Everyday challenges with thigh bands

Angelina

Let us know if he accepts.I hope so for you,it would be better.

Ines

Even if you have ideas,I doubt you can defeat you belt,even without thigh bands.

If he would not let you have your activities because he would want you to wear thigh bands permanently,I think you should break-up with him and search for someone else;yes.

Ines Even in the nights, use a padlock is redundant, but I know it is not in you hands

Being a bit more free during the day is still very pleasant;I'm sure of it.

Ines

But you've time to think about it.

Vanessa Even if you have ideas,I doubt you can defeat you belt,even without thigh bands.

For sure, but you know that for me, the wearer should to be absolutely overpowered for her belt. Without that, feeling of dependence is not so big.
Wearer must to feel that she is not in control, and even this way we have fights, maybe as unconscious remembering of our position related to the belt.
In my case, just when I assume my role, I can start "to enjoy" the feelings that arises in me the belt, feminism, to be cared, to be protected... If I feel that I am in control, or even that I have chances of achieve a "victory"against the belt, all those feelings will desapear.

Vanessa Being a bit more free during the day is still very pleasant;I'm sure of it.

Of course. Even in night. When I had notice about the use of padlock in nights, I try to scratch an itching, an easy one, with my legs totally together, and it was anguish. I could not do it without a huge effort.
I am more convinced about use a padlock, is a nonsense.

Vanessa If he would not let you have your activities because he would want you to wear thigh bands permanently,I think you should break-up with him and search for someone else;yes.

Fortunately I have very clear as I have to behave as a girl. And I do not complain at all, I like be girl this way, but, I have clear too, as the man have to behave towards us. I find lovely a strong, calm man that is capable of take good decisions, and makes me feel protected, but I hate, hate, hate, tyrants.
They have to look for our happiness.

so my father replaced the chain with a padlock to create an additional restriction, i know myself that the padlock makes no sense.

but i don't want to ask too much, because then i won't have a chance with my father. i think if i ask him if he uses a chain again at least on the day, i have better chances

Ines

So not having thigh bands on make a big difference on your feelings?I thought it impact these only a bit.

Ines Of course. Even in night. When I had notice about the use of padlock in nights, I try to scratch an itching, an easy one, with my legs totally together, and it was anguish. I could not do it without a huge effort.
I am more convinced about use a padlock, is a nonsense.

I think too using no chain make it a lot harder.Not only for itching...

Ines Fortunately I have very clear as I have to behave as a girl. And I do not complain at all, I like be girl this way, but, I have clear too, as the man have to behave towards us. I find lovely a strong, calm man that is capable of take good decisions, and makes me feel protected, but I hate, hate, hate, tyrants.
They have to look for our happiness.

I agree.Even if both want to use chastity devices,he should not be a tyrant.Otherwise,it won't be a good and fulfilling relationship.

Angelina but i don't want to ask too much, because then i won't have a chance with my father. i think if i ask him if he uses a chain again at least on the day, i have better chances

Yes,and,maybe,if he notices it is as effective,you can try to make him accept it on the night too....

Vanessa So not having thigh bands on make a big difference on your feelings?I thought it impact these only a bit.

Bands have the bad thing that sometimes make you feel a bit restricted, but it is compensated for the safety they add and for the psychological effect: even when they are not restricting you directly (you are walking slowly, without any hurry and they are not annoying us), they make feel you, ever, the presence of the belt. For me it is a nice feeling.

@Vanessa

exactly that is my plan. always one step after the other

@Ines

i see it quite differently. for me the tighbands are definitely the worst no matter if with padlock or chain . they are just soo restrictive

Ines

Yes,as you like the feeling to be overpowered by your chastity belt,the thigh bands can be a nice addition to get this feeling often.

Angelina exactly that is my plan. always one step after the other

It is probably the best way to get some more freedom,even if slowly.

Angelina i see it quite differently. for me the tighbands are definitely the worst no matter if with padlock or chain . they are just soo restrictive

I don't feel it is the worse psychologically,but it is way more restrictive,yes.I can do a lot of activities with my chastity belt on and my chastity bra on too,but I can't do many things when my thigh bands are locked...

Ines Belting just can be enjoyed with a parents that worry for us in fully and integral way. And, yes, to have a belted girl in home is necessary a lot of responsibility, tons of love and tons of patience, to deal with our needs and to deal with our some bratty moments.
It is the least we deserve!

I think it is extremely uncommon that the same parents who think that a chastity belt is not enough security for their daughter are the same parents who think "Hey, lets make an exception for..." whenever one of wants more freedom to do something that is easier or simply possible without the tightbands.

I think my father is full of love of me and he acts responsible. He takes my needs into account and listen to my arguments when we talk about something. The same is true for my sister. He is just very convinced that I/we don't need more freedom and if something is not possible with tightbands, there are enough other activities I can do. He sets security before comfort without any exception. If that means that some hobbies are no longer possible, it is a price that fits for the benefit.

Ines There are a lot of necessary activities that are not possible. You can not substitute sport, for example.

Yes, but we have a little sport room in our basement we can use. It has stations we can easily use with the tightbands. Once riding bicycle became impossible because of the tightbands, I started on a rowing machine. It's not perfect and I would like to be able to do any kind of sports but for my father it shows that I can stay healthy when I am in the tightbands.

@Vanessa

better slowly than not at all or ?

yes the tighbands are very bad, which is due to the physical limitations. the cb and the bra strict mostly only when i get horny but the tighbands are always present

@Ines

that is the difference between your family and our families, we have no influence on whether or when we are released, not even with the tighbands

Since when do I do sports?

@Sara2001

there I join my father acts exactly so, but I would never doubt his love to me

Ines

I agree too.Your feelings about chastity belt are probably closely related to the way it is used in your family,way different than it is for several of us.And it needs parents to consider chastity belts,and the best way to use it,differently.

I'm sure that my parents worry and care for me too,but they have very different opinion about how a chastity belt should be used than your parents.

I guess with two daughters belted at home,it needs even more time and patience!

Sara2001

It is similar for me too,the security is the main concern,especially as they noticed my chastity belt doens't prevent me to do a lot of my usual activities.Except sexual ones,of course.If I was prevented to do a sport,for example,while I liked it a lot,I think I would have been able to convince them to let me free doing it,but closely monitored,however.But it would have been hard to convince them and not for too many things.

Angelina better slowly than not at all or ?

Sure,it is better to get it,even slowly!

Angelina yes the tighbands are very bad, which is due to the physical limitations. the cb and the bra strict mostly only when i get horny but the tighbands are always present

Each of these devices have their worst parts,and the ones we hate the most can depend on our mood and activities...

Vanessa

not really, the tighbands are by far the worst i have maybe 2-3 times a day sexual lust and am prevented from cb and bra to live it but i feel the tighbands persist, especially bad if you are in a hurry and can not run fast

Angelina

I agree thigh bands are more limiting and can be frustrating in non-sewual ways too.But,when I've urges and my chastity belt prevents me to relieve these,or when I'm intimate with Emilie and she can't touch me between my legs or on my breasts,I hate much more the chastity belt and chastity bra!

Vanessa

as you already say, when i have sexual urge it is of course in the belt and bra much worse, but in normal everyday life the tighbands are the worst

we shouldn't think about sex all the time

Angelina

I tend to think about it a lot!

But,too,I don't have to wear the thigh bands as often as you,it should be very hard to have them on permanently.Even more when wearing it to go out.

Vanessa But,too,I don't have to wear the thigh bands as often as you,it should be very hard to have them on permanently.Even more when wearing it to go out.

I can guarantee you that. It is something you never forget. I feel the presence of them all the time and my feelings changed a bit. It is still very limiting and I still hate the limits a lot. Especially when I am in a hurry, but the psychological aspects are more important for me now. I feel very humiliated all the time and started to cry a lot about them/my situation often. Maybe I thought about the arguments from my sister. She feels very trapped in them.