Zoe she knows I am working from home sometimes.

And she doesn't care that you might be busy at work. She believes that you should always have time for her.
You should talk to her about this

KarimM no we did not

Then you should. It might be a good option for her

        Laura And she doesn't care that you might be busy at work. She believes that you should always have time for her.
        You should talk to her about this

        It rarely happens and if I would have told her at the door, I have a meeting in 2 min, she really would just have handed me the box and left.

        She has a key for our place. But sofar never ever used it without asking for permission before. And even that day would have left the box outside.

        I really don't know, why I panicked so much and didn't think of any easy escape from that situation. Guess I was just too overwhelmed with thinking about those stupid things on my legs and if my skirt was long enough to cover everything. And this extremely louuuuud noise this stupid thing made.

        It felt worse then the first time Ann didn't allow me to take off the belt when we went to my parents for an afternoon with dinner. The whole drive my head was spinning and I felt like a huge neon sign was pointing at my crotch the whole afternoon.

        Ann couldn't stop laughing, when I told her my mum came over and staid for a tea and chat.

            Zoe not as bad as my stepdaughter relaxing with it visible when a postman arrives.

                KarimM not as bad as my stepdaughter relaxing w it visible when a postman arrives.

                😦 I would die a thousand death. Even now I look a million times in the mirror checking there is really no hint before leaving the house.

                Was an accident? Or is she just so open about it now?

                    Zoe no she ran upstairs told me to answer. I found out why later.

                      Zoe I'm still not clear if your mom knows about your chastity belt

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                          KarimM wife was scared swimming with it on

                          Why was this?

                          KarimM and dont want to spend money on another

                          To make your stepdaughter happy

                                Laura I'm still not clear if your mom knows about your chastity belt

                                Oh gosh nooooo! That's really the last thing I'll ever tell her. Although she'd probably high-five Ann for tricking me into that thing!

                                    Zoe Although she'd probably high-five Ann for tricking me into that thing!

                                    Then what's the problem if she would approve it?

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                                        Laura Then what's the problem if she would approve it?

                                        I am just super embarrassed that I am wearing one. 😢

                                            Laura Even to your mom?

                                            Yes! Dunno why. Just feels all so wrong 😞

                                                Zoe Yes, it's wrong in my opinion. You should talk more openly

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                                                    Laura Yes, it's wrong in my opinion. You should talk more openly

                                                    It was already hard telling the world that I have a girlfriend. Thinking about telling my mum I am wearing steel underwear just makes me feel I very scared and like something is really not right with me.

                                                    I know it is silly. But knowing in my head this, doesn't change how I feel.

                                                        Zoe My girls still have this fear whether to tell their friends to wear.

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                                                          KarimM Zoe hi Zoe, I know people like you.

                                                          That's a weird thing to say? Or is it because English is not my mother tongue?

                                                            Zoe Thinking about telling my mum I am wearing steel underwear just makes me feel I very scared and like something is really not right with me.

                                                            If you can get past your conflict on this, (time really helps), I think telling close family is incredibly relaxing. You shouldn't have to creep around your own flat/house hiding who you are. My rule is if they're close enough to come in, they're close enough for me to come out.