Angelina is there anyone besides your mother you can live with until you recover financially?

It's possible, but not for a long time.

    Christine It's possible, but not for a long time.

    are there no authorities in your country that could support you financially or get you a job. or at least pay you a share if you were to live with friends?

      Angelina are there no authorities in your country that could support you financially

      Plenty of them, but I'm not ready to fall so low. The situation is not so bad yet.

        Christine Plenty of them, but I'm not ready to fall so low. The situation is not so bad yet.

        so you see it as more humiliating than being locked up in a chastity belt by your mother?

          Angelina so you see it as more humiliating than being locked up in a chastity belt by your mother?

          Ofc, it would make more troubles than a chastity belt.

            Christine Ofc, it would make more troubles than a chastity belt.

            i see it a little differently, then you would at least have some money and be free of the belt, but of course you would then have to follow their conditions.

              Angelina i see it a little differently, then you would at least have some money and be free of the belt, but of course you would then have to follow their conditions.

              The :flag_πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έa is different from other countries even if they say it's the richest (or at least has the most bombs and guns) the smart rich don't pay taxes and so no one knows where the taxes go so if people need something they have to sort of get in line and fight and they never know what they will get until afterwards. Like medical bills, somebody got a stomach worm and just had to get some medicine and it turned out to be a $1MM bill you only know how much the state will pay afterwards after you get in line for years to fight with them.

              Although @Christine have you found anything you can do for work? That won't pay enough to live but it can get you something to feel good getting out of the house??? 🀷

                Megan

                i know a bit about how the system is set up in the us thanks to my girlfriend, so i asked @Christine. she said it is possible to get this support. i agree though that a real job would be better

                  Angelina we might get something we might not. We have no way of knowing.
                  We might get help with the water or power or a job one month but not the next. No idea?

                  It is easier to work and they say no one wants to work and that is true to but when benefits get cut suddenly there are a ton of people who want to work until the benefits or unemployment get turned back on again. So you have no idea what they will do. If you make $ off sales commission that's great but then you should have a husband or someone who has a but more pay and a bit more stable. Although regardless of politics the holidays are still pretty pumped

                    Megan

                    of course, I have suggested to @Christine several times to work or to further her education, but she does not seem to have access to either at the moment, so I asked for state help, which I am not a fan of either.

                    Angelina then you would at least have some money and be free of the belt, but of course you would then have to follow their conditions

                    It's a different kind of money.

                    Megan Although @Christine have you found anything you can do for work?

                    Yes, I have.

                    Megan That won't pay enough to live but it can get you something to feel good getting out of the house???

                    Correct. But the housing market becomes better.

                    Angelina she said it is possible to get this support.

                    It's possible, but it's not like in EU.

                      Christine Yes, I have.

                      so you have a new job? that sounds great, i hope you will soon have enough money to live alone and without a belt πŸ˜ƒ

                        Angelina so you have a new job? that sounds great

                        Yes, for a long time. The job market is great now.

                        Angelina i hope you will soon have enough money to live alone

                        I hope too. Thanks Joe Biden for affordable housing.

                          Christine Yes, for a long time. The job market is great now.

                          Christine I hope too. Thanks Joe Biden for affordable housing.

                          wow, that sounds really great, that's the best news from you in a long time (i think since you joined the forum). good luck further on πŸ˜ƒ

                            Angelina wow, that sounds really great, that's the best news from you in a long time

                            Thank you. I hope so too.

                            a month later

                            Christine I take it the belt is coming off the day you move to your new place.

                            Christine I'm moving out next week.

                            wow, that is really super great πŸ˜ƒ

                            Can I ask what that means for the belt?

                            Christine I'm moving out next week.

                            Well okay.
                            Please take care, so we can be happy for you and share the good news.