Christine She was looking for a way not to wear it at all, coz she knows, that no sex is possible with belt on.
Now she swears she doesn't sex, but I have evidence.
yes, i almost thought so, unfortunately there are some parents here who talk big about their daughters' chastity but don't have the courage to try it themselves. would you wear the belt again to get her into the belt?
Ines Agree, I think that every mother starting to wear it, is a success of the forum.
I think @Christine 's case would be different if only mother worn a belt
Angelina because a father can also be a role model for his daughter
Not in this. I have lots of influence of my father, but not in behave as a young woman.
Angelina especially since in many families it is the father who is the driving force behind women's chaste lifestyles
If he does not force anyone and applies same rules to all the girls in his home, he is in his right of it.
I have recently heard on a podcast that apparently a woman's sex drive increases with frequent orgasms, whereas a man's increases with waiting for an orgasm. I do not have the experience to see if the former is true, of course, but that would provide at least some justification for double standards on gender.
But I still think you should not expect others to endure what you are not willing to endure yourself regardless of gender, unless of course there is a good reason. Now obviously male orgasm denial is not exactly the same experience as female orgasm denial, but just handwaving it as "eh, it will be less unpleasant for them than it would be for me" seems like a huge cop-out, and that makes it hard to justify it as a good reason.
youdontknowme eh, it will be less unpleasant for them than it would be for me"
I think it is different, in a lot of families, mine for example, female masturbation is much more serious than male one. At the end it is something that they do not have to endure.
youdontknowme I do not have the experience to see if the former is true, of course, but that would provide at least some justification for double standards on gender.
It is a good reason more.
Barbara If they are pro-belt it is very logical they want both of you wearing it.
It would be the worst scenario.
Joh Which rules do you have in mind?
No sex with partners as long as she is single. Fair enough.
Angelina but don't have the courage to try it themselves
She believes she doesn't need one.
Angelina would you wear the belt again to get her into the belt?
No. Pointless.
Laura I think @Christine 's case would be different if only mother worn a belt
Coz I'm more chaste than she.
Ines If he does not force anyone and applies same rules to all the girls in his home, he is in his right of it.
that is true, but he should test (even if only for a short time) how the girls feel, so that he can understand the girls' feelings.
so i think this report is very doubtful, at least i can say that my sex drive has not decreased significantly since i stopped having orgasms.
Christine No. Pointless.
you wore the belt for 2 1/2 years, right? actually, if we were being fair, your mother would have to make up for that time now. 
Angelina but he should test (even if only for a short time) how the girls feel, so that he can understand the girls' feelings.
I think there are two aspects. Physical and emotional.
If I remember correctly, your father agreed to wearing a belt for 1 year to learn how it feels. But he only learns the physical aspect.
If the year comes to an end and you tell him: "Well, I have decided this is good for you, so I am not going to unlock your belt, you will stay like this."
Only then he understands the psychological side as well of not having the time under his control and really being stuck with no choice.
For that reason I don't thi K a short period is all that helpful,
i would disagree, of course the period should not be too short, but i still think in general that men masturbate more often than women and not doing it for a year certainly has psychological effects, he even admits that himself. of course 2 weeks or something like that wouldn't do anything, but i think anything longer than 3 months is a good test
Angelina
But you have to agree that being in control by having agreed to the time is different from having no control.
Imagine this:
When the year for your dad is over, you refuse to unlock him. Just add 1 more month but do not tell him it is one more month but make him believe that by his own standards he being single will be kept in the belt until he marries again.
Then, after that extra month you let him out and talk with him about his experience, how different it was to wearing the belt according to conditions he had agreed to, compared to being kept locked believing he will be in this situation involuntarily and for potetially very long.
I think only then he will truly understand how you feel.
Angelina
I would argue to the contrary.
He made you wear that belt without really getting your agreement in the first place.
So why do you then feel you should stick to the agreement t that guarantees him freedom from the belt after the year is over?
By the same logic he compelled you to be in the belt you could do that to him as well, even if only to teach him how it really feels not to have any control.
Angelina your mother would have to make up for that time now
I like this argument.
curious So why do you then feel you should stick to the agreement t that guarantees him freedom from the belt after the year is over?
because my chastity does not come from an agreement, but he has determined that i should be locked up. i am a person who stands by his words, so it will be done as agreed. besides, i can be glad that my father has agreed at all, i will not push my luck
sorry, i see it differently. i think a good father and keyholder should also be a role model, but i think we agree to disagree
Update. I didn't want write about it earlier for the obvious reason, but I have ordered a belt right after taking her measurements. And I have the belt ready now, so she is going to have fun soon.
