Christine I wouldn't say voluntarily.

Why not? I was under the I pression she could stop wearing any time, but of course at the cost of demonstrating a lack of commitment to her own rules. Or have you arrived at a point where she is an Involuntary wearer but you are not letting her out, no matter what?

      Christine It means embarrassing her.

      Why? Does anyone else in the family know about her belt?

          Angelina but she couldn't have done more than say no

          She could have said that I was not in sense.

          curious Why not?

          She is trying to avoid the belt.

          curious I was under the I pression she could stop wearing any time

          Yes, she can.

          Laura Why?

          Coz the first question would be why she has to wear a chastity belt.

          Laura Does anyone else in the family know about her belt?

          Not in my knowledge. Probably her ex-partners know.

                      Christine And I can't prove, that I don't sleep with guys

                      Does anyone ask?

                      Christine It means embarrassing her.

                      She is a single as you. She doesn't have to explain her previous behavior.

                      Christine why she has to wear a chastity belt

                      Obviously to prevent random sex.

                              Christine She could have said that I was not in sense.

                              yes, but what exactly has changed? the only thing that has changed is that you are now living independently again, nothing has changed in your mother's life, so why didn't she wear a belt 3 years ago, but now?

                                  Renita Does anyone ask?

                                  Mom asks all the time. Also about my relationships. She doubts my chastity.

                                  Angelina why didn't she wear a belt 3 years ago, but now?

                                  No one asked her to wear a chastity belt and I had no idea, that she needed one more than me.

                                        Christine Mom asks all the time. Also about my relationships. She doubts my chastity.

                                        The temptation to tell you that you need a belt is SO strong but I’ll be good, lol.

                                            Christine No one asked her to wear a chastity belt and I had no idea, that she needed one more than me.

                                            well, you were not in a position to demand that, on the other hand, your mother should have had the idea that her rules should also apply to her.

                                                Saintprudence The temptation to tell you that you need a belt is SO strong

                                                Tell me.

                                                Angelina our mother should have had the idea that her rules should also apply to her

                                                She didn't think this way, but she was wrong.

                                                Update. Mom talked to my aunt(her sister), showed her the belt. Aunt asked me to "get dressed" and said that she could take care about both of us if we wish. But she is also single and never married.

                                                      Christine she could take care about both of us if we wish

                                                      Does that mean complete chastity then with no masturbation allowed or only no sex? Or would the aunt decide that based on behaviour etc on the fly?

                                                          Christine

                                                          so your aunt would want both your mother and you to wear a belt? what do you think about this idea?

                                                              Christine Tell me.

                                                              You’re starting to sound like someone who wants to be convinced!

                                                              Christine Aunt asked me to "get dressed" and said that she could take care about both of us if we wish. But she is also single and never married.

                                                              Do you mean she formally requested that you put on your belt? And how did you react to that? I don’t see you easily stepping back into the belt after your hard-won freedom. Even if you probably need and deserve it.

                                                                    Saintprudence I don’t see you easily stepping back into the belt after your hard-won freedom. Even if you probably need and deserve it.

                                                                    i can't see that happening either, unless auntie makes a very good deal with both, besides @Christine has spent enough time in the belt, she doesn't need it, after many years in the belt she deserves freedom 😉

                                                                        curious Does that mean complete chastity then with no masturbation allowed or only no sex?

                                                                        Clearly no masturbation.

                                                                        Angelina so your aunt would want both your mother and you to wear a belt?

                                                                        Yes, to avoid possible conflict between us.

                                                                        Angelina what do you think about this idea?

                                                                        idk. Probably decline.

                                                                        Saintprudence Do you mean she formally requested that you put on your belt?

                                                                        No, just wanted to see how it looked on me.

                                                                        Saintprudence And how did you react to that? I don’t see you easily stepping back into the belt after your hard-won freedom

                                                                        No, it's not about wearing a belt for the purpose.

                                                                        Angelina i can't see that happening either

                                                                        Nothing. Just a conversation.

                                                                                      Christine
                                                                                      Well, I think it depends on your set of values. You said you actually started to actively care for your mother's chastity and not just out of revenge. So it appears you do share some of the values behind chastity, you just don't like the consequences for yourself. That is a double standard, not unlike the one your mother had when she kept you belted while she needed the belt at least as much.
                                                                                      So your aunts proposal too keep both of you belted sounds actually like the right thing to do.

                                                                                          curious

                                                                                          i would even agree, but i also think of the long time @Christine has already had to spend in the belt and against her will. i don't think you can turn an involuntary wearer for years into a voluntary one within a few months.

                                                                                              Angelina
                                                                                              Well, that is the strange thing about chastity belts, I guess.
                                                                                              If it was me, I would decide that I want to follow what I think are my fundamental values. But I know that after some time in the belt I would probably get sexually desperate and would want to get out.
                                                                                              Knowing that is likely to happen, I would in the beginning decide that I should not be released, which means I would turn from voluntary wearer to unvoluntary wearer. But I knew this would happen from the start and I have made the decision that following my values is more important than being able to quit and get some pleasure if I get only desperate enough.