Single again chastity

Angelina so she helped you to find a job that pays badly so you don't have enough money to move out? then keep the job but continue to search for a better one on the side. you can put your current job as a reference

I honestly don’t get Christine. I am not sure she really wants help or to be unbelted.

James I get the same impression.

James

it is similar to @Helen and @Renita, she usually writes very short answers, which would not be a problem if they were clear, but this makes it difficult. but i will still try to help if possible.

James I am not sure she really wants help or to be unbelted.

Last.

Christine Last.

what do you mean??

Angelina what do you mean??

To be unbelted.

Christine To be unbelted.

the deal was that you wear the belt as long as you need her help, she should help you not to need her help anymore, then you don't have to wear the belt anymore either

Angelina she should help you not to need her help anymore, then you don't have to wear the belt anymore either

She wants me to keep wearing the belt even if I don't depend on her. Ofc I'm not going to.

Christine

but that wasn't what was meant at the beginning, was it? wasn't the whole thing meant that you wear the belt because you are dependent on her? so the logical consequence must be that you don't wear the belt anymore when you are independent again, right?

Christine I don't have a choice but wear it coz I'm dependent on her. But she wants me to wear it coz I'm single again.

i admit that at this point i can help only poorly. the question is, of course, if you were no longer dependent on her, whether she could still make you continue to wear the belt. you should urgently become an independent single woman.

Angelina if you were no longer dependent on her, whether she could still make you continue to wear the belt

Ofc, not. I will stop wearing without asking her.

Angelina you should urgently become an independent single woman.

I know and working on it hard.

Christine Ofc, not. I will stop wearing without asking her.

You don't have to ask her either, but you should talk to her then.

Christine I know and working on it hard.

I hope you have success soon, you have been wearing the belt for too long.

Christine I know and working on it hard.

It isn't a race and with Covid some things are slow

Megan It isn't a race and with Covid some things are slow

no i have to disagree, covid is not an excuse for not caring about your freedoms and independence.

Angelina no i have to disagree, covid is not an excuse for not caring about your freedoms and independence.

You are right nothing is wrong with covid I am saying there is no race to get rich

Angelina but you should talk to her then

I did. She wants me to keep wearing coz it's good for me.

Megan It isn't a race and with Covid some things are slow

Actually not related.

Megan I am saying there is no race to get rich

Of course not and there are many obstacles and getting rich was never mentioned, only becoming independent. I just want to say that covid should not be an excuse

Christine I did. She wants me to keep wearing coz it's good for me.

I meant that you should talk to her once you're independent. I just want to avoid you just breaking the belt and leaving because it would damage your relationship with your mother (so it was meant more as advice for the future)