ok, i'll focus on the original post
so i'm also involuntarily in the chastity belt, the reason is simply that i'm dependent on my father in certain ways. That's exactly the point, I don't see that, you don't seem to be dependent (anymore). So just get out of the belt and if your dad won't give you the keys voluntarily, look out about lockpicking.
Why are you still in the belt despite your independence? Why?
Angelina I still live in his house. Right now I'm saving money to be truly independent. When I get to live with my gf, I'll give him choice to either unlock me or I'll pick/break the lock. I want to avoid fighting with him, but I'm not sure it's possible.
ah ok, sorry i thought you were going to keep wearing the belt after you moved out
youdontknowme I mean, it takes a lot longer to get off with a cage on, and probably makes more noise as well.
I know what cage masturbation is because I've done it in every cage I've had, and there have been quite a few (about 15). In each of them it was possible to ejaculate discreetly.
Trismegistus If you haven't experienced something, that doesn't mean it never happens.
I am fully aware that someone may have a different experience than me, but the assessment of the credibility of the statements is based, among others, on the assessment of the probability of an event taking into account the so-called life experience. Life experience suggests that when someone is repressed for specific actions, he tries to hide them from the persecutor, and does not expose himself to unreasonable harassment, unless he deliberately acts in a provocative way. Life experience also suggests that the topic of being caught masturbating is exploited with pleasure by people who try to increase its attractiveness by alleged truthfulness of the story.
Trismegistus Because I want to have sex with my girlfriend.
And how about her? 
youdontknowme not getting rid of the belt to move in with his girlfriend.
His phrase means exactly this. And if it's not the case he can solve the problem with belt later.
Laura And it seems that's all he wants
B.S. You should be ashamed of yourself.
The guy has a job. He is close enough to the girl's family that they are willing to let them use a flat they own. He is in contact with his father, though things are tense right now. He has mentioned going to school.
Laura s he paid enough to live on his own or still have to pull more money from his dad?
Read his initial post. Your replies will then be more cogent:
"In my country education isn't expensive, so if I work, I can manage to make enough money to be independent from him."
Laura Them or her?
Read his initial post. Your replies will then be more cogent. Oh, sorry, I already said that.
"My new girlfriend (18) and I plan living in her parents' flat and they agree"
They will be fine. If they need a little help from the family OK, many people do. That's partly why I advised him to try to keep a relationship with his father.
Andrew I know what cage masturbation is because I've done it in every cage I've had, and there have been quite a few (about 15). In each of them it was possible to ejaculate discreetly.
You say that as a middle-aged adult with a fulfilled sex life. Your mind is probably clearer when you tried this than that of a desperate horny teenager. Plus as many cages as you have tried, you have only tried one penis.
Laura Anyway, if he can move out, he could just cut the belt.
Yes, he could. But what does that do to his relationship with his father? He is 18 1/2, it would be much better if he can keep a good relationship with his dad and get him on board of things. We all need help from our families now and then at that age. If his father won't relent I agree though, the belt must go so he can have a normal life with his girl and her family.
In this forum is surprisingly usual, take care.
Renita I've already pleasured her, because she has high libido and I like to see her enjoy our time together. But we both think it should be mutual, and the belt prevents this to happen.
It's not only about getting laid. Sex is expression of love and emotional attachment. When two people in love have sex, their body produces oxytocin and they become more attached to each other.
Angelina I don't want to keep it. My philosophy is that growing up is becoming independent. My father thinks I'm just too rebellious, but my gf thinks I'm right to be unhappy about the belt.
We're dating almost one year, and I want her someday to be my wife.
Laura Is he paid enough to live on his own or still have to pull more money from his dad?
I don't want to get money from my dad, if that means I remain in the belt. I'm ambitious enough to know that life gives enough opportunities for income. I just need some time to be fully independent: financially, emotionally, etc. Good education will definitely help me, and I'll be able to afford it.
I know I can have high enough results to receive payment from University. I believe getting rid of the belt will boost my self-esteem.
Being dependent from your parents means that if something happens to them, you won't be able to deal with your life. Many grown people I know are like big babies, who prefer to depend on their parents, because it's easier. It isn't how both my gf and I see our future.
Trismegistus I just need some time to be fully independent: financially, emotionally, etc.
Which means you are not fully independent yet
Avery But what does that do to his relationship with his father?
He always underestimates me. I am in top 1% in school, but he says chastity isn't related to my results. Even when I could freely masturbate, I didn't do it more than 3/4 times a week, and it didn't feel like too much.
I understand why my father acts this way, but I'm still angry and frustrated with his decisions. He feels suspicious towards sexuality, because my mother left him for another man. He wants me to live with him until I graduate, but ironically this stupid belt will make me leave his house.
Other than the belt, his rules aren't so bad. I can come home until 11 pm, and I can make sleepovers twice a month if I inform him 24 hours prior. He doesn't really care if I sleep with a girl, because he knows I can't receive sexual pleasure.
Laura Yes. I think he's afraid that if I become independent, I won't follow his rules anymore, and he's right.
I give extra hours in work, and he thinks I'm earning less that I really am. I don't want to tell him, because I'm afraid he'll try to stop me from working.
Laura Which means you are not fully independent yet
Being independent is firstly a choice. Then it becomes reality.
