Angelina who exactly are you talking about?
Who is supposed to rescue me from the belt.
Owl but if your mother actually praised your belting as an achievement when talking to them, this sounds to me as a pretty logical starting point for the "Good for one single, good for all single"-argumentation
Other single female relatives are not belted.
Yolanda I don't think it's a problem of credibility, but of coherence
Coherence? Please elaborate.
Angelina why do your relatives think what your mother is doing is good?
Coz it works as intended.
Angelina do you have any friends you could go to and who could support you to become independent again, i.e. bridge your financial problems until you can take care of yourself again?
Nobody would do it without having something back. Only a boyfriend.