Single again chastity

curious

Christine I wouldn't say voluntarily.

Why not? I was under the I pression she could stop wearing any time, but of course at the cost of demonstrating a lack of commitment to her own rules. Or have you arrived at a point where she is an Involuntary wearer but you are not letting her out, no matter what?

Christine

Angelina but she couldn't have done more than say no

She could have said that I was not in sense.

curious Why not?

She is trying to avoid the belt.

curious I was under the I pression she could stop wearing any time

Yes, she can.

Laura Why?

Coz the first question would be why she has to wear a chastity belt.

Laura Does anyone else in the family know about her belt?

Not in my knowledge. Probably her ex-partners know.

Laura

Christine It means embarrassing her.

Why? Does anyone else in the family know about her belt?

Renita

Christine And I can't prove, that I don't sleep with guys

Does anyone ask?

Christine It means embarrassing her.

She is a single as you. She doesn't have to explain her previous behavior.

Christine why she has to wear a chastity belt

Obviously to prevent random sex.

Angelina

Christine She could have said that I was not in sense.

yes, but what exactly has changed? the only thing that has changed is that you are now living independently again, nothing has changed in your mother's life, so why didn't she wear a belt 3 years ago, but now?

Christine

Renita Does anyone ask?

Mom asks all the time. Also about my relationships. She doubts my chastity.

Angelina why didn't she wear a belt 3 years ago, but now?

No one asked her to wear a chastity belt and I had no idea, that she needed one more than me.

Saintprudence

Christine Mom asks all the time. Also about my relationships. She doubts my chastity.

The temptation to tell you that you need a belt is SO strong but I’ll be good, lol.

Angelina

Christine No one asked her to wear a chastity belt and I had no idea, that she needed one more than me.

well, you were not in a position to demand that, on the other hand, your mother should have had the idea that her rules should also apply to her.

Renita

Christine She doubts my chastity.

And she seems right.

Jonas

Christine Mom asks all the time. Also about my relationships. She doubts my chastity.

Christine Angelina so your aunt would want both your mother and you to wear a belt?

Yes, to avoid possible conflict between us.

Ah. I understand now. Do you think your aunt is right? Do you think you and your mom would fight about this?

Did you fight when you were the one wearing? (If you don't mind my asking!)

Christine

Saintprudence The temptation to tell you that you need a belt is SO strong

Tell me.

Angelina our mother should have had the idea that her rules should also apply to her

She didn't think this way, but she was wrong.

Update. Mom talked to my aunt(her sister), showed her the belt. Aunt asked me to "get dressed" and said that she could take care about both of us if we wish. But she is also single and never married.

curious

Christine she could take care about both of us if we wish

Does that mean complete chastity then with no masturbation allowed or only no sex? Or would the aunt decide that based on behaviour etc on the fly?

Angelina

Christine

so your aunt would want both your mother and you to wear a belt? what do you think about this idea?

Saintprudence

Christine Tell me.

You’re starting to sound like someone who wants to be convinced!

Christine Aunt asked me to "get dressed" and said that she could take care about both of us if we wish. But she is also single and never married.

Do you mean she formally requested that you put on your belt? And how did you react to that? I don’t see you easily stepping back into the belt after your hard-won freedom. Even if you probably need and deserve it.

Christine

curious Does that mean complete chastity then with no masturbation allowed or only no sex?

Clearly no masturbation.

Angelina so your aunt would want both your mother and you to wear a belt?

Yes, to avoid possible conflict between us.

Angelina what do you think about this idea?

idk. Probably decline.

Saintprudence Do you mean she formally requested that you put on your belt?

No, just wanted to see how it looked on me.

Saintprudence And how did you react to that? I don’t see you easily stepping back into the belt after your hard-won freedom

No, it's not about wearing a belt for the purpose.

Angelina i can't see that happening either

Nothing. Just a conversation.

Angelina

Saintprudence I don’t see you easily stepping back into the belt after your hard-won freedom. Even if you probably need and deserve it.

i can't see that happening either, unless auntie makes a very good deal with both, besides @Christine has spent enough time in the belt, she doesn't need it, after many years in the belt she deserves freedom 😉

Renita

Saintprudence after your hard-won freedom

Sexual freedom?

curious

Christine
Well, I think it depends on your set of values. You said you actually started to actively care for your mother's chastity and not just out of revenge. So it appears you do share some of the values behind chastity, you just don't like the consequences for yourself. That is a double standard, not unlike the one your mother had when she kept you belted while she needed the belt at least as much.
So your aunts proposal too keep both of you belted sounds actually like the right thing to do.

Angelina

curious

i would even agree, but i also think of the long time @Christine has already had to spend in the belt and against her will. i don't think you can turn an involuntary wearer for years into a voluntary one within a few months.

Christine

curious That is a double standard, not unlike the one your mother had when she kept you belted while she needed the belt at least as much.

No, it's not, coz there is the reason behind her belt.

curious So your aunts proposal too keep both of you belted sounds actually like the right thing to do

That's why I'm not sure.

Angelina he just wants to show her mother her own rules

If you are talking about abstinence, than yes.

Angelina and not that i want him to live chastely

Do you know about his relationships?

Angelina maybe @Christine can explain it again in more detail.

Explain what? I still don't understand your question. Why does my mom have to wear a chastity belt now? To prevent sex with her boyfriends. Why do I care? Coz it was her expectation from me.

curious

Angelina
Well, that is the strange thing about chastity belts, I guess.
If it was me, I would decide that I want to follow what I think are my fundamental values. But I know that after some time in the belt I would probably get sexually desperate and would want to get out.
Knowing that is likely to happen, I would in the beginning decide that I should not be released, which means I would turn from voluntary wearer to unvoluntary wearer. But I knew this would happen from the start and I have made the decision that following my values is more important than being able to quit and get some pleasure if I get only desperate enough.

Angelina

curious

But you have a positive basic attitude towards the subject of chastity, not @Christine, she just wants to show her mother her own rules

curious

Angelina
Lately she wrote that it is no longer about giving her mother a taste of her own rules but that she actually cares about her chastity and considers it important.

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