Zoe I am scared like hell.
I think it helps to look at it the other way around. Imagine we were told that wearing a chastity belt was indeed bad and wrong and that we could never wear ours again. Imagine them being taken away and destroyed. ☹️
Now, personally, I'd be really, really, sad to lose my belt. It's a part of who I am. It does a great job. I'd feel like I'd undone all the progress I'd made. In fact, I would be gutted.
OMG, I ❤️ chastity.
This tells me that the feelings that tell me to resist or remove my belt are both a welcome and sensible check and balance to what is a life-changing decision but are also, quite wrong. If I listened to them I'd be unhappy, unfulfilled and unproductive.
So I say to them, yeah, thanks for presenting the opposing point of view, and I understand that I'm going to be extremely frustrated and bugged by the belt over time, and I understand that I have to be out of control on this, but I'm going to press on forward, without delay!
