My wife once kept trying to unlock her daughter's waist band and still couldn't after nearly half a hour. Then she realised she was using a key for annother lock, not the waist band key. Another time, i mislplaced the key for my wife's belt, thoug found it after five minutes. Any one with stories like this?

    Oh my gosh. Your daughter must have been freaked out. 😳

    When my mum came over unannounced and I had earned myself some thighbands time. Ever tried not moving in your own flat hosting guests? The chains never felt this loud before.

      Zoe my ladies dont want thighbands the belts are more than enough esp my stepdaughter.

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          Zoe Your mom would be proud? That's really open minded.

            KarimM trust me, I don't want them either.

            Ann uses them to "punish" me. She introduced them in a cheeky way. In the beginning, wearing them would earn me an earlier release or longer break. Now they are being added whenever I am too whiny or try to flirt my way out of the belt when I really want to have some fun time and she is not in the mood.

                Zoe My wife used the belt to put her daughter in order I dont think discipline is the word. It helped her focus on school, stop seeing weird friends and make her focus. My wife wears cause she was a sexual assault victim.

                    KarimM I am really really sorry to hear about your wife's reason.

                    It's so wrong, but I do feel saver wearing one.

                    But originally my girlfriend persuaded me to try one so I would stop annoying her, when she was not in the mood. I never expected it to be a piece of my everyday outfit.

                    Not sure how to objectively measure it and if I would feel and act differently if wouldn't be wearing it. But our realitionship feels calmer and deeper now.

                    The thighbands came into the house much later, after Ann caught me having fun on my own while being a break. I really do hate them and they are definitely doing their job. Even just threatening me with having to wear them makes me stop stupid things (most of the time).

                    I was quite a handful as a teenager. Coming to terms with being different and feeling love different to everyone around me wasn't easy. My parents could not care any less what gender I prefer, as long as I am happy.

                    My mum has a great sense of humour and is an Ann fan. If we ever break up, I wouldn't be surprised if she adopts her just to make sure, she is still part of the family.

                    Anyway, I am a really lucky girl and as screwed up it is that I am wearing metal underwear, I never thought it would play such powerful games with me and that I ever would find it a normal part in my life.

                    If I would feel and say the same if my mum would have pushed me to wear one when I was a teeny, not sure to be honest.

                        Zoe my stepdaughter or before she was was often caught playing during breaks or trying to open the belt. My wife just took away hr phone and added the usual punishment for teeens. That stopped after a while. We did ask her if she wanted the whole thing off, she said she was used to it.

                            KarimM hen she realised she was using a key for annother lock, not the waist band key.

                            What lock was that?

                                KarimM I am wearing the straight-line CB with solid crotch band in pink as waist version from My-steel.

                                Ann has the same but with black, cable and as hip belt. It was part of my conditions that she has to get one too if she make me wear one.

                                But hers has hardly be ever worn. I don't mind. I am too far down this rabbit whole now, that this means anything to me anymore.

                                    KarimM oh that was one I considered as well. But liked the look of the straight-line a bit better. Back then I didn't think about the details that mean wearing it for a longer period would be preferable to esthetics.

                                    Well, my brain understood her reasoning, but my stubborn inner child was stomping and shouting "if I have to wear one, YOU have to wear one too!"

                                    Of course I communicated in an more grown up style.

                                    How do the women in your house feel about wearing them? Did they just get used to them? If there is anything on the belt, they would change, what would be? (Apart from not having to wear it at all!)

                                        Zoe My daughter wants larger urinal holes she still is annoyed peeing through it. My wife doesn't complain really.

                                            Zoe When my mum came over unannounced

                                            But why did she come unannounced without asking you before if you had time?

                                            KarimM My daughter wants larger urinal holes she still is annoyed peeing through it

                                            Did you ever consider a belt without secondary shield for her?

                                                  Laura But why did she come unannounced without asking you before if you had time?

                                                  Dad had fixed something for us and she was in the area. So decided to just drop it off. She knocked because she knows I am working from home sometimes. I did not know it was her. Otherwise i wouldn't have opened but pretended no one is home. She would just have left it outside.

                                                  Back then I could have also grabbed the spare keys and just take the belt off. But my brain and emotions were in panic mode. (looking back I don't even know, why I didn't say I have a meeting in 2min)