Everyday challenges with thigh bands
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Vanessa So,if you have the choice,you would still wear these?
Yes. But only if I am granted my current regime, this means that for activities in which I can not wear them, I would have allowed release. Without bands, girls, obviously, we have some "ideas", and peace with myself come back when bands are fitted I feel a total security and dependant.
I think that it would not be a problem, if it would be a problem, I would choice one of the two next options:
1- Do not wear bands. I prefer do not have the peace and careness feeling that be a frustrated girl.
2- Very much likely: choice another boy that know how to treat his girl.
Angelina i'll talk about it sometime soon, i'm out to make a deal. i'll ask for a short chain length for the day so i can get along better in everyday life. at night i'd still accept the padlock but during the day it would really be a relief
That's how it is for me, it is definitely much much easier and very save, too.
Ines So, hip belt requires low bands...
. Point against it. I think that a shorter vertical chain could be usable.
Not necessarily. In my case, it is like that, but it may be be arranged differently.
In my case, lower bands and hip-style were first. When i got the waist style cb, the vertical chains were very long, so we arranged the bands higher. Hip-Style and high bands was not tried by me.
catherine98
Ahhhhmm. High bands are better for us. In principle, then, there anything against hip belt and highway banda, right?
i may not ask too much, in small steps one comes to success Ines Ahhhhmm. High bands are better for us. In principle, then, there anything against hip belt and highway banda, right?
I cannot say. Maybe, such a short chain could be more restrictive, but i don’t know.
What in your opinion is the disadvantage of lower bands?
catherine98
The lower, more restrictive with same chain length.
Ines The lower, more restrictive with same chain length.
In my case, connection chain length is adjusted to band height, so that the allowed spreading angle is very similar for both cbs.
catherine98
Mmmm.... Maybe hip belt with lower bands and a longer chain...
More decisions to take, then the shield, there are various choices.
Let us know if he accepts.I hope so for you,it would be better.
Even if you have ideas,I doubt you can defeat you belt,even without thigh bands.
If he would not let you have your activities because he would want you to wear thigh bands permanently,I think you should break-up with him and search for someone else;yes.
Ines Even in the nights, use a padlock is redundant, but I know it is not in you hands
Being a bit more free during the day is still very pleasant;I'm sure of it.
But you've time to think about it.
Vanessa Even if you have ideas,I doubt you can defeat you belt,even without thigh bands.
For sure, but you know that for me, the wearer should to be absolutely overpowered for her belt. Without that, feeling of dependence is not so big.
Wearer must to feel that she is not in control, and even this way we have fights, maybe as unconscious remembering of our position related to the belt.
In my case, just when I assume my role, I can start "to enjoy" the feelings that arises in me the belt, feminism, to be cared, to be protected... If I feel that I am in control, or even that I have chances of achieve a "victory"against the belt, all those feelings will desapear.
Vanessa Being a bit more free during the day is still very pleasant;I'm sure of it.
Of course. Even in night. When I had notice about the use of padlock in nights, I try to scratch an itching, an easy one, with my legs totally together, and it was anguish. I could not do it without a huge effort.
I am more convinced about use a padlock, is a nonsense.
Vanessa If he would not let you have your activities because he would want you to wear thigh bands permanently,I think you should break-up with him and search for someone else;yes.
Fortunately I have very clear as I have to behave as a girl. And I do not complain at all, I like be girl this way, but, I have clear too, as the man have to behave towards us. I find lovely a strong, calm man that is capable of take good decisions, and makes me feel protected, but I hate, hate, hate, tyrants.
They have to look for our happiness.
so my father replaced the chain with a padlock to create an additional restriction, i know myself that the padlock makes no sense.
but i don't want to ask too much, because then i won't have a chance with my father. i think if i ask him if he uses a chain again at least on the day, i have better chances 
So not having thigh bands on make a big difference on your feelings?I thought it impact these only a bit.
Ines Of course. Even in night. When I had notice about the use of padlock in nights, I try to scratch an itching, an easy one, with my legs totally together, and it was anguish. I could not do it without a huge effort.
I am more convinced about use a padlock, is a nonsense.
I think too using no chain make it a lot harder.Not only for itching...
Ines Fortunately I have very clear as I have to behave as a girl. And I do not complain at all, I like be girl this way, but, I have clear too, as the man have to behave towards us. I find lovely a strong, calm man that is capable of take good decisions, and makes me feel protected, but I hate, hate, hate, tyrants.
They have to look for our happiness.
I agree.Even if both want to use chastity devices,he should not be a tyrant.Otherwise,it won't be a good and fulfilling relationship.
Angelina but i don't want to ask too much, because then i won't have a chance with my father. i think if i ask him if he uses a chain again at least on the day, i have better chances
Yes,and,maybe,if he notices it is as effective,you can try to make him accept it on the night too....
Vanessa So not having thigh bands on make a big difference on your feelings?I thought it impact these only a bit.
Bands have the bad thing that sometimes make you feel a bit restricted, but it is compensated for the safety they add and for the psychological effect: even when they are not restricting you directly (you are walking slowly, without any hurry and they are not annoying us), they make feel you, ever, the presence of the belt. For me it is a nice feeling.
Yes,as you like the feeling to be overpowered by your chastity belt,the thigh bands can be a nice addition to get this feeling often.
Angelina exactly that is my plan. always one step after the other
It is probably the best way to get some more freedom,even if slowly.
Angelina i see it quite differently. for me the tighbands are definitely the worst
no matter if with padlock or chain . they are just soo restrictive
I don't feel it is the worse psychologically,but it is way more restrictive,yes.I can do a lot of activities with my chastity belt on and my chastity bra on too,but I can't do many things when my thigh bands are locked...
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Vanessa I can't do many things when my thigh bands are locked...
This is one the nice points, to ask to be released and our mother opening in order we can do our activities.
When keyyholder do not release the thigh bands, the beautiful feeling of being caressed and feel dependable of a person that loves us, is gone.
And it is the problem with some of you.
As usually I say, our belts are the same, difference comes of our personality and the attitude of the holder.
Belting just can be enjoyed with a parents that worry for us in fully and integral way. And, yes, to have a belted girl in home is necessary a lot of responsibility, tons of love and tons of patience, to deal with our needs and to deal with our some bratty moments.
It is the least we deserve!