KarimM welcome say more about your wearing.

Well, my story is something complicated and probably non-typical for this forum. First my background. My parents are deeply involved in BDSM - mum is dom, dad is sub. He is wearing chastity cage 24/7 since many years. I know about this from about 10 years, but he starts wearing cage much earlier. My parents' marriage is female led relationship, but they try maintain appearance of 'normality'. When as a teenager I discovered/understood the nature of their relationship (especially the cuckold elements) it disgusted me. When my rebellious period began later, sometimes I was teasing my parents that they are sexual perverts and irritating them with praising conservative values. I said, I will never emulate them and I want to live like a traditional, decent woman, keeping my virginity until marriage. Finally, my mother couldn't take it anymore and joked that since I am so saint, I should start wearing a chastity belt to protect me from carnal temptations. Of course, I categorically refused. This idea, however, began to torment me, because I had similar fantasies several times before. So a few weeks later I asked my mother if she was serious about belt. Mom said no, but if the belt fascinates me, she can order one for me. For financial reasons, it was cheap chinese belt, but my father (he is a talented handyman) modified it very much, especially the back.

I like the belt, initially I only wore it occasionally at home (I never wore it to high school). I started wearing it in a more permanent way only in the 1st year of studies, which coincided with the beginning of the covid epidemic (2020) and lockdown.

What is a belt for me and why do I wear it? It is difficult to answer. On the one hand, I like the experience of enslavement with it and (quite mild) control from my mother (dad basically does not participate in it, sometimes he is only a technical support). I also know that although the parents are libertines themselves, they are actually quite happy that their only daughter lives a chaste life. On the other hand, it irritates me at times when I am strongly aroused and want to satisfy myself, and the belt prevents me from doing so.

      Sabina On the one hand, I like the experience of enslavement with it and (quite mild) control from my mother

      Very awkward feelings about that. I get being kept pure by your mother, or getting "enslaved" by a BDSM domme. But the fact that you seem to be experiencing both these dynamics with the same person feels a bit incestuous to me.

          Sabina and I want to live like a traditional, decent woman, keeping my virginity until marriage

          You don't need a chastity belt for this

          Sabina This idea, however, began to torment me, because I had similar fantasies several times before. So a few weeks later I asked my mother if she was serious about belt. Mom said no, but if the belt fascinates me, she can order one for me.

          It seems you asked your parents to put a belt on you. But how serious are they with this? Do you have a chance to cheat or bypass the belt if you wish?

                Laura It seems you asked your parents to put a belt on you.

                More or less it was.

                Laura But how serious are they with this?

                In the begining it was only kind of play during weekends. It last for a long time - I get my belt when I was 17, but I start wearing belt more seriously 2 years later. Lockdown during the covid period made my mother say that I can wear the belt permanently. Dad supported the idea. I can resign from wearing the belt at any time. However, if I resign against my mother wishes, she will never be my keyholder again. The same if I do not submit to the punishment that she may inflict on me for any misdemeanor of a sexual nature.

                Laura Do you have a chance to cheat or bypass the belt if you wish?

                When I'm wearing the belt I haven't such possibilities. Belt is very good and tight fitted to my body. Of course, I can cheat freely and masturbate, when I'm not wearing belt, for example during student internship in court, where I couldn't wear belt. Masturbation in court toilet isn't especially pleasant. 😉

                        youdontknowme But the fact that you seem to be experiencing both these dynamics with the same person feels a bit incestuous to me.

                        You have right to your own opinion. I don't think I'm doing anything wrong, neither doing my mother. Comparing my case with others described on the forum, it seems to me that it is very decent and honest, because of lack of any coercion.

                          Sabina When I'm wearing the belt I haven't such possibilities. Belt is very good and tight fitted to my body.

                          How about trying to obtain a spare key?

                          Sabina for example during student internship in court

                          Who locks it back and checks after?

                          @Renita has the long saga of fighting with her belt. Because her mom takes it seriously 😂

                                Laura Mom never let me take the key, she always open my belt herself. The padlock can be locked without a key, so I almost always put on my belt myself when I get home. Mom sometimes control it, but not always, because in the evening she has to take off my belt before shower. If it turned out that I didn't wear a belt, I would be punished.

                                    Sabina Mom never let me take the key, she always open my belt herself.

                                    You might know where she keeps it

                                    Sabina so I almost always put on my belt myself when I get home. Mom sometimes control it, but not always, because in the evening she has to take off my belt before shower

                                    It actually means you are belt free all day 😂
                                    I had similar rules before, but "forgot" to put it on too often

                                          Laura You might know where she keeps it

                                          I know it - she wears key to the belt with keys to the house on same keyring. Other keys to the belt are locked in the safe with combination lock.

                                              Sabina I should start wearing a chastity belt to protect me from carnal temptations

                                              So you wanted to protect your virginity only, but received full chastity instead?

                                              Sabina I can resign from wearing the belt at any time. However, if I resign against my mother wishes, she will never be my keyholder again.

                                              Same for me.

                                              Sabina The same if I do not submit to the punishment that she may inflict on me for any misdemeanor of a sexual nature.

                                              What kind of punishment? Do you use any other accessory beside secondary shield?

                                              Sabina she wears key to the belt with keys to the house on same keyring

                                              Mom did the same until I've demonstrated unlocked belt. Since that she always uses the safe 😃

                                                        Laura I had similar rules before, but "forgot" to put it on too often

                                                        It was never happened in my case... 😉

                                                            Renita So you wanted to protect your virginity only, but received full chastity instead?

                                                            Before I start wearing belt 'permanently' Mum warn me, that it will be full chastity, and masturbation will be forbiden. I agreed, but sometimes I regret it 😉

                                                            Renita What kind of punishment?

                                                            Punishments are not defined in advance. I was punished only once. I was stupid and admitted to my mother that I had struggled with the belt at night and tried to get my fingers under it (it worked, but I couldn't masturbate). As punishment, I spent every night in locked bondage mitts for a month. I haven't confessed to anything since then. 😛

                                                            Renita Do you use any other accessory beside secondary shield?

                                                            No.

                                                                    Sabina I agreed, but sometimes I regret it

                                                                    But why did you agree? I wear a belt for virginity. Although it has the secondary shield, full chastity is not enforced by my parents

                                                                        Sabina I spent every night in locked bondage mitts

                                                                        Ohhhhhhh!!!! It was taking a while but they called bingo!
                                                                        Bears and their cubs do not interrupt their hibernation while nursing.

                                                                            Ines Ohhhhhhh!!!! It was taking a while but they called bingo!

                                                                            Remember, her parents are in BDSM, hence it's not impossible

                                                                                Laura I agreed because I was a bit fascinated by living chaste, but I didn't think it would be so difficult for me. Once masturbation was not a particularly high value for me, only the lack of it made me realize how much I want it.