Single again chastity
Angelina agreed. Ensuring virtue is one thing but using Christine as her personal trust Barbie doll is disgusting.
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@Christine
Everyone has an opinion about this subject but no body ask you more about this.
Don't share any specifics but what were some of the things that came before you got divorced?
My husband is great but I wonder if a woman had a malicious husband could he manipulate her in an argument by threatening to lie about her character and send her and all her keys back to her parents.... What if the fault of the divorce is on the man?
Dear Lord that would be a living nightmare, incredibly shameful especially if he arranged a party of some crazy scheme to make her look guilty. AFAIK I am NOT at risk of a divorce anytime soon and I am very happily married.
Renita indeed. The wearer of a belt is required to refrain from sexual activity, but the belt is neutral as to whether the wearer is obliged to like it.
Saintprudence agreed. Ensuring virtue is one thing but using Christine as her personal trust Barbie doll is disgusting.
Correct, even with involuntary wearers it should always be about the protection of the girl/woman.
I am not sure if this will help, unless @Christine is thinking about returning to her ex-husband, everything else is probably not helping at the moment. (just my opinion)
Angelina I am not sure if this will help, unless Christine is thinking about returning to her ex-husband, everything else is probably not helping at the moment. (just my opinion)
I wasn't really thinking of Christine but everyone there are many divorced women in Chastity but I don't think any of it is meant maliciously
Do you know anything about Marriage contracts? I didn't remember mine but I know the prenup is a little generous in my favor more of a settlement.
Laura We honestly don’t know HOW many people are in reluctant chastity, since it’s often so secret. But the same people as your parents, who believe in enforcing chastity on unmarried women, would probably take a dim view of divorced women and prefer that they remain locked until they can be married off again. And you yourself well know how far they’ll go to keep women who are well into adulthood belted if that’s what it takes to retain virtue.
I don't know of any cases, but you're probably right.
If the woman lives in the same city as her parents, it would be very positive.
Unfortunately, modern life does not always mesh well with good habits.
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Saintprudence We honestly don’t know HOW many people are in reluctant chastity, since it’s often so secret
@Megan might know more
Saintprudence would probably take a dim view of divorced women and prefer that they remain locked until they can be married off again
But the situation is different, because she was not longer tied to her parents
Laura true, but it can always be encouraged by family!
Renita it would change divorce a lot if it was commonly understood divorcees would be expected to return to belted status! However, without reliable family to cover it, this would be hard to enforce. Probably prone to abuse, too, but it’s amusing to consider!
Rafael as always, reliable and responsible key-holding is one of the big bottlenecks for effective chastity!
Laura because she was not longer tied to her parents
Neither to her ex-husband.
Saintprudence However, without reliable family to cover it, this would be hard to enforce.
It should be her choice, while the family can strongly recommend it, especially if she worn one before.
Angelina if you think she has a fetish, you should talk to her openly about it, it is not good if she forces you to wear a belt because she claims to want to protect you, but is actually following her own fantasies.
Many people here support her decision regardless what causes it. Form another hand fetish means toy, but I wear a real chastity belt.
Megan What if the fault of the divorce is on the man?
Ofc it was his fault.
Angelina unless @Christine is thinking about returning to her ex-husband
No way !
Megan Do you know anything about Marriage contracts?
People us i to maintain marital status.
Christine Ofc it was his fault.
Was this ever taken into account when you were belted? Did you accept it somewhat willing at first?
Megan Do you know anything about Marriage contracts?
yes, i know that and even though i can understand it, i don't think it's good. a wedding always means taking on responsibility, for that i need the marriage vows, but not a separate contract.
Saintprudence But the same people as your parents, who believe in enforcing chastity on unmarried women, would probably take a dim view of divorced women and prefer that they remain locked until they can be married off again.
i would disagree on one point. they would not do it if the main reason is virginity, because a divorced woman is definitely not a virgin anymore
Christine regardless what causes it.
i would never do that. i think the reason she wants you in her belt is the "key" to everything (little pun). because if she doesn't want to protect you, or even control you, but just wants to live out her own sexual fantasies, that's definitely wrong.
Christine Ofc it was his fault.
does your mother think so too?