Single again chastity

curious When is this supposed to start?

idk. She is trying to avoid.

curious And what rules are there about duration

As long as she is single.

curious and being able to cancel?

Yes, at any time.

Angelina why does she get looser rules than you?

Coz that's not my goal.

Renita Then she should wear an abstinence belt

Non-penetrative sex.

Ines Mother's man.

You mean lover? I want to prevent it.

Christine You mean lover? I want to prevent it.

Or someone that watch for her. Parents, or maybe a brother.

Christine Yes, at any time.

When she can can El any time, she will do that when she fi d's a lover or wants sex. So unless there are strict rules in place about not being able to cancel whenever you just feel like it, the belt is not doing anything apart from maybe being annoying to wear but no other (positive) effect.

Christine

i figured she was looking for a way to make it less hard for her, you should write down clear rules for both of you to follow if she says yes to the belt.

Angelina i figured she was looking for a way to make it less hard for her, you should write down clear rules for both of you to follow if she says yes to the belt.

I agree with Angelina. And as far as I understand the issue, it is about same rules applying to her that she had for you.
If I remember corretly that would mean 24/7 locked up without any chance for sexual relief for as long as she is not engaged or even married. At least that is what I understood were her rules you had to follow when living with her. Or am I mistaken?

Angelina yes and that's a good thing, when the mother is looking for excuses, a good father has to intervene and create the balance.

Although for work reasons I don't come here that often, I can tell you that my mistake was not having introduced the chastity belt much earlier.

Rafael I can tell you that my mistake was not having introduced the chastity belt much earlier.

Agree. However even your elder daughter does not wear it, your family had a good outcome.

Rafael I can tell you that my mistake was not having introduced the chastity belt much earlier.

well, through @Ines and her family you already knew about the belt, why did you wait so long?

Ines Or someone that watch for her. Parents, or maybe a brother.

Yes, there are relatives who would be interested in this, but they would expect the same for me. I doubt that they even know that I don't wear a belt anymore.

curious she will do that when she fi d's a lover or wants sex.

She only can cancel it for good.

Angelina i figured she was looking for a way to make it less hard for her

She was looking for a way not to wear it at all, coz she knows, that no sex is possible with belt on.
Now she swears she doesn't sex, but I have evidence.

curious If I remember corretly that would mean 24/7 locked up without any chance for sexual relief for as long as she is not engaged or even married. At least that is what I understood were her rules you had to follow when living with her.

Yes, but my rules would be different.

Christine Yes, there are relatives who would be interested in this, but they would expect the same for me. I doubt that they even know that I don't wear a belt anymore.

If they are pro-belt it is very logical they want both of you wearing it.

Christine She was looking for a way not to wear it at all, coz she knows, that no sex is possible with belt on.
Now she swears she doesn't sex, but I have evidence.

yes, i almost thought so, unfortunately there are some parents here who talk big about their daughters' chastity but don't have the courage to try it themselves. would you wear the belt again to get her into the belt?

Angelina yes, i almost thought so, unfortunately there are some parents here who talk big about their daughters' chastity but don't have the courage to try it themselves.

Agree, I think that every mother starting to wear it, is a success of the forum.

Ines Agree, I think that every mother starting to wear it, is a success of the forum.

if you would say the same thing about fathers, then i would agree with you

Angelina
Fathers do not have to use a belt.
Female chastity is objective of this forum, obviously we have and we accept make chastity here, but backbone of forum is female chastity.

Ines

i can't quite agree, because a father can also be a role model for his daughter, especially since in many families it is the father who is the driving force behind women's chaste lifestyles

Angelina because a father can also be a role model for his daughter

Not in this. I have lots of influence of my father, but not in behave as a young woman.

Angelina especially since in many families it is the father who is the driving force behind women's chaste lifestyles

If he does not force anyone and applies same rules to all the girls in his home, he is in his right of it.

I have recently heard on a podcast that apparently a woman's sex drive increases with frequent orgasms, whereas a man's increases with waiting for an orgasm. I do not have the experience to see if the former is true, of course, but that would provide at least some justification for double standards on gender.

But I still think you should not expect others to endure what you are not willing to endure yourself regardless of gender, unless of course there is a good reason. Now obviously male orgasm denial is not exactly the same experience as female orgasm denial, but just handwaving it as "eh, it will be less unpleasant for them than it would be for me" seems like a huge cop-out, and that makes it hard to justify it as a good reason.

youdontknowme eh, it will be less unpleasant for them than it would be for me"

I think it is different, in a lot of families, mine for example, female masturbation is much more serious than male one. At the end it is something that they do not have to endure.

youdontknowme I do not have the experience to see if the former is true, of course, but that would provide at least some justification for double standards on gender.

It is a good reason more.