Laura Not true even in my case

You should forward this to your parents and discuss it. It is not fair and they should explain why she should not wear one.

Laura No, I don't think so

Why do you think so?

I can understand it, because, from what I have understood, Laura 's family cares above all about virginity and not so much about other things.

  • Joh replied to this.

    Ines I can understand it, because, from what I have understood, Laura 's family cares above all about virginity and not so much about other things.

    And if she shares the same view (I don't know really if it true) why is it not her decision to wear it or not?

      Renita Even if it was girl's choice?

      It was not even @Christine ’s choice at all. I think @Christine ’s mother need to be consistent with what she says about chastity and wear a belt too, if she believes single woman shouldn’t pleasure herself then her actions should be consistent with her belief.

      If it was a girl’s choice, I have bit mixed opinion but it won’t apply for me at all. For example, if I get belted, I’m likely to let my partner to become a keyholder, as I trust her the most that she won’t abuse the power of keyholder and she said she is willing to hold keys. It doesn’t mean my partner (hence it would be cute if myself and she wear matching chastity belts and hold keys each other but I’m against forced wearing so unless she asks for a belt, I won’t bring that up.) or my mother have to wear a chastity belt just because I chose to wear a belt.

        Renita Even if it was girl's choice?

        then no, but if the mother demands it, she should set a good example.

        Joh

        well, if @Laura's family only cares about virginity, i can understand why the mother doesn't wear a belt, the fact that @Laura is with us today proves that the mother is no longer a virgin, so there is no need for a belt for that either

        If you allow me my opinion as a man.
        If the girl lives with her parents, I, as a husband, would try to convince my wife, although, ultimately, you can't force anyone.
        If it is the other way around, and the parents are the ones who suggest it, from my own experience it is much better for the mother to have hers too.

          Yolanda More of less: yes.

          I don't see point.

          Rina It doesn’t mean ... or my mother have to wear a chastity belt just because I chose to wear a belt.

          I think the same.

          Rafael If the girl lives with her parents, I, as a husband, would try to convince my wife, although, ultimately, you can't force anyone.

          i think if so, the daughter should convince the mother, because she then had the idea

          Angelina But age is not a reason, at most virginity, which you no longer have either.

          But I'm still sexually active.

          Saintprudence She can still be protected from the same self-pleasure she insists on preventing for you.

          She protects me for sex, rather than self-pleasure.

            Christine But I'm still sexually active.

            But she could also be (at least theoretically), no excuse.

              Christine She says, that she is not.

              See, @Angelina, this is why the hierarchy of authority is necessary! Christine’s mom exercises authority over her here, but who locks the locker-upper?

                Christine She says, that she is not.

                then your mother has a double standard that i really don't want to tolerate 🙁

                Saintprudence See, @Angelina, this is why the hierarchy of authority is necessary! Christine’s mom exercises authority over her here, but who locks the locker-upper?

                in my opinion, that has nothing to do with hierarchy or anything like that, but here we have a mother who sets different standards for herself than for her daughter

                  Angelina but the hierarchy could ensure that she is held to the same standard! Christine has no position to require her mother to wear a belt, but another authority could do so.

                    Saintprudence

                    Yes, and I can understand that, but from what @Christine tells us, her mother is not citing not finding a keyholder as an excuse, just that wearing a belt does not make sense to her.
                    For me it is deeply hypocritical to "force" a girl to do something that she rejects for herself.

                      Ines oh, I agree entirely! My point is merely that it would be good if there were an authority figure who could inform Christine’s mom that she MUST wear the belt herself if she’s going to act like this.

                        Saintprudence Christine has no position to require her mother to wear a belt, but another authority could do so.

                        of course she has the position for it. the mother says a chastity belt is necessary for a single woman, so it applies to her as well. it's just that she doesn't want to give up her power, but the belt would be equally good or bad for both.

                        Saintprudence My point is merely that it would be good if there were an authority figure who could inform Christine’s mom that she MUST wear the belt herself if she’s going to act like this.

                        i agree and for some reason i have the feeling that you would like to be that person the most 😉

                          Angelina I mean, if someone HAS to be the arbiter of chastity, you could do worse than assigning it to me! 🤣 🤣 🤣 I promise to be a very fair but firm goddess of belting!!!

                          Raquel I don’t believe Christine’s mom is married, so there is no one to coax or compel her into a belt of her own.