Single again chastity

Angelina

Renita Even if it was girl's choice?

then no, but if the mother demands it, she should set a good example.

well, if @Laura's family only cares about virginity, i can understand why the mother doesn't wear a belt, the fact that @Laura is with us today proves that the mother is no longer a virgin, so there is no need for a belt for that either

Rafael

If you allow me my opinion as a man.
If the girl lives with her parents, I, as a husband, would try to convince my wife, although, ultimately, you can't force anyone.
If it is the other way around, and the parents are the ones who suggest it, from my own experience it is much better for the mother to have hers too.

Angelina

Rafael If the girl lives with her parents, I, as a husband, would try to convince my wife, although, ultimately, you can't force anyone.

i think if so, the daughter should convince the mother, because she then had the idea

Renita

Yolanda More of less: yes.

I don't see point.

Rina It doesn’t mean ... or my mother have to wear a chastity belt just because I chose to wear a belt.

I think the same.

Christine

Angelina But age is not a reason, at most virginity, which you no longer have either.

But I'm still sexually active.

Saintprudence She can still be protected from the same self-pleasure she insists on preventing for you.

She protects me for sex, rather than self-pleasure.

Angelina

Christine But I'm still sexually active.

But she could also be (at least theoretically), no excuse.

Christine

Angelina But she could also be (at least theoretically), no excuse.

She says, that she is not.

Saintprudence

Christine She says, that she is not.

See, @Angelina, this is why the hierarchy of authority is necessary! Christine’s mom exercises authority over her here, but who locks the locker-upper?

Angelina

Christine She says, that she is not.

then your mother has a double standard that i really don't want to tolerate 🙁

Saintprudence See, @Angelina, this is why the hierarchy of authority is necessary! Christine’s mom exercises authority over her here, but who locks the locker-upper?

in my opinion, that has nothing to do with hierarchy or anything like that, but here we have a mother who sets different standards for herself than for her daughter

Saintprudence

Angelina but the hierarchy could ensure that she is held to the same standard! Christine has no position to require her mother to wear a belt, but another authority could do so.

Christine

Angelina then your mother has a double standard that i really don't want to tolerate

She does, coz I depend on her.

Ines just that wearing a belt does not make sense to her.

Yes, in principle.

Saintprudence I don’t believe Christine’s mom is married

She is not.

Ines

Saintprudence

Yes, and I can understand that, but from what @Christine tells us, her mother is not citing not finding a keyholder as an excuse, just that wearing a belt does not make sense to her.
For me it is deeply hypocritical to "force" a girl to do something that she rejects for herself.

Angelina

Saintprudence Christine has no position to require her mother to wear a belt, but another authority could do so.

of course she has the position for it. the mother says a chastity belt is necessary for a single woman, so it applies to her as well. it's just that she doesn't want to give up her power, but the belt would be equally good or bad for both.

Saintprudence My point is merely that it would be good if there were an authority figure who could inform Christine’s mom that she MUST wear the belt herself if she’s going to act like this.

i agree and for some reason i have the feeling that you would like to be that person the most 😉

Saintprudence

Ines oh, I agree entirely! My point is merely that it would be good if there were an authority figure who could inform Christine’s mom that she MUST wear the belt herself if she’s going to act like this.

Saintprudence

Angelina I mean, if someone HAS to be the arbiter of chastity, you could do worse than assigning it to me! 🤣 🤣 🤣 I promise to be a very fair but firm goddess of belting!!!

Raquel

@Saintprudence is right here, sometimes mothers forget themselves and it is necessary for the husband to demand justice.

Saintprudence

Raquel I don’t believe Christine’s mom is married, so there is no one to coax or compel her into a belt of her own.

Angelina

Christine She does, coz I depend on her.

but that's a different argument. if she says you should wear the belt because of your dependency, it's a different argument than if she says you should wear it because you're a single woman.
the first argument applies only to you, but the second applies to both of you

Saintprudence

Angelina This is one of the real reasons I'm so fascinated by hypothetical community chastity laws. Power is a weird thing; I believe everyone should be answerable to someone else. It troubles me that people like Christine's mother or your father can enforce reluctant or unwilling chastity lockup on other adults simply because they can, by enforcing financial authority with no oversight.

Christine

Angelina if she says you should wear the belt because of your dependency, it's a different argument than if she says you should wear it because you're a single woman.

She says one thing, but the actual reason is different. Nothing unusual.

Joh

Saintprudence I believe everyone should be answerable to someone else. It troubles me that people like Christine's mother or your father can enforce reluctant or unwilling chastity lockup

With @Angelina it is happen while both do not accept the authority. Her father by forcing his will on her and by @Angelina she believes it is nothing the government should have a saying in it.

Angelina

Saintprudence

of course it can change if @Christine puts some pressure on it, that's how i managed to convince my father to try it for a year. if i shy away from the discussion then i can't achieve anything. so @Christine put arguments on your mother's table that she also wears a belt, at least as long as she forces you to do so.

Joh With @Angelina it is happen while both do not accept the authority. Her father by forcing his will on her and by @Angelina she believes it is nothing the government should have a saying in it.

your statement is not wrong, but the main reason is that i think interference by the authorities would only make things worse instead of better. i would have gone to the police a long time ago if i thought it would improve my situation.

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