Angelina then your mother has a double standard that i really don't want to tolerate

She does, coz I depend on her.

Ines just that wearing a belt does not make sense to her.

Yes, in principle.

Saintprudence I don’t believe Christine’s mom is married

She is not.

    Christine She does, coz I depend on her.

    but that's a different argument. if she says you should wear the belt because of your dependency, it's a different argument than if she says you should wear it because you're a single woman.
    the first argument applies only to you, but the second applies to both of you

      Angelina This is one of the real reasons I'm so fascinated by hypothetical community chastity laws. Power is a weird thing; I believe everyone should be answerable to someone else. It troubles me that people like Christine's mother or your father can enforce reluctant or unwilling chastity lockup on other adults simply because they can, by enforcing financial authority with no oversight.

        Saintprudence I believe everyone should be answerable to someone else. It troubles me that people like Christine's mother or your father can enforce reluctant or unwilling chastity lockup

        With @Angelina it is happen while both do not accept the authority. Her father by forcing his will on her and by @Angelina she believes it is nothing the government should have a saying in it.

          Saintprudence

          of course it can change if @Christine puts some pressure on it, that's how i managed to convince my father to try it for a year. if i shy away from the discussion then i can't achieve anything. so @Christine put arguments on your mother's table that she also wears a belt, at least as long as she forces you to do so.

          Joh With @Angelina it is happen while both do not accept the authority. Her father by forcing his will on her and by @Angelina she believes it is nothing the government should have a saying in it.

          your statement is not wrong, but the main reason is that i think interference by the authorities would only make things worse instead of better. i would have gone to the police a long time ago if i thought it would improve my situation.

          • Joh replied to this.

            Angelina i think interference by the authorities would only make things worse instead of better

            You don't know that because it is an assumption and has to be proven. It can also be totally wrong.

              Angelina if she says you should wear the belt because of your dependency, it's a different argument than if she says you should wear it because you're a single woman.

              She says one thing, but the actual reason is different. Nothing unusual.

                Joh You don't know that because it is an assumption and has to be proven. It can also be totally wrong.

                of course it's just my guess, that's why i don't recommend anything to anyone in this matter.

                Christine She says one thing, but the actual reason is different.

                She says it the way it suits her and that is not ok, she should put her reasons clearly on the table.

                  Angelina she should put her reasons clearly on the table.

                  Her reason is very clear, she just wants to belt me.

                    Christine Her reason is very clear, she just wants to belt me.

                    but for what reason? what does she think would happen if you didn't wear a belt? and above all, why wouldn't the same reasons apply to your mother?

                      Renita Sex? 😃

                      sex of course, but it can happen to the mother just like @Christine herself. it would not be an argument that only Christine needs a belt. 😉

                      Angelina what does she think would happen if you didn't wear a belt?

                      Not a good girl's behavior.

                      Angelina and above all, why wouldn't the same reasons apply to your mother?

                      Coz she has authority.

                        Christine Not a good girl's behavior.

                        well, your mother can also behave in such a way that she is not a "good girl". your mother's arguments are not completely wrong from her point of view, but they also apply to her. 😉

                          Angelina your mother's arguments are not completely wrong from her point of view, but they also apply to her

                          You're right, but I don't want her to wear a chastity belt, but get rid of mine.

                            Christine You're right, but I don't want her to wear a chastity belt, but get rid of mine.

                            understandable, but wouldn't it at least give you a little "satisfaction" if your mother also wore a belt and isn't this goal more realistic?

                              Christine You're right, but I don't want her to wear a chastity belt, but get rid of mine.

                              It could lead to her rethinking your situation and letting you out when she finds out for herself what it means.

                              Angelina
                              I do not know if her mother is married, but in my case I would talk to authority figures about her mother, grandparents, or boyfriend, and bring it up.
                              It seems to me very unfair and very arbitrary.

                                Christine You're right, but I don't want her to wear a chastity belt, but get rid of mine.

                                Hi 👋 I've noticed you're becoming less tolerant of it hey?
                                Like earlier it was the shield - now complaints about the whole belt?

                                What's going on with your mum is messed up - but you can get out yeah - just get it cut?
                                Like if it's really not what you want change it!

                                Or maybe find peace?
                                Like you're wearing it anyway ... so forget mum don't let it be about her. Let it be something you're doing. I barely know for me so don't know what's possible for you but are you fighting it and not giving it a chance?

                                  Jen Hi 👋 I've noticed you're becoming less tolerant of it hey?
                                  Like earlier it was the shield - now complaints about the whole belt?

                                  I think the same, and I am surprised that this situation continues.