Single again chastity

Jonas

Angelina It's good that @carg has cleared this up, because it shows once again how easily a misunderstanding of language can make someone feel unwelcome.

Angelina, I was really glad to hear it too, but I am still trying to tell you that I left this forum because I felt unwelcome. It's not all misunderstandings.

It's not a big deal, there are a million places to speak online. It's just sad to lose touch with people who I'd got to know.

Ines

Jonas

You are welcome here.

Angelina

Jonas but I am still trying to tell you that I left this forum because I felt unwelcome. It's not all misunderstandings.

I know this is offtopic, but @Ines will forgive me because it is important.
what exactly is the reason why you don't feel welcome? what can we do about it, so that you feel better here?
you have been an active member for a long time and it would be a shame to lose someone like you.

Jonas

Ines Thank you for saying it, but it was not how I felt.

Ines

Jonas
Why exactly?

Jonas

Ines Why exactly?

Not here to be interrogated Ines. Here to express my feelings. I felt increasingly unwelcome and I felt that my feelings weren't acknowledged or validated. So I left the group. My posts remain if you want to understand further.

Please feel free to move these comments over to "just chatting" rather than gum up this topic.

Ines

Jonas

Jonas Not here to be interrogated Ines

I am in my right of ask kindly, and you, of course in your right of not answering. It was not an Interrogation, but interest as mod about if we could do something, but do not worry, you will not need say me the same twice.

Jonas

Ines

Thank you for clarifying Ines. Your post did not communicate kindness nor an desire to improve moderation to me as it was so very short.

I'm not here to rake up old posts. I just wanted to express my feelings and say that I was sad to leave everyone here, including you.

Jonas

Angelina Thank you for saying it. I will have to have a think.

Jonas

Angelina I know this is offtopic, but @Ines will forgive me because it is important.
what exactly is the reason why you don't feel welcome? what can we do about it, so that you feel better here?
you have been an active member for a long time and it would be a shame to lose someone like you.

Jonas Angelina Thank you for saying it. I will have to have a think.

Angelina, there doesn't seem to be any way to discuss the problem without bringing up specific posts and people and I won't do that. All I can really do is to repeat that I was sad to leave and that I left because I ended up not feeling welcome to express my views or feelings.

Thank you for your kind messages, I really did appreciate them a whole lot.

Love and respect to all, and best wishes.

Angelina

Jonas Angelina, there doesn't seem to be any way to discuss the problem without bringing up specific posts and people and I won't do that

maybe you should be more open about it, it might help. it's like @carg's thing he didn't mean to hurt you and maybe other people feel the same way. 🙂

Jonas

Angelina maybe you should be more open about it, it might help. it's like @carg's thing he didn't mean to hurt you and maybe other people feel the same way. 🙂

Hmmm. 🤔. I am sure I am not mistaken and I think it is likely that raking up old posts will create argument and more bad feeling. If anyone wanted to clarify anything with me they've had the chance by now.

Thank you again Angelina for being so kind.

Angelina

Jonas

i hope you can get over it, i have found this place to be a very friendly place and hope others feel the same. 🙂

Jonas

Angelina I feel strongly enough to leave. I will now stop making such a fuss and do just that. However, I do think you Angelina are very friendly and I appreciate you talking with me once more.

I think the forum needs to continue its drive to ensure all chastity discussion here is for consenting adults-only.

I'd like to see the forum become more pro-chastity and to treat male and female chastity equally and non-judgementally, but I understand that this is a personal preference. Either way; a non-fetish chastity site is an amazing achievement.

Best wishes to all.

Jonas.

Angelina

Jonas I think the forum needs to continue its drive to ensure all chastity discussion here is for consenting adults-only.

at this point i would take the liberty to disagree, i would rather have a young girl seek help here than on a fetish/porn site where old men get off on the idea that we can create a safe space for such girls.

Jonas I'd like to see the forum become more pro-chastity and to treat male and female chastity equally and non-judgementally,

an open exchange is important, but i agree that we should not make big differences in the value of female and male chastity.

then i wish you all the best and if you don't want to write anything here anymore, you are welcome to have my mail as well. 🙂

Jonas

Angelina then i wish you all the best and if you don't want to write anything here anymore, you are welcome to have my mail as well. 🙂

I was really touched by your positive messages and offer @Angelina. 🤗 You're made me think again about my decision to leave. I think your kindness out-weighs any negativity I've experienced. I'm not ready to speak again right now, but will come back and chat at some point in the future. Best wishes and thank you very much. Jonas

stefan

Christine What kind or brand of cb do you wear that you can wear it 24/7 ?

Where do you live in? Did anybody notice that you are locked ? are you still locked and living by mom ? Does she wera a belt too?

cantsolvethecaptcha

stefan
English: Take a deep breath, take a step back, read the existing threads - take your time, come back and proceed to ask any remaining questions.

German: Nimm einen tiefen Atemzug, mach einen Schritt zurück, lies die vorhandenen Konversationen - nimm dir Zeit, komm zurück und stelle etwaige offene Fragen.

cantsolvethecaptcha

stefan
English: And for the love of god, please check your spelling before you post anything! @Laura may tolerate you, but your style of writing, ignorance to inform yourself before posting and quality of contributions are - as it seems - not just getting on my nerves!
German: Und um Gottes Willen, bitte überprüfe deine Beiträge auf Tippfehler und Rechtschreibung! @Laura duldet deine Beiträge zwar, aber dein Schreibstil, deine mangelnde Bereitschaft, dich vor dem Posten zu informieren und die Qualität deiner Beiträge gehen scheinbar nicht nur mir auf die Nerven.

Christine

stefan What kind or brand of cb do you wear that you can wear it 24/7 ?

My-steel.

stefan Where do you live in?

In apartments.

stefan Did anybody notice that you are locked ?

Hard to say. Nobody mentioned to me.

stefan are you still locked and living by mom ?

No.

stefan Does she wera a belt too?

No.

Ines

cantsolvethecaptcha

Calm...
certainly he is not going to win the forum user of the year award, but please be polite.
Remember what this community is.

stefan

cantsolvethecaptcha Sorry. If only have my schoolenglish. Im not much in priactice, I try to get help from google Translator but this maschine also makes mistake. Sorry if you know a geram cb forum i will go there. I try to integrate myself so that you wont complain anymore.
Ich versuche die Sachen zu lesen mal gehet es gut und mal weniger gut

cantsolvethecaptcha

Ines I understand you and I apologize (also for going off topic).
I just have the impression that he purposely ignores reasonable and polite criticism of his way of engagement.

Joh

Ines Oh, @cantsolvethecaptcha he wrote politely, especially in German.

And I agree with @cantsolvethecaptcha. It would be nice if @stefan would follow the hints.
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