Jenna Monica did say she wanted to order one for Jane, just to try it out. She mentioned Alexis would do the measurements and they could get one from her. Jane did not look enthused but they went back across the street as Susan and I left.
Re-reading the above, @Jenna, does this mean the measurements have already been taken? Did they go back across the street to continue the process of ordering a belt?
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There are lots of different views in this thread. My perspective comes from wondering "How would I want to be treated in that situation?". I understand that what I come up with may or may not apply to other people.
Being left in Jane's situation would feel like neglect to me, yet being steered or pressured into a belt could feel like abuse. As I consider this, I start to see how difficult things are for the person in the guardian role. I conclude that it is imperative that every decision is made out of love and that wearers understand this.
