Megan Having to pay for an apartment, and food, and internet, and water, and power, and and and just to unlock and masturbate seems ridiculous

It was not the only reason.

Angelina i don't think you need a belt for it

It might be useful at some point.

Renita But I don't understand why she is allowed to stay there without a belt.

Coz she had no choice.

          Angelina but at the moment i don't see any reason

          To ensure her chastity.

          Christine Coz she had no choice

          And you might change your mind now.

                Christine It might be useful at some point.

                But then be careful who you give the keys to 😉

                Renita To ensure her chastity.

                yes, but if @Christine doesn't want to live chastely at all, it makes no sense

                      6 days later

                      Jonas
                      Don't forget to reactivate the lurking 🤣

                          Angelina But then be careful who you give the keys to

                          Unless I have ordered my own belt, I have no choice.

                              Christine Unless I have ordered my own belt, I have no choice.

                              That's true, but I don't think you need it right now, maybe later if you feel unsure, then of course you can buy one yourself

                                11 days later

                                Angelina Thank you for saying it Angelina, but it really doesn't feel that way to me...

                                carg Don't forget to reactivate the lurking 🤣

                                      Jonas Thank you for saying it Angelina, but it really doesn't feel that way to me...

                                      don't be pessimistic, we are happy about everyone who is not a troll hihi 😂

                                          Angelina don't be pessimistic, we are happy about everyone who is not a troll hihi 😂

                                          I'm just trying to tell you how I feel.

                                          I posted a comment after leaving and am told not to forget to go away again!

                                          • carg replied to this.

                                              Jonas
                                              Sorry, it was not meant that way. Therefore the smiley at the end.
                                              It is common on forums etc. that if someone creates a post and says something like "--start ranting--", they also say a "--stop ranting--" at the end. Since you so explicitly mentioned 'De-lurking' I thought it might have been accompanied by a 'Re-lurking', not meaning to imply that you should not de-lurk again whenever you feel like it.

                                                  carg Jonas
                                                  Sorry, it was not meant that way. Therefore the smiley at the end.
                                                  It is common on forums etc. that if someone creates a post and says something like "--start ranting--", they also say a "--stop ranting--" at the end. Since you so explicitly mentioned 'De-lurking' I thought it might have been accompanied by a 'Re-lurking', not meaning to imply that you should not de-lurk again whenever you feel like it.

                                                  Thanks so much for clarifying. I guess I am sensitive because I left not feeling welcome here.

                                                      Jonas Thanks so much for clarifying. I guess I am sensitive because I left not feeling welcome here.

                                                      It's good that @carg has cleared this up, because it shows once again how easily a misunderstanding of language can make someone feel unwelcome.

                                                          Angelina It's good that @carg has cleared this up, because it shows once again how easily a misunderstanding of language can make someone feel unwelcome.

                                                          Angelina, I was really glad to hear it too, but I am still trying to tell you that I left this forum because I felt unwelcome. It's not all misunderstandings.

                                                          It's not a big deal, there are a million places to speak online. It's just sad to lose touch with people who I'd got to know.

                                                              Ines Thank you for saying it, but it was not how I felt.

                                                              • Ines replied to this.

                                                                  Ines Why exactly?

                                                                  Not here to be interrogated Ines. Here to express my feelings. I felt increasingly unwelcome and I felt that my feelings weren't acknowledged or validated. So I left the group. My posts remain if you want to understand further.

                                                                  Please feel free to move these comments over to "just chatting" rather than gum up this topic.

                                                                  • Ines replied to this.

                                                                      Jonas

                                                                      Jonas Not here to be interrogated Ines

                                                                      I am in my right of ask kindly, and you, of course in your right of not answering. It was not an Interrogation, but interest as mod about if we could do something, but do not worry, you will not need say me the same twice.