Single again chastity

James

Angelina so she helped you to find a job that pays badly so you don't have enough money to move out? then keep the job but continue to search for a better one on the side. you can put your current job as a reference

I honestly don’t get Christine. I am not sure she really wants help or to be unbelted.

Joh

James I get the same impression.

Angelina

James

it is similar to @Helen and @Renita, she usually writes very short answers, which would not be a problem if they were clear, but this makes it difficult. but i will still try to help if possible. 🙂

Laura

James I am not sure she really wants help or to be unbelted.

She wants to move out

Christine

James I am not sure she really wants help or to be unbelted.

Last.

Angelina

Christine Last.

what do you mean??

Christine

Angelina what do you mean??

To be unbelted.

Angelina

Christine To be unbelted.

the deal was that you wear the belt as long as you need her help, she should help you not to need her help anymore, then you don't have to wear the belt anymore either

Christine

Angelina she should help you not to need her help anymore, then you don't have to wear the belt anymore either

She wants me to keep wearing the belt even if I don't depend on her. Ofc I'm not going to.

Angelina

Christine

but that wasn't what was meant at the beginning, was it? wasn't the whole thing meant that you wear the belt because you are dependent on her? so the logical consequence must be that you don't wear the belt anymore when you are independent again, right?

Christine

Angelina wasn't the whole thing meant that you wear the belt because you are dependent on her?

I don't have a choice but wear it coz I'm dependent on her. But she wants me to wear it coz I'm single again.

Angelina so the logical consequence must be that you don't wear the belt anymore when you are independent again, right?

Right, and I will not.

Angelina

Christine I don't have a choice but wear it coz I'm dependent on her. But she wants me to wear it coz I'm single again.

i admit that at this point i can help only poorly. the question is, of course, if you were no longer dependent on her, whether she could still make you continue to wear the belt. you should urgently become an independent single woman.

Christine

Angelina if you were no longer dependent on her, whether she could still make you continue to wear the belt

Ofc, not. I will stop wearing without asking her.

Angelina you should urgently become an independent single woman.

I know and working on it hard.

Angelina

Christine Ofc, not. I will stop wearing without asking her.

You don't have to ask her either, but you should talk to her then.

Christine I know and working on it hard.

I hope you have success soon, you have been wearing the belt for too long.

Megan

Christine I know and working on it hard.

It isn't a race and with Covid some things are slow

Christine

Angelina but you should talk to her then

I did. She wants me to keep wearing coz it's good for me.

Megan It isn't a race and with Covid some things are slow

Actually not related.

Angelina

Megan It isn't a race and with Covid some things are slow

no i have to disagree, covid is not an excuse for not caring about your freedoms and independence.

Megan

Angelina no i have to disagree, covid is not an excuse for not caring about your freedoms and independence.

You are right nothing is wrong with covid I am saying there is no race to get rich

Angelina

Megan I am saying there is no race to get rich

Of course not and there are many obstacles and getting rich was never mentioned, only becoming independent. I just want to say that covid should not be an excuse

Christine I did. She wants me to keep wearing coz it's good for me.

I meant that you should talk to her once you're independent. I just want to avoid you just breaking the belt and leaving because it would damage your relationship with your mother (so it was meant more as advice for the future)

Christine

Angelina I meant that you should talk to her once you're independent

I will not talk but claim in this case.

Angelina I just want to avoid you just breaking the belt

She is not so dumb to force me to break the belt.

Angelina it would damage your relationship with your mother

It would only be her fault.

Angelina

Christine

try to see it from both sides, at least she took care of you after you didn't know where to go. you should quickly become independent again to get out of the belt, but not to sever your connection with your mother.

Renita

Christine I will not talk but claim in this case.

What if she declines?

Christine She is not so dumb to force me to break the belt.

Because you will not break it.

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