Carlos Well i had a chat with my partner the other night about not wearing the belt until hers arrives and that did not go well at all. The idea was totally show down when she said the belt is here and there is no reason that I should not be wearing it when she is not about.
So far you have been wronged. The fact that happened until now doesn't mean it should continue.
She went the usual battery of reasons fear of being cheated on, anxiety etc. She is the type of person that likes to be in control of everything and will plan everything out in meticulous details. Even with her wearing a belt eventually herself she is still the one that is pushing this forward.
Her problem, not your. She needs to start copying with this. @carlos, you want to stay belted for the rest of your life? Because this is what is happening. The more you stay, the weaker your will became, the more you became accustomed to imprisonment
I brought up the subject of the conditions when her belt arrives and she was not particularly happy. I proposed that we have the same conditions. 1, When you are out of the house you are in the belt, 2, when you are home and the other partner is out of the house you are in your belt. 3, when both are home you can get out of your belt no questions asked. There was immediate pushback regarding how her belt would be different to mine and it would impede her walking and female reasons hygiene, pain and her having no desire for any sexual activity during this time. I am not exactly sure of how hard it would be for her to keep herself clean but i do know she does experience a fair bit of pain/discomfort and usually has to take painkillers for a few days. I know there are medical solutions for her problems but i do not want to be the person that makes her take medication for them. I went back with if you are out i am out for this same time no questions asked but that was shot down with you do not have a reason to be out at that time as i would not be in pain.
As others pointed out, your natural state is unbelted. There is no reason to stay belted at all. You are giving this to her. If wearing it for her is a problem, point out that it is for you too, and you did it for her. Since you are perfectly comfortable in both being unbelted, if we have to do it, making it fair and comfortable for both is her duty.
She then tried to counter that if she is on her time of the month that i should not be getting out when we are both at home as it would be unfair that i could play with myself when she can't / has no desire. I shot that one down right away and said there is no danger that is happening if we are both home i am getting out no questions asked.
The only fair thing here will be that you refuse to wear and kick her out for exploiting you so far.
@Carlos she's exploiting your weakness. Your parents make you weak, she's exploiting this.
