youdontknowme eh, it will be less unpleasant for them than it would be for me"
I think it is different, in a lot of families, mine for example, female masturbation is much more serious than male one. At the end it is something that they do not have to endure.
youdontknowme I do not have the experience to see if the former is true, of course, but that would provide at least some justification for double standards on gender.
It is a good reason more.
Barbara If they are pro-belt it is very logical they want both of you wearing it.
It would be the worst scenario.
Joh Which rules do you have in mind?
No sex with partners as long as she is single. Fair enough.
Angelina but don't have the courage to try it themselves
She believes she doesn't need one.
Angelina would you wear the belt again to get her into the belt?
No. Pointless.
Laura I think @Christine 's case would be different if only mother worn a belt
Coz I'm more chaste than she.
Ines If he does not force anyone and applies same rules to all the girls in his home, he is in his right of it.
that is true, but he should test (even if only for a short time) how the girls feel, so that he can understand the girls' feelings.
so i think this report is very doubtful, at least i can say that my sex drive has not decreased significantly since i stopped having orgasms.
Christine No. Pointless.
you wore the belt for 2 1/2 years, right? actually, if we were being fair, your mother would have to make up for that time now. 
Angelina but he should test (even if only for a short time) how the girls feel, so that he can understand the girls' feelings.
I think there are two aspects. Physical and emotional.
If I remember correctly, your father agreed to wearing a belt for 1 year to learn how it feels. But he only learns the physical aspect.
If the year comes to an end and you tell him: "Well, I have decided this is good for you, so I am not going to unlock your belt, you will stay like this."
Only then he understands the psychological side as well of not having the time under his control and really being stuck with no choice.
For that reason I don't thi K a short period is all that helpful,
i would disagree, of course the period should not be too short, but i still think in general that men masturbate more often than women and not doing it for a year certainly has psychological effects, he even admits that himself. of course 2 weeks or something like that wouldn't do anything, but i think anything longer than 3 months is a good test
Angelina
But you have to agree that being in control by having agreed to the time is different from having no control.
Imagine this:
When the year for your dad is over, you refuse to unlock him. Just add 1 more month but do not tell him it is one more month but make him believe that by his own standards he being single will be kept in the belt until he marries again.
Then, after that extra month you let him out and talk with him about his experience, how different it was to wearing the belt according to conditions he had agreed to, compared to being kept locked believing he will be in this situation involuntarily and for potetially very long.
I think only then he will truly understand how you feel.
Angelina
I would argue to the contrary.
He made you wear that belt without really getting your agreement in the first place.
So why do you then feel you should stick to the agreement t that guarantees him freedom from the belt after the year is over?
By the same logic he compelled you to be in the belt you could do that to him as well, even if only to teach him how it really feels not to have any control.
Angelina your mother would have to make up for that time now
I like this argument.
curious So why do you then feel you should stick to the agreement t that guarantees him freedom from the belt after the year is over?
because my chastity does not come from an agreement, but he has determined that i should be locked up. i am a person who stands by his words, so it will be done as agreed. besides, i can be glad that my father has agreed at all, i will not push my luck
sorry, i see it differently. i think a good father and keyholder should also be a role model, but i think we agree to disagree
Update. I didn't want write about it earlier for the obvious reason, but I have ordered a belt right after taking her measurements. And I have the belt ready now, so she is going to have fun soon.
You'll probably do such things anyway, but for the benefit of some: Treat her like she's human. Try to help her, Offer some encouragement. Act like you care about her, not like a jailer.
curious you keep her locked according to the exact rules you had
The rule is simple. She must not date men without the belt on.
Avery Act like you care about her, not like a jailer.
Yes, I care about her chastity.
Angelina i hope your mum will be persuaded to really lock herself in the belt
She must obey her own rules.
Angelina you don't live with your mum anymore, so i mean you hold the keys
But I visit her often, and ofc she will have an emergency key.
Christine I have ordered a belt right after taking her measurements.
This is an remarkable turn-around in your situation. It's also a large investment of cash, so you must be serious.
Christine And I have the belt ready now, so she is going to have fun soon.
....Or quite a frustrating Xmas/New Year.
In topic "christmas presents":
Christine A chastity belt for my mom.
Are you actually going to give it to her as a Christmas present?! 
Christine She only can cancel it for good.
If she refuses or did cancel it for good, it would mean that she could never again try to convince you to wear.
Christine she knows, that no sex is possible with belt on.
It's the times when the belt is off that become the problem. Eventually belts have to be worn 24/7.
Christine She must obey her own rules.
It is absolutely fair.
Christine She must obey her own rules.
I think so too, but as I said, try not to take revenge on the matter, stay fair and be a good key holder
Christine But I visit her often, and ofc she will have an emergency key.
that she hopefully won't reach without you noticing?
curious If I recall correctly, you were not allowed to have any pleasure while belted?
That's right, the same rules should actually apply to Christine's mother
