Foumd this Forum lately and after reading a few threads, i decided to make this post.
I am a 32 years old male virgin. I decided to lock myself in a chastity cage when i got 16 years old and after a long talk with my best female friend, she agreed to keep the keys.
After some early problems (feeling uncomfortable and slipping out of it, when the urges grow to strong) she got me a custom fitted one and i agreed to get a PA Piercing, as it has a special hook so i cant pull out anymore.
I am wearing it to this day and she only releases me for healthcare/cleaning, which she supervises.
We agreed i can only have sex once i get a girlfriend, but as i am very shy its probably not going to happen anytime soon. But i am not uncomfortable with my situation most of the time, as being kept locked motivates me to focus on other aspects of my life.
So the question is: do you think this is normal/good or should i get help?