his/her own desire. You say somethink what is not true - what I never did or never sayd.

              Im only against forced using.

              You are not able to accept that exist people with different values than you. You push everybody there to 24/7 chastity. You dont rescpet their targets and wishes.

              For you there is only white or black. But world is not bipolar, really.

              curious I did never offened you. Sorry.

              I have to say it for you ONE MORE TIME.

              I never want for Ines stop wearing one (or Maia etc etc). I rescept that thay want stay virgin and thay want not to masturbate.
              But Ines and her family (and others useres) have to accept that others (her sister for example) have different opinion. It is not importatnt if sister doesnt want to stay "pure" or she just doesnt want to be inprisoned in metal panties. It is her life and her body. Amen.

              I never say that you may to stop wearing one, because it is your life and body.

              But chastity is not solutions for everybody and everythink.
              If you are scared of pregnancy - there is contraception, if you have problem with controling sexuality - cb never solve it (you have to remove causes and not sequels), if you want stay virgin - you have not to wear cb 24/7, wearing it at risky time is enaugh (it can be less than once a week).
              And the most important is that you have to have freedom of choose.

              Do you understand me? Will you parrot that I dispraise serious using?

                Jonas Only if you're both wearing (with your aunt acting as keyholder) would things be completely fair

                But she can let mom out, while I'm belted all the time.

                Jonas Has the belt you bought for your mom already stopped her from having sex? Are you sure?

                You can't have sex being in a chastity belt.

                Jonas Will you firmly enforce what is now her no-sex-until-marriage rule?

                Yes, and I keep suggesting marriage, otherwise her belt will stay on.

                Jonas Then it looks like your mom has ended up locked in the chastity she wanted for you

                It sounds unusual, but it works.

                Jonas It's funny how things turn out.

                I'm glad I was successive in it.

                curious So are you sure you do not need a belt when this part is taken into account too, because you never ever touch yourself?

                I think that masturbation is not such a big problem.

                  Christine Jonas Then it looks like your mom has ended up locked in the chastity she wanted for you

                  It sounds unusual, but it works.

                  I wonder if your mother projected her own need for a chastity belt onto you? I wonder if any other parents who write here do the same?

                    Christine But she can let mom out, while I'm belted all the time.

                    Why should your aunt make a difference and keep you locked while your mother is let out?
                    I think the rules should be 100% equal in this case.

                      Kaja
                      The problem you do not understand is, that often it is not just about risky times. Sometimes you do not know in advance when such a risk might come up.
                      And have you read about @Ines fighting her belt?
                      Most people have the urge to masturbate and the belt is a tool to make sure you cannot do that.
                      Sometimes in life you make a decision knowing that is a one way street and you cannot easily change your mind, once it is taken. Please look at the decision for serious use of a belt that way. You might not like it, but actually giving away the right to cancel the agreement to wear the belt, once it has been made is part of the deal for most serious users. And if the wearer is adult and has decided that this is what he/she wants, you should accept this and not always shout 'no, no, totally wrong'.
                      If someone wants to get a branding, they can. I might think it is stupid. I might see it just as an ugly scar rather than something beautiful. That is my right as much as it is their right to get that branding. But if I join a forum that is dedicated to the discussion of branding, it is wrong to constantly go against branding. There is a fine line between freedom of speech and disrespect.
                      If this was a general forum discussing relationships and someone suggests a chastity belt, yes, you can freely state your opinion about freedom etc. But you are in a forum that is dedicated to the serious use of belts and voicing opposing opinions in a place that has a dedicated purpose is disrespectful.
                      See my 3xample about the. church. You can stand on the street and tell everybody that there is no God and atheism is the only right way. Perfectly fine. But saying the exact same thing inside a church is wrong and disrespectful because that place is dedicated to worship a God.
                      Now apply the same to this forum please.
                      This place is dedicated to discus serious use of chastity belts, so you have to accept that people here use a belt in ways you find wrong and too strict. But because this is a place dedicated to such use, your right to freedom of speech does not apply here and you must learn to accept that not every freedom you enjoy (e. g. speech) has a limit where it starts to invade on the freedom of others to their opinion. And places that are dedicated to a certain way of thinking automatically set a limit as to what you can say there without offending people.
                      I hope you understand these differences. Learning what is appropriate to say or better not to say is a lesson for your life you really should learn. Now you are young and people will look over many of the things you do in a 'well, she does not know better' way. If you are 30 or 40 and show the same kind of behaviour, you would face a much much harsher response. So please don't reject what I am trying to tell you but think of it as a well meant help and lesson.

                        curious

                        a) You dont have true.
                        b) You all the time repeat what I didnt say and didnt do. I dont have problem with serious user. I never had it. Only you pick it in my mouth.

                        curious I have seen various reasons here in the forum why a CB was considered. It was good to discuss the teme in detail and show options. Either the whole thing was reconsidered or they were really sure they wanted it.
                        If someone has a problem with extensive masturbation, a CB is a solution to prevent it but it doesn't change the problem. I think professional help should be sought first. A CB can temporarily help reduce the impact until it is better controlled.
                        If a woman is afraid of an unwanted pregnancy, why does she have to give up masturbation? She is responsible for herself and can decide when and for how long she wants to wear the CB to prevent it.
                        Every situation is different and so are the expectations. Your idea of how it should work is not the solution for everyone but only for a few.
                        @Kaja is, in my opinion, often undiplomatically in her formulations so that it sounds harsh. English is not her mother tongue and her social environment is not yours. I often find her statements appropriate, just not well formulated. I also welcome other views so that there is a broad basis for a sound decision. That's all we can do.

                        Christine Well, it was not important before, but she's convinced me.

                        but then you are now at the same point of double standards that your mother had before. You're both single women, so you should both wear a belt, or both shouldn't. there is no reason that one person wears a belt and the other doesn't (please don't get me wrong, this was also true in the last few years when you were in the belt)

                        curious You do not go to a catholic church and loudly proclaim there that everyone is wrong and should become an atheist instead, do you?

                        I should do that haha 🤣

                        Christine But she can let mom out, while I'm belted all the time.

                        do you think that would happen? only in theory, but do you think if your aunt was the key holder for both of you, that your mother would get more freedom than you?