Single again chastity

Avery

bdsamm I don't want to get lynched. Just making a legal point.

You won't get lynched in the US. What you said is undeniably true here.

bdsamm

it seemed that some on here thought I was holding the Spears case up as a good example.

Ines

bdsamm
Yes.
In the end it is the mother who manages the girls' belt.
So there is no excuse for a woman who believes in and participates in seat belting for her daughters not to wear one.
In the end, when the rules are set, it is only fair if everyone has the same ones, so the mother and daughters must wear it.
Another thing is the girls, we do not set any rules, so we are not obliged.
And if the mother does not want to, it must be the father who makes justice prevail, as @Rafael did or the father of @kat_anders or @Abby82 .

Angelina

youdontknowme They probably do, but if we appointed conservators for every mentally disordered celebrity, we would run out of both conservators and free celebrities. The barrier to interfering in a person's autonomy should be very, very high.

bdsamm I don't want to get lynched. Just making a legal point.

all right, you're both right. it's just that in this example a woman who has extreme mental problems was put under the guardianship of a man who also has mental problems. that's exactly what should be prevented. i see a similar situation here as with @Lukas' sister and her parents.

Ines And if the mother does not want to, it must be the father who makes justice prevail, as @Rafael did or the father of @kat_anders or @Abby82 .

yes and that's a good thing, when the mother is looking for excuses, a good father has to intervene and create the balance. 😉

Christine Abstinence, but not yet.

so no sex, but occasional breaks to masturbate? why does she get looser rules than you?

Christine

Ines Yes, if the husband allow it to them.

And if no husband?

curious What rules will apply for your mum wearing?

Abstinence, but not yet.

curious Belt only or thigh bands / bra as well?

Belt only.

curious

Christine Abstinence, but not yet.

When is this supposed to start?
And what rules are there about duration and being able to cancel?

youdontknowme

Christine Abstinence, but not yet.

That sounds like Saint Augustine of Hippo:

Lord, grant me chastity and continence, but not yet.

Renita

Christine Abstinence

Then she should wear an abstinence belt.

Christine

curious When is this supposed to start?

idk. She is trying to avoid.

curious And what rules are there about duration

As long as she is single.

curious and being able to cancel?

Yes, at any time.

Angelina why does she get looser rules than you?

Coz that's not my goal.

Renita Then she should wear an abstinence belt

Non-penetrative sex.

Ines Mother's man.

You mean lover? I want to prevent it.

Rafael

Angelina yes and that's a good thing, when the mother is looking for excuses, a good father has to intervene and create the balance. 😉

Although for work reasons I don't come here that often, I can tell you that my mistake was not having introduced the chastity belt much earlier.

Ines

Christine And if no husband?

Mother's man.

Ines

Christine You mean lover? I want to prevent it.

Or someone that watch for her. Parents, or maybe a brother.

curious

Christine Yes, at any time.

When she can can El any time, she will do that when she fi d's a lover or wants sex. So unless there are strict rules in place about not being able to cancel whenever you just feel like it, the belt is not doing anything apart from maybe being annoying to wear but no other (positive) effect.

Angelina

Christine

i figured she was looking for a way to make it less hard for her, you should write down clear rules for both of you to follow if she says yes to the belt. 😉

Christine

Ines Or someone that watch for her. Parents, or maybe a brother.

Yes, there are relatives who would be interested in this, but they would expect the same for me. I doubt that they even know that I don't wear a belt anymore.

curious she will do that when she fi d's a lover or wants sex.

She only can cancel it for good.

Angelina i figured she was looking for a way to make it less hard for her

She was looking for a way not to wear it at all, coz she knows, that no sex is possible with belt on.
Now she swears she doesn't sex, but I have evidence.

curious If I remember corretly that would mean 24/7 locked up without any chance for sexual relief for as long as she is not engaged or even married. At least that is what I understood were her rules you had to follow when living with her.

Yes, but my rules would be different.

curious

Angelina i figured she was looking for a way to make it less hard for her, you should write down clear rules for both of you to follow if she says yes to the belt. 😉

I agree with Angelina. And as far as I understand the issue, it is about same rules applying to her that she had for you.
If I remember corretly that would mean 24/7 locked up without any chance for sexual relief for as long as she is not engaged or even married. At least that is what I understood were her rules you had to follow when living with her. Or am I mistaken?

Ines

Rafael I can tell you that my mistake was not having introduced the chastity belt much earlier.

Agree. However even your elder daughter does not wear it, your family had a good outcome.

Angelina

Rafael I can tell you that my mistake was not having introduced the chastity belt much earlier.

well, through @Ines and her family you already knew about the belt, why did you wait so long?

Rafael

Angelina well, through @Ines and her family you already knew about the belt, why did you wait so long?

Well, I thought it was impossible for it to work.
I imagined it as something complicated and that it would not work.
It wasn't until @Raquel proposed that she use the belt and I saw how even with the somewhat random rules that my wife put on it the belt worked, that I realized my mistake.

Barbara

Christine Yes, there are relatives who would be interested in this, but they would expect the same for me. I doubt that they even know that I don't wear a belt anymore.

If they are pro-belt it is very logical they want both of you wearing it.

Joh

Christine Yes, but my rules would be different.

Which rules do you have in mind?

Angelina

Christine She was looking for a way not to wear it at all, coz she knows, that no sex is possible with belt on.
Now she swears she doesn't sex, but I have evidence.

yes, i almost thought so, unfortunately there are some parents here who talk big about their daughters' chastity but don't have the courage to try it themselves. would you wear the belt again to get her into the belt?

Jonas

Christine I have ordered a belt right after taking her measurements.

This is an remarkable turn-around in your situation. It's also a large investment of cash, so you must be serious.

Christine And I have the belt ready now, so she is going to have fun soon.

....Or quite a frustrating Xmas/New Year.

In topic "christmas presents":

Christine A chastity belt for my mom.

Are you actually going to give it to her as a Christmas present?! 🎁

Christine She only can cancel it for good.

If she refuses or did cancel it for good, it would mean that she could never again try to convince you to wear.

Christine she knows, that no sex is possible with belt on.

It's the times when the belt is off that become the problem. Eventually belts have to be worn 24/7.

Christine She must obey her own rules.

It is absolutely fair.

Christine

Barbara If they are pro-belt it is very logical they want both of you wearing it.

It would be the worst scenario.

Joh Which rules do you have in mind?

No sex with partners as long as she is single. Fair enough.

Angelina but don't have the courage to try it themselves

She believes she doesn't need one.

Angelina would you wear the belt again to get her into the belt?

No. Pointless.

Laura I think @Christine 's case would be different if only mother worn a belt

Coz I'm more chaste than she.

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