Zoe my stepdaughter or before she was was often caught playing during breaks or trying to open the belt. My wife just took away hr phone and added the usual punishment for teeens. That stopped after a while. We did ask her if she wanted the whole thing off, she said she was used to it.

      KarimM hen she realised she was using a key for annother lock, not the waist band key.

      What lock was that?

          KarimM I am wearing the straight-line CB with solid crotch band in pink as waist version from My-steel.

          Ann has the same but with black, cable and as hip belt. It was part of my conditions that she has to get one too if she make me wear one.

          But hers has hardly be ever worn. I don't mind. I am too far down this rabbit whole now, that this means anything to me anymore.

              KarimM oh that was one I considered as well. But liked the look of the straight-line a bit better. Back then I didn't think about the details that mean wearing it for a longer period would be preferable to esthetics.

              Well, my brain understood her reasoning, but my stubborn inner child was stomping and shouting "if I have to wear one, YOU have to wear one too!"

              Of course I communicated in an more grown up style.

              How do the women in your house feel about wearing them? Did they just get used to them? If there is anything on the belt, they would change, what would be? (Apart from not having to wear it at all!)

                  Zoe My daughter wants larger urinal holes she still is annoyed peeing through it. My wife doesn't complain really.

                      Zoe When my mum came over unannounced

                      But why did she come unannounced without asking you before if you had time?

                      KarimM My daughter wants larger urinal holes she still is annoyed peeing through it

                      Did you ever consider a belt without secondary shield for her?

                            Laura But why did she come unannounced without asking you before if you had time?

                            Dad had fixed something for us and she was in the area. So decided to just drop it off. She knocked because she knows I am working from home sometimes. I did not know it was her. Otherwise i wouldn't have opened but pretended no one is home. She would just have left it outside.

                            Back then I could have also grabbed the spare keys and just take the belt off. But my brain and emotions were in panic mode. (looking back I don't even know, why I didn't say I have a meeting in 2min)

                                Zoe correction - wife was scared swimming with it on though no longer.

                                    Zoe she knows I am working from home sometimes.

                                    And she doesn't care that you might be busy at work. She believes that you should always have time for her.
                                    You should talk to her about this

                                    KarimM no we did not

                                    Then you should. It might be a good option for her

                                          Laura And she doesn't care that you might be busy at work. She believes that you should always have time for her.
                                          You should talk to her about this

                                          It rarely happens and if I would have told her at the door, I have a meeting in 2 min, she really would just have handed me the box and left.

                                          She has a key for our place. But sofar never ever used it without asking for permission before. And even that day would have left the box outside.

                                          I really don't know, why I panicked so much and didn't think of any easy escape from that situation. Guess I was just too overwhelmed with thinking about those stupid things on my legs and if my skirt was long enough to cover everything. And this extremely louuuuud noise this stupid thing made.

                                          It felt worse then the first time Ann didn't allow me to take off the belt when we went to my parents for an afternoon with dinner. The whole drive my head was spinning and I felt like a huge neon sign was pointing at my crotch the whole afternoon.

                                          Ann couldn't stop laughing, when I told her my mum came over and staid for a tea and chat.

                                              Zoe not as bad as my stepdaughter relaxing with it visible when a postman arrives.