Saintprudence

It can be understood and respected that a girl does not want to wear a chastity belt, but if girls wear it I think it is mandatory for the mother to wear it too.

    Rafael but if girls wear it I think it is mandatory for the mother to wear it too.

    Not true even in my case

      Laura

      In my opinion it is not fair that this is so, although I did not dare at first.
      Do you not see better that if the daughter wears a belt the mother should do it too?

        Rafael but if girls wear it I think it is mandatory for the mother to wear it too

        Even if it was girl's choice?

          Rafael Do you not see better that if the daughter wears a belt the mother should do it too?

          No, I don't think so

            Laura

            In our family it seems that it is already a tradition.
            Your mother never wore a belt?

            Renita Even if it was girl's choice?

            More of less: yes.

              Yolanda Your mother never wore a belt?

              She did when she was single

              • Ines replied to this.

                Laura Not true even in my case

                You should forward this to your parents and discuss it. It is not fair and they should explain why she should not wear one.

                Laura No, I don't think so

                Why do you think so?

                I can understand it, because, from what I have understood, Laura 's family cares above all about virginity and not so much about other things.

                • Joh replied to this.

                  Ines I can understand it, because, from what I have understood, Laura 's family cares above all about virginity and not so much about other things.

                  And if she shares the same view (I don't know really if it true) why is it not her decision to wear it or not?

                    Renita Even if it was girl's choice?

                    It was not even @Christine ’s choice at all. I think @Christine ’s mother need to be consistent with what she says about chastity and wear a belt too, if she believes single woman shouldn’t pleasure herself then her actions should be consistent with her belief.

                    If it was a girl’s choice, I have bit mixed opinion but it won’t apply for me at all. For example, if I get belted, I’m likely to let my partner to become a keyholder, as I trust her the most that she won’t abuse the power of keyholder and she said she is willing to hold keys. It doesn’t mean my partner (hence it would be cute if myself and she wear matching chastity belts and hold keys each other but I’m against forced wearing so unless she asks for a belt, I won’t bring that up.) or my mother have to wear a chastity belt just because I chose to wear a belt.

                      Renita Even if it was girl's choice?

                      then no, but if the mother demands it, she should set a good example.

                      Joh

                      well, if @Laura's family only cares about virginity, i can understand why the mother doesn't wear a belt, the fact that @Laura is with us today proves that the mother is no longer a virgin, so there is no need for a belt for that either

                      If you allow me my opinion as a man.
                      If the girl lives with her parents, I, as a husband, would try to convince my wife, although, ultimately, you can't force anyone.
                      If it is the other way around, and the parents are the ones who suggest it, from my own experience it is much better for the mother to have hers too.

                        Yolanda More of less: yes.

                        I don't see point.

                        Rina It doesn’t mean ... or my mother have to wear a chastity belt just because I chose to wear a belt.

                        I think the same.

                        Rafael If the girl lives with her parents, I, as a husband, would try to convince my wife, although, ultimately, you can't force anyone.

                        i think if so, the daughter should convince the mother, because she then had the idea

                        Angelina But age is not a reason, at most virginity, which you no longer have either.

                        But I'm still sexually active.

                        Saintprudence She can still be protected from the same self-pleasure she insists on preventing for you.

                        She protects me for sex, rather than self-pleasure.

                          Christine But I'm still sexually active.

                          But she could also be (at least theoretically), no excuse.

                            Christine She says, that she is not.

                            See, @Angelina, this is why the hierarchy of authority is necessary! Christine’s mom exercises authority over her here, but who locks the locker-upper?

                              Christine She says, that she is not.

                              then your mother has a double standard that i really don't want to tolerate 🙁

                              Saintprudence See, @Angelina, this is why the hierarchy of authority is necessary! Christine’s mom exercises authority over her here, but who locks the locker-upper?

                              in my opinion, that has nothing to do with hierarchy or anything like that, but here we have a mother who sets different standards for herself than for her daughter