Angelina i think interference by the authorities would only make things worse instead of better

You don't know that because it is an assumption and has to be proven. It can also be totally wrong.

    Angelina if she says you should wear the belt because of your dependency, it's a different argument than if she says you should wear it because you're a single woman.

    She says one thing, but the actual reason is different. Nothing unusual.

      Joh You don't know that because it is an assumption and has to be proven. It can also be totally wrong.

      of course it's just my guess, that's why i don't recommend anything to anyone in this matter.

      Christine She says one thing, but the actual reason is different.

      She says it the way it suits her and that is not ok, she should put her reasons clearly on the table.

        Angelina she should put her reasons clearly on the table.

        Her reason is very clear, she just wants to belt me.

          Christine Her reason is very clear, she just wants to belt me.

          but for what reason? what does she think would happen if you didn't wear a belt? and above all, why wouldn't the same reasons apply to your mother?

            Renita Sex? 😃

            sex of course, but it can happen to the mother just like @Christine herself. it would not be an argument that only Christine needs a belt. 😉

            Angelina what does she think would happen if you didn't wear a belt?

            Not a good girl's behavior.

            Angelina and above all, why wouldn't the same reasons apply to your mother?

            Coz she has authority.

              Christine Not a good girl's behavior.

              well, your mother can also behave in such a way that she is not a "good girl". your mother's arguments are not completely wrong from her point of view, but they also apply to her. 😉

                Angelina your mother's arguments are not completely wrong from her point of view, but they also apply to her

                You're right, but I don't want her to wear a chastity belt, but get rid of mine.

                  Christine You're right, but I don't want her to wear a chastity belt, but get rid of mine.

                  understandable, but wouldn't it at least give you a little "satisfaction" if your mother also wore a belt and isn't this goal more realistic?

                    Christine You're right, but I don't want her to wear a chastity belt, but get rid of mine.

                    It could lead to her rethinking your situation and letting you out when she finds out for herself what it means.

                    Angelina
                    I do not know if her mother is married, but in my case I would talk to authority figures about her mother, grandparents, or boyfriend, and bring it up.
                    It seems to me very unfair and very arbitrary.

                      Christine You're right, but I don't want her to wear a chastity belt, but get rid of mine.

                      Hi 👋 I've noticed you're becoming less tolerant of it hey?
                      Like earlier it was the shield - now complaints about the whole belt?

                      What's going on with your mum is messed up - but you can get out yeah - just get it cut?
                      Like if it's really not what you want change it!

                      Or maybe find peace?
                      Like you're wearing it anyway ... so forget mum don't let it be about her. Let it be something you're doing. I barely know for me so don't know what's possible for you but are you fighting it and not giving it a chance?

                        Jen Hi 👋 I've noticed you're becoming less tolerant of it hey?
                        Like earlier it was the shield - now complaints about the whole belt?

                        I think the same, and I am surprised that this situation continues.

                        Angelina but wouldn't it at least give you a little "satisfaction"

                        I wish it, but it's not realistic in this situation.

                        Ines I do not know if her mother is married

                        She is not.

                        Ines about her mother, grandparents, or boyfriend, and bring it up

                        I'm thinking about them.

                        Jen Like earlier it was the shield - now complaints about the whole belt?

                        No, the whole belt from day one.

                        Jen Like you're wearing it anyway ...

                        If it was just a bondage item, but it prevents things.

                        Jen but are you fighting it and not giving it a chance?

                        A chance for what?

                          Christine I'm thinking about them.

                          If they know about your situation I don't know how they allow her not to have to wear one.
                          My husband took a long time to make the decision, but as he says "what is good for one is good for all".
                          In the end, I am beginning to be convinced that it is better that the rules on this are set by the man of the house, they may be strict, but in the end they are fairer, like in my house we are all equal and we all have the same rules.

                          Christine No, the whole belt from day one.

                          As everyone here.

                            Jen Like earlier it was the shield

                            It was me.

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                            Christine A chance for what?

                            A chance to feel peace and happiness about it. To know you're doing something special.

                            Ines I do not know if her mother is married, but in my case I would talk to authority figures about her mother, grandparents, or boyfriend, and bring it up.

                            well, @Christine is very financially dependent, I don't think it would do any good, she would have sexual freedom but no roof over her head. Besides, you can also simply break open a belt, so that shouldn't be the problem.

                            Christine I'm thinking about them.

                            I think it would be more important for you to find someone to support you until you are (financially) independent again. Is there no one else than your mother? if yes, then ask that person for help, break the belt and that's it.