Angelina she should help you not to need her help anymore, then you don't have to wear the belt anymore either

She wants me to keep wearing the belt even if I don't depend on her. Ofc I'm not going to.

      Christine

      but that wasn't what was meant at the beginning, was it? wasn't the whole thing meant that you wear the belt because you are dependent on her? so the logical consequence must be that you don't wear the belt anymore when you are independent again, right?

          Angelina wasn't the whole thing meant that you wear the belt because you are dependent on her?

          I don't have a choice but wear it coz I'm dependent on her. But she wants me to wear it coz I'm single again.

          Angelina so the logical consequence must be that you don't wear the belt anymore when you are independent again, right?

          Right, and I will not.

                Christine I don't have a choice but wear it coz I'm dependent on her. But she wants me to wear it coz I'm single again.

                i admit that at this point i can help only poorly. the question is, of course, if you were no longer dependent on her, whether she could still make you continue to wear the belt. you should urgently become an independent single woman.

                    Angelina if you were no longer dependent on her, whether she could still make you continue to wear the belt

                    Ofc, not. I will stop wearing without asking her.

                    Angelina you should urgently become an independent single woman.

                    I know and working on it hard.

                          Christine Ofc, not. I will stop wearing without asking her.

                          You don't have to ask her either, but you should talk to her then.

                          Christine I know and working on it hard.

                          I hope you have success soon, you have been wearing the belt for too long.

                                Megan It isn't a race and with Covid some things are slow

                                no i have to disagree, covid is not an excuse for not caring about your freedoms and independence.

                                    Angelina no i have to disagree, covid is not an excuse for not caring about your freedoms and independence.

                                    You are right nothing is wrong with covid I am saying there is no race to get rich

                                        Angelina but you should talk to her then

                                        I did. She wants me to keep wearing coz it's good for me.

                                        Megan It isn't a race and with Covid some things are slow

                                        Actually not related.

                                              Megan I am saying there is no race to get rich

                                              Of course not and there are many obstacles and getting rich was never mentioned, only becoming independent. I just want to say that covid should not be an excuse

                                              Christine I did. She wants me to keep wearing coz it's good for me.

                                              I meant that you should talk to her once you're independent. I just want to avoid you just breaking the belt and leaving because it would damage your relationship with your mother (so it was meant more as advice for the future)

                                                    5 days later

                                                    Angelina I meant that you should talk to her once you're independent

                                                    I will not talk but claim in this case.

                                                    Angelina I just want to avoid you just breaking the belt

                                                    She is not so dumb to force me to break the belt.

                                                    Angelina it would damage your relationship with your mother

                                                    It would only be her fault.

                                                            Christine

                                                            try to see it from both sides, at least she took care of you after you didn't know where to go. you should quickly become independent again to get out of the belt, but not to sever your connection with your mother.

                                                                Christine I will not talk but claim in this case.

                                                                What if she declines?

                                                                Christine She is not so dumb to force me to break the belt.

                                                                Because you will not break it.

                                                                      Angelina you should quickly become independent again to get out of the belt, but not to sever your connection with your mother.

                                                                      I think both together is impossible in her case

                                                                          Laura I think both together is impossible in her case

                                                                          I can say it is hard as my situation is very very similar

                                                                              Angelina at least she took care of you after you didn't know where to go

                                                                              Right, That's why I don't hate her for the belt.

                                                                              Angelina but not to sever your connection with your mother

                                                                              I hope so.

                                                                              Renita What if she declines?

                                                                              I would have to break up with her.

                                                                              Renita Because you will not break it.

                                                                              What do you mean?

                                                                              saras I can say it is hard as my situation is very very similar

                                                                              Do you still live with your father?

                                                                                          Laura I think both together is impossible in her case

                                                                                          But then it is the mother's fault if she continues to be stubborn.

                                                                                          saras I can say it is hard as my situation is very very similar

                                                                                          why? the deal was that as long as you live with your father you wear the equipment and when you are independent again you don't.

                                                                                          Christine Right, That's why I don't hate her for the belt.

                                                                                          that sounds good, but you can hate her for the belt (i do with my father too), but you should love her as a whole. it's the same with me, i love my father but i hate his decision for the chastity devices.

                                                                                                  Christine Do you still live with your father?

                                                                                                  yes i do

                                                                                                  Angelina why? the deal was that as long as you live with your father you wear the equipment and when you are independent again you don't.

                                                                                                  and i am sure she can remove hers when she moves out