Single again chastity

Renita

Christine No, it's not related.

What would motivate you to wear it again?

Christine

Jonas What did she say in response?!!

That I was crazy.

Renita What would motivate you to wear it again?

If I have sex.

Angelina did she try it immediately or did she refuse at first?

Yes, we tried it immediately.

Angelina what happens now?

I left her a belt. Ofc without the keys.

Angelina when and how often should she wear the belt now?

Steady. Hopefully 24/7 soon.

Angelina

Christine And I did.

can you write a little more about this? how did she react? did she try it immediately or did she refuse at first? what happens now? when and how often should she wear the belt now? sorry for the many questions 😅

Angelina

Christine I left her a belt. Ofc without the keys.

how do you know if she is wearing the belt again now, did she call you for cleaning breaks or what?

Renita

Christine If I have sex.

Then you don't need to wait, put it on now.

Christine

Angelina how do you know if she is wearing the belt again now, did she call you for cleaning breaks or what?

She doesn't have to lock it. Also I see her often.

curious

Christine She doesn't have to lock it.

Ehm. Wearing a chastity belt but not locking it?
Isn't that a bit like setting the dinner table but not eating dinner?

I mean, what´s the point of a chastity belt if you can take it off like normal underpants in 3 seconds?

Angelina

Christine She doesn't have to lock it. Also I see her often.

Then you should discuss clear rules about when and how she should wear the belt and how this can be organised.

Avery And as usual you make no allowance for girls wanting to do this and being able to exert some self-control.

But the situation with @Christine's mother is quite different from yours.

Andrew

Christine She doesn't have to lock it. Also I see her often.

Wouldn't it be better to leave her a key so she can open and close the chastity belt as needed? The need to open the lock is an additional obstacle, although mostly symbolic.

youdontknowme

curious I mean, what´s the point of a chastity belt if you can take it off like normal underpants in 3 seconds?

Staying in the habit of wearing it, and having something hard in the way of wandering hands.

Avery

curious I mean, what´s the point of a chastity belt if you can take it off like normal underpants in 3 seconds?

It's helped me a lot in weak moments, 'specially at night.

And it is kind of like Ramadan. The discomfort and inconvenience reminds one of how one wants to live one's life and helps one concentrate.

And as usual you make no allowance for girls wanting to do this and being able to exert some self-control. Everyone must be locked up.

Christine

curious I mean, what´s the point of a chastity belt if you can take it off like normal underpants in 3 seconds?

I was asked about the current status. She will be locked soon.

Andrew Wouldn't it be better to leave her a key so she can open and close the chastity belt as needed?

It's called emergency key. Otherwise she is not supposed to take it off.

Renita Then you don't need to wait, put it on now.

I hope it wouldn't happen.

curious

Avery It's helped me a lot in weak moments, 'specially at night.

This was not about you but about @Christine mom and that she should follow her own rules.
If I remember correctly, her rules pretty much were locked 24/7 while single with zero orgasms allowed.
So it is not me asking for that but I simply point out that not locking her belt does nothing to make her live according to her own rules.

Avery

Angelina But the situation with @Christine's mother is quite different from yours.

OK. Just got carried away. One sentence too many.

Avery

curious This was not about you

True enough, but I don't like to miss any opportunity to oppose your seeming view that every girl need be locked in a belt.

curious

Avery
Not my opinion but your obviously skewed interpretation of some things I wrote.
Besides, but that is not the point here, when it comes to belts I think that rules are supposed to be equal for both genders.

Avery

curious when it comes to belts I think that rules are supposed to be equal for both genders.

Can't see why. Girls can get pregnant, guys can't. 1/4 of the world dresses women to the teeth and covers their hair, guys go about as normal, in the west many fathers secretly (or not so secretly) feel pride when their teenage sons get something [sex that is], and anger when their daughters are the ones getting got [sex that is].

No matter how you slice it, it is the girls who need protection (if they are amenable to it).

Angelina

we should never forget in this case that @Christine's mother kept her daughter in a belt for years against her will only because @Christine lived with her again. i think we must not compare the rules with a girl who voluntarily locks herself in a belt.

curious

Avery
Depends on your perspective. You consider the belt as means to protect yourself. But a locked man is no threat to you and then you don't need to protect yourself.
But I did not think about protection but rather in terms of the benefits of waiting with sex until you find the right partner for a long term relationship, potentially even marriage. Strengthening emotional connection and not falling for the quick but superficial sexual attraction instead.

Angelina

Avery No matter how you slice it, it is the girls who need protection

maybe need is the wrong word, because everything you describe comes from social contexts or religious motivations, if you change the origin of these problems, these differences between girls and boys no longer exist

Avery

curious but rather in terms of the benefits of waiting with sex until you find the right partner for a long term relationship, potentially even marriage. Strengthening emotional connection and not falling for the quick but superficial sexual attraction instead.

Possibly our only real disagreement then is on the use of the belt in achieving the above objective. I use it as a tool to help me through periods when I get randy. You seem to think one needs it all the time.

curious

Avery
I think that situations might occur where self control is not strong enough to actively make a decision pro chastity in that situation. For that reason I would indeed advocate for using the belt on a 24/7 basis with periods of unlocking limited to times when it is almost certain nothing will happen that might be regretted later. That way finding oneself in a situation overwhelming the baseline decision for chastity, the belt will stop any such attempts and overturning the decision pro chastity cannot occur on impulse but only with pre planning as a well considered decision.

Avery

curious I think that situations might occur where self control is not strong enough to actively make a decision pro chastity

I have been straightforward about having had some fails, (but none with boys).

curious For that reason I would indeed advocate for using the belt on a 24/7 basis

As I have said, and you have denied as recently as a day ago, you want everybody in belts. It's a difficult task. One dusts oneself off and keeps trying.

curious the belt will stop any such attempts

As I've said I keep the belt handy and use it fairly often at night in bed when the hands begin to wander.

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