Everyday challenges with thigh bands

catherine98

Angelina catherine98

you should definitely get a bit more chain length, ask your mother if you can get 1-2 centimeters more, that doesn't sound like much, but it would help you a lot 🙂

do you wear the tighbands again every night lately or still 3-4 times a week ?

are there differences whether you wear the hipstyle or the waiststyle belt ?

I will probably talk to my mom.

Currently, it is about 2-4 nights, usually between monday and friday.

the belt styles are of course different.
in combination with thigh bands, the bands with waist style are higher than bands for hip style. That is due to the vertical chain lengths. Hip style and high bands was too short, waist style with low bands would be too long.

Ines

catherine98

catherine98 but despite that, be a convinced wearer of those.

I like the last feelings that provide me a chastity belt. Even sometimes can be a bit uncomfortable. You know, in my family bands are not an accessory, are a part of the belt.

catherine98 in combination with thigh bands, the bands with waist style are higher than bands for hip style. That is due to the vertical chain lengths.

So, hip belt requires low bands... 😕. Point against it. I think that a shorter vertical chain could be usable.

Vanessa

catherine98 I will probably talk to my mom.

If you do it,let us know how it went! 😉

Ines I like the last feelings that provide me a chastity belt. Even sometimes can be a bit uncomfortable. You know, in my family bands are not an accessory, are a part of the belt.

So,if you have the choice,you would still wear these?

Angelina a short chain length (asking for more doesn't make any sense) won't change my chastity situation, it will still be impossible for me to do more with camryn 🙁 it's all about being able to move a little better and walk a little better 😉

I agree,but I'm not sure your father would feel this way...

Angelina t seems to me something inconsistent from your mother, she actually wants you to wear the tighbands every night. why "only" 2-4 times a week and why mainly in the week ??

If I remember correctly,it depends on when she comes back home,and when her parents go to bed.

catherine98

Ines Uhmmm. I understand you perfectly 😕.
Normally belt has influence in our way to sit, specially, as you know, my sister and me have some pinches sometimes, but thigh bands make the choices much more limited.
If you wear your bands relatively high, I, sometimes put high a leg and the other in the ground, yes sometimes in my home, 3 girls needs 6 chairs!

Somehow interesting, that you are also bothered by the every day problems of thigh bands, but despite that, be a convinced wearer of those.

concerning differences for hip/waist, see my last post

catherine98

Ines So, hip belt requires low bands... 😕. Point against it. I think that a shorter vertical chain could be usable.

Not necessarily. In my case, it is like that, but it may be be arranged differently.
In my case, lower bands and hip-style were first. When i got the waist style cb, the vertical chains were very long, so we arranged the bands higher. Hip-Style and high bands was not tried by me.

Angelina

@Vanessa
a short chain length (asking for more doesn't make any sense) won't change my chastity situation, it will still be impossible for me to do more with camryn 🙁 it's all about being able to move a little better and walk a little better 😉

@catherine98
i hope that conversation with your mother brings something 😉
which belt is more comfortable with the tighbands ?

it seems to me something inconsistent from your mother, she actually wants you to wear the tighbands every night. why "only" 2-4 times a week and why mainly in the week ??

Angelina

Vanessa

i'll talk about it sometime soon, i'm out to make a deal. i'll ask for a short chain length for the day so i can get along better in everyday life. at night i'd still accept the padlock but during the day it would really be a relief

Ines

Vanessa So,if you have the choice,you would still wear these?

Yes. But only if I am granted my current regime, this means that for activities in which I can not wear them, I would have allowed release. Without bands, girls, obviously, we have some "ideas", and peace with myself come back when bands are fitted I feel a total security and dependant.
I think that it would not be a problem, if it would be a problem, I would choice one of the two next options:
1- Do not wear bands. I prefer do not have the peace and careness feeling that be a frustrated girl.

2- Very much likely: choice another boy that know how to treat his girl.

Sara2001

Angelina i'll talk about it sometime soon, i'm out to make a deal. i'll ask for a short chain length for the day so i can get along better in everyday life. at night i'd still accept the padlock but during the day it would really be a relief

That's how it is for me, it is definitely much much easier and very save, too.

Vanessa

Angelina

Let us know if he accepts.I hope so for you,it would be better.

Ines

Even if you have ideas,I doubt you can defeat you belt,even without thigh bands.

If he would not let you have your activities because he would want you to wear thigh bands permanently,I think you should break-up with him and search for someone else;yes.

Ines Even in the nights, use a padlock is redundant, but I know it is not in you hands😕

Being a bit more free during the day is still very pleasant;I'm sure of it.

Ines

But you've time to think about it.

Ines

Sara2001
Even in the nights, use a padlock is redundant, but I know it is not in you hands😕

Ines

catherine98
Ahhhhmm. High bands are better for us. In principle, then, there anything against hip belt and highway banda, right?

catherine98

Ines Ahhhhmm. High bands are better for us. In principle, then, there anything against hip belt and highway banda, right?

I cannot say. Maybe, such a short chain could be more restrictive, but i don’t know.

What in your opinion is the disadvantage of lower bands?

Angelina

@Sara2001

yes that would be then a similar situation as with you, also not optimal but a little better 😉

@Ines

yes i know that it is unnecessary, but it is at least a small improvement 🙂 i may not ask too much, in small steps one comes to success 😉

Ines

catherine98
The lower, more restrictive with same chain length.

catherine98

Ines The lower, more restrictive with same chain length.

In my case, connection chain length is adjusted to band height, so that the allowed spreading angle is very similar for both cbs.

Ines

catherine98
Mmmm.... Maybe hip belt with lower bands and a longer chain...
More decisions to take, then the shield, there are various choices.

Ines

Vanessa Even if you have ideas,I doubt you can defeat you belt,even without thigh bands.

For sure, but you know that for me, the wearer should to be absolutely overpowered for her belt. Without that, feeling of dependence is not so big.
Wearer must to feel that she is not in control, and even this way we have fights, maybe as unconscious remembering of our position related to the belt.
In my case, just when I assume my role, I can start "to enjoy" the feelings that arises in me the belt, feminism, to be cared, to be protected... If I feel that I am in control, or even that I have chances of achieve a "victory"against the belt, all those feelings will desapear.

Ines

Vanessa Being a bit more free during the day is still very pleasant;I'm sure of it.

Of course. Even in night. When I had notice about the use of padlock in nights, I try to scratch an itching, an easy one, with my legs totally together, and it was anguish. I could not do it without a huge effort.
I am more convinced about use a padlock, is a nonsense.

Vanessa If he would not let you have your activities because he would want you to wear thigh bands permanently,I think you should break-up with him and search for someone else;yes.

Fortunately I have very clear as I have to behave as a girl. And I do not complain at all, I like be girl this way, but, I have clear too, as the man have to behave towards us. I find lovely a strong, calm man that is capable of take good decisions, and makes me feel protected, but I hate, hate, hate, tyrants.
They have to look for our happiness.

Vanessa

Ines

So not having thigh bands on make a big difference on your feelings?I thought it impact these only a bit.

Ines Of course. Even in night. When I had notice about the use of padlock in nights, I try to scratch an itching, an easy one, with my legs totally together, and it was anguish. I could not do it without a huge effort.
I am more convinced about use a padlock, is a nonsense.

I think too using no chain make it a lot harder.Not only for itching...

Ines Fortunately I have very clear as I have to behave as a girl. And I do not complain at all, I like be girl this way, but, I have clear too, as the man have to behave towards us. I find lovely a strong, calm man that is capable of take good decisions, and makes me feel protected, but I hate, hate, hate, tyrants.
They have to look for our happiness.

I agree.Even if both want to use chastity devices,he should not be a tyrant.Otherwise,it won't be a good and fulfilling relationship.

Angelina but i don't want to ask too much, because then i won't have a chance with my father. i think if i ask him if he uses a chain again at least on the day, i have better chances

Yes,and,maybe,if he notices it is as effective,you can try to make him accept it on the night too....

Angelina

so my father replaced the chain with a padlock to create an additional restriction, i know myself that the padlock makes no sense.

but i don't want to ask too much, because then i won't have a chance with my father. i think if i ask him if he uses a chain again at least on the day, i have better chances 😉

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