How much do you think about quitting?

Zoe

Jonas "I want sex right now!!, [stamps foot!] ...but I've been given this wonderfully expensive belt to help me to wait until a more appropriate time. I feel safe, secure and looked after. Someone on the planet understands me, knows what I need and cares enough to give it to me".

Was my brain on loudspeaker again 😳?

Why do you have to say all the right words at the right time? Are you and Ann siblings?

You are an amazing guy. Hope you know this.

I really noticed how wearing that belt has changed me. And I am determined not to give up before I am 101% certain that's the end of that road.

Just wish the inner voices would shut up.

I won't introduce you to Ann though. You both combined would be too much of a force and probably push me to do things that are good for me. Who the heck wants this? `🤣😆

Have the suspicion she is already plotting the next step. We just chose and ordered a dress for me together, that I am only allowed to wear with the thighbands on. Funny feeling I will need to wear them in public soon. Well, guess we all know, I'll do something to deserve them not too far in the future and we can't sit at home every time just because of that.

And you are right, adding the thighbands the last few days, were the right call. Just don't tell Ann I said this. 🤐

Don't tell her either, that I really think, she has been right with the belt right from the start, pleeeease. I just need a wee bit more time.

Thanks so much for being here at the right time!🥺

Jonas

Zoe I feel safe, secure and looked after. Someone on the planet understands me, knows what I need and cares enough to give it to me".

Zoe Was my brain on loudspeaker again 😳?

Why do you have to say all the right words at the right time? Are you and Ann siblings?

Aw, you know it too! Listen to yourself...

I want to wear it for her.

I don't mind or even enjoy wearing it.

I feel safe and protected...

I often find putting it on myself voluntarily, when I get a "holiday"

Weirdly I feel safer and calmer wearing it most of the time.

I won't introduce you to Ann though. You both combined would be too much of
a force and probably push me to do things that are good for me.
Who the heck wants this? `🤣😆

Lol. I know. I know. I did the right thing once and now I'm much happier, healthier and even more committed to my relationship than ever.

Have the suspicion she is already plotting the next step.

Ah, never a dull day in chastity!! Public bathrooms always still present a challenge. Are you wearing 24/7 at this point?

We just chose and ordered a dress for me together, that I am only allowed to wear with the thighbands on.

Sounds good.

Adding the thighbands the last few days, were the right call. Just don't tell Ann I said this. 🤐

She knows. I'm sure she knows.

Don't tell her either, that I really think, she has been right with the belt right from the start, pleeeease.
I just need a wee bit more time.

Ah, but to my mind you're wasting time that you could be spending in full chastity!!

For the right person, a chastity belt is a constant, loving, hug from their partner. Why wouldn't anyone want this?! 😉

Thanks so much for being here at the right time!🥺

I'm here because my own belt prevents me wasting time on other things!!

Just wish the inner voices would shut up.

Doubts. Body fighting the belt. Unresolved feelings. They are all valid, but you get to choose which to listen to! Good luck!!

You are an amazing guy. Hope you know this.

Ofc. 😄

Zoe

Jonas Are you wearing 24/7 at this point?

Pretty much. I get a break during "the time of the month", when i am sick, traveling or serious reasons that would make it a real challenge. Every other month i get 2 days "holiday" i can freely chose. But only in advance. So no way to use it when i feel really desperate. Otherwise it is Anns call.

I can earn myself extra time off though by wearing the thighbands voluntarily. But those brownie points are being reset the moment they go on because i did something stupid.

Until now there were the odd days i granted myself an extra few hours break without permission. Didn't really keep a note how often. Might be more than i would admit. :s

Somehow i am happy i was so stupid and careless. Just getting to terms with the new phase will be a bit of a challenge.

I really enjoyed, when Ann suggested buying a dress together and we spent cuddling browsing for it. It won't be pretty getting me through the door the first time. x)

Jonas

Zoe Pretty much.

Yep, it sounds like you've made huge progress while you've been away.

I can earn myself extra time off though by wearing the thighbands voluntarily.

Do they increase the security of your belt or are they simply more restrictive?

i did something stupid.

there were the odd days i granted myself an extra few hours break without permission.

I can see why the time has come for the key to be out of your reach.

Somehow i am happy i was so stupid and careless. Just getting to terms with the new phase will be a bit of a challenge.

Let the lock worry about the chastity and work to transform all your feelings into positive ones. This is an epic change and you are showing amazing strength, trust and forbearance.

I really enjoyed, when Ann suggested buying a dress together and we spent cuddling browsing for it.

Lovely!!

It won't be pretty getting me through the door the first time. x)

I am jealous. Seriously. This sounds intense, and with the right attitude big fun. Book a hotel and wear the dress and bands to dinner?

Zoe

Jonas Do they increase the security of your belt or are they simply more restrictive?

Well, they tick a couple of boxes.

Yes, they definitely make the belt more secure, since the movement of your legs (spreading them) is massively hampered. (If someone knows a trick here, please teach me 🙊)

Further you are limited to skirts and dresses (or sporting your underwear openly). Depends on what you prefer, but pants are just a lot easier on so many levels. (We are not here for having it easy though lol. Ann loves when I wear skirts and dresses. So I guess that's a bit her taking advantage of the situation as well 😉)

3rd I am a "leg crosser" when sitting. No chance, doing that with those on. Apparently it improves my posture. Not sure about that though.

And last but not is a constant reminder of my belt.

Oh so love the idea of a weekend and dinner. Thank you 🤗! But feels like this is a trap so I can't chicken out 🤣. Still I love that one and showed to Ann 🙊 (I got a funny feeling I just made another stupid mistake this week 😭🙈🤣)

Have a good night 😃

KarimM

Zoe It does improve the sittng posture of my girls.

Jonas

Zoe Yes, they definitely make the belt more secure

Ann loves when I wear skirts and dresses. So I guess that's a bit her taking advantage of the situation as well 😉)

😃 Am glad there's something in it for Ann in addition to it being additional security and a constant reminder for you!

3rd I am a "leg crosser" when sitting. No chance, doing that with those on. Apparently it improves my posture. Not sure about that though.

KarimM It does improve the sittng posture of my girls.

That's a really interesting point. I guess my belt improves my posture too. I hadn't really thought about it. Excellent!

And last but not is a constant reminder of my belt.

This is a good thing. Helps you to see the chastity belt as a form of constant sex, rather than none.

Oh so love the idea of a weekend and dinner. Thank you 🤗! But feels like this is a trap so I can't chicken out 🤣.

Yep. It is. Big fun though. Leave keys at home. Don't need those silly things. Just have a lovely dinner and cuddle with Ann and tv on bed afterwards.

Still I love that one and showed to Ann 🙊

You clearly want this life. Go for it!! 😄

Zoe

KarimM It does improve the sittng posture of my girls.

Thanks for confirming @KarimM . I kept wondering, if this was trick to motivate me to put them on and mute complaints.

Jonas Yep. It is. Big fun though. Leave keys at home. Don't need those silly things. Just have a lovely dinner and cuddle with Ann and tv on bed afterwards.

I am scared like hell. I know, things will get easier and no one cares. I also know, that now is definitely not the right time paddle back or even stop. (by the way, the weekend away is a done deal. Buuuut... I had to agree to wear them for 7 days if I chicken out, try to flirt my way out of or just complaint and any given time during the weekend. Did you both talk? :o )

Jonas You clearly want this life. Go for it!!

I am so freaked out about the path I have chosen. (Yes, Ann started it. But I never stopped it even though I always had - and still have - the opportunity!)

@Jen so so sorry I took over your thread like this. How are you doing? How are your voices?

It's soooo easy giving advises to someone else, I am struggling myself with to follow. So really hope you are having a really lovely weekend and a chance to focus on fun things. :s

@everyone here: Thanks so much for making it all feel so normal and such a nice place to talk about it.

KarimM

Jonas Sitting up stops any pressure to their back, esp my stepdaughter.

Jonas

Zoe I am scared like hell.

I think it helps to look at it the other way around. Imagine we were told that wearing a chastity belt was indeed bad and wrong and that we could never wear ours again. Imagine them being taken away and destroyed. ☹️

Now, personally, I'd be really, really, sad to lose my belt. It's a part of who I am. It does a great job. I'd feel like I'd undone all the progress I'd made. In fact, I would be gutted.

OMG, I ❤️ chastity.

This tells me that the feelings that tell me to resist or remove my belt are both a welcome and sensible check and balance to what is a life-changing decision but are also, quite wrong. If I listened to them I'd be unhappy, unfulfilled and unproductive.

So I say to them, yeah, thanks for presenting the opposing point of view, and I understand that I'm going to be extremely frustrated and bugged by the belt over time, and I understand that I have to be out of control on this, but I'm going to press on forward, without delay!

KarimM

Zoe Neither slouch any more now. Just lie down. Do you sit better?

Jen

Zoe [Jen]so so sorry I took over your thread like this. How are you doing? How are your voices?

Hi 👋😊 no worry I'm not trying to own it. I'm ok I stuck with it I'm ok.

Zoe

@Jonas 💖 thank you! *Very long belted hug

Jonas

Zoe Hugs back. If chastity belts are mad, we don't care! 🤪

Jonas

KarimM Zoe's talking about the improvement in posture when wearing thigh bands... she physically cannot fail to sit better because they stop her crossing her legs. But you're right the belt itself makes a huge difference on its own.

KarimM

Jonas Oh darn.

Ines

Anyway, belt itself avoids you can cross your legs, at least for long time, without unconfortability and on a nice manner.
Thigh bands improve sitting posture, but of course they are mont guilty of avoid leg crossing.

Zoe

Ines without unconfortability and on a nice manner

My (quite long) legs just have their own mind. I get told off when sitting indian style at the table on a regular base. And yes, eventhough I wouldn't deem it too unconforntable, crossed legs wearing a belt is most definitely not a very attractive sight. (Probably the way I do it not even without a belt :s ) Without the thigh bands I just sit without even thinking how it looks or where I am. hey, I never had princess training 😄

KarimM

Zoe that was what my stepdaugher encountered initially no thigh bands.

youdontknowme

@Jen, not sure if you are still reading here, but your profile reads as if you ended your commitment to chastity earlier this year. If you still pop in occasionally, I would love to know what your current relationship with your old belt is, and if you are happy with the decisions you made.

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