Jonas but I am still trying to tell you that I left this forum because I felt unwelcome. It's not all misunderstandings.

I know this is offtopic, but @Ines will forgive me because it is important.
what exactly is the reason why you don't feel welcome? what can we do about it, so that you feel better here?
you have been an active member for a long time and it would be a shame to lose someone like you.

      Thank you for clarifying Ines. Your post did not communicate kindness nor an desire to improve moderation to me as it was so very short.

      I'm not here to rake up old posts. I just wanted to express my feelings and say that I was sad to leave everyone here, including you.

        Angelina I know this is offtopic, but @Ines will forgive me because it is important.
        what exactly is the reason why you don't feel welcome? what can we do about it, so that you feel better here?
        you have been an active member for a long time and it would be a shame to lose someone like you.

        Jonas Angelina Thank you for saying it. I will have to have a think.

        Angelina, there doesn't seem to be any way to discuss the problem without bringing up specific posts and people and I won't do that. All I can really do is to repeat that I was sad to leave and that I left because I ended up not feeling welcome to express my views or feelings.

        Thank you for your kind messages, I really did appreciate them a whole lot.

        Love and respect to all, and best wishes.

              Jonas Angelina, there doesn't seem to be any way to discuss the problem without bringing up specific posts and people and I won't do that

              maybe you should be more open about it, it might help. it's like @carg's thing he didn't mean to hurt you and maybe other people feel the same way. 🙂

                  Angelina maybe you should be more open about it, it might help. it's like @carg's thing he didn't mean to hurt you and maybe other people feel the same way. 🙂

                  Hmmm. 🤔. I am sure I am not mistaken and I think it is likely that raking up old posts will create argument and more bad feeling. If anyone wanted to clarify anything with me they've had the chance by now.

                  Thank you again Angelina for being so kind.

                      Jonas

                      i hope you can get over it, i have found this place to be a very friendly place and hope others feel the same. 🙂

                          Angelina I feel strongly enough to leave. I will now stop making such a fuss and do just that. However, I do think you Angelina are very friendly and I appreciate you talking with me once more.

                          I think the forum needs to continue its drive to ensure all chastity discussion here is for consenting adults-only.

                          I'd like to see the forum become more pro-chastity and to treat male and female chastity equally and non-judgementally, but I understand that this is a personal preference. Either way; a non-fetish chastity site is an amazing achievement.

                          Best wishes to all.

                          Jonas.

                              Jonas I think the forum needs to continue its drive to ensure all chastity discussion here is for consenting adults-only.

                              at this point i would take the liberty to disagree, i would rather have a young girl seek help here than on a fetish/porn site where old men get off on the idea that we can create a safe space for such girls.

                              Jonas I'd like to see the forum become more pro-chastity and to treat male and female chastity equally and non-judgementally,

                              an open exchange is important, but i agree that we should not make big differences in the value of female and male chastity.

                              then i wish you all the best and if you don't want to write anything here anymore, you are welcome to have my mail as well. 🙂

                                    4 days later

                                    Christine What kind or brand of cb do you wear that you can wear it 24/7 ?

                                    Where do you live in? Did anybody notice that you are locked ? are you still locked and living by mom ? Does she wera a belt too?

                                        stefan
                                        English: Take a deep breath, take a step back, read the existing threads - take your time, come back and proceed to ask any remaining questions.

                                        German: Nimm einen tiefen Atemzug, mach einen Schritt zurück, lies die vorhandenen Konversationen - nimm dir Zeit, komm zurück und stelle etwaige offene Fragen.

                                          stefan
                                          English: And for the love of god, please check your spelling before you post anything! @Laura may tolerate you, but your style of writing, ignorance to inform yourself before posting and quality of contributions are - as it seems - not just getting on my nerves!
                                          German: Und um Gottes Willen, bitte überprüfe deine Beiträge auf Tippfehler und Rechtschreibung! @Laura duldet deine Beiträge zwar, aber dein Schreibstil, deine mangelnde Bereitschaft, dich vor dem Posten zu informieren und die Qualität deiner Beiträge gehen scheinbar nicht nur mir auf die Nerven.

                                              Ines I understand you and I apologize (also for going off topic).
                                              I just have the impression that he purposely ignores reasonable and polite criticism of his way of engagement.

                                                cantsolvethecaptcha Sorry. If only have my schoolenglish. Im not much in priactice, I try to get help from google Translator but this maschine also makes mistake. Sorry if you know a geram cb forum i will go there. I try to integrate myself so that you wont complain anymore.
                                                Ich versuche die Sachen zu lesen mal gehet es gut und mal weniger gut

                                                    Joh

                                                    I know your intention is right, but I think he has enough. We will see his evolution.
                                                    Calm.

                                                    Joh It would be nice if @stefan would follow the hints.

                                                    Yes, agree. We will see. Message has been sent.

                                                        stefan I try to integrate myself so that you wont complain anymore.

                                                        Perfect. If you follow rules you will not have any problem.
                                                        But, please, take your time and read threads.

                                                          stefan What kind or brand of cb do you wear that you can wear it 24/7 ?

                                                          My-steel.

                                                          stefan Where do you live in?

                                                          In apartments.

                                                          stefan Did anybody notice that you are locked ?

                                                          Hard to say. Nobody mentioned to me.

                                                          stefan are you still locked and living by mom ?

                                                          No.

                                                          stefan Does she wera a belt too?

                                                          No.

                                                                      Christine

                                                                      may i ask how your relationship with your mother has changed since you stopped living with her and wearing a belt? has it gotten better or worse?