just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?
Padre After Loctober there is No Touch November
When does October end? When does November begin?
“When igzackly does the Old Year end?”
“Tonight”, said Mary Poppins shortly. “At the first stroke of twelve.”
“And when does it begin?” he went on.
“When does what begin?” she snapped.
“The New Year”, answered Michael patiently.
“On the last stroke of twelve”, she replied, giving a short sharp sniff.
“Oh? Then what happens in between?” he demanded.
Padre You are just getting used to the gear so it would be sad to quit. You both are having so much fun
well, i have several years of experience, so it's not entirely new to me 
only if i do a survey i will probably never get out of the belt again 
Joh Let us know how did it work and was it in the end helpful.
first test and it failed, but that was probably due to my own naivety, i underestimated how cold the gel packs were, so i had to stop after about 5 minutes, my wife had to open the belt and the gel packs had to be removed before they could really work. I will try again with a lower temperature.
Short Update:
as you already know, i would be punished with writing lines and thighbands if i asked for a release. i have my mouth well under control and have been able to avoid this so far. in the last few days, however, i have tried to fight against the shield and the lock quite often. this is normal, of course, but it is of course not proper for "a good chaste girl".
so we decided that this will also be banned for the rest of the month. if i am caught fighting the belt or the lock, i will also have to write lines and wear thighbands.
this is much harder than just keeping quiet, I really have to be careful. Somehow I think I'll end up in the bands at least once this month 
Angelina i underestimated how cold the gel packs were
In first aid we learned that if someone had an injury and it had to be cooled, you would take ice with a cloth around it. Ice directly on the skin is too cold and it may freeze. That is why you first have to put a cloth around it. Maybe that is the case with your cold pack. You can try it.
Angelina I will try again with a lower temperature.
Even more cold than before?
Just not dry ice.
Padre Would that be a problem
yes, because i'm already almost bursting with arousal
Padre Even more cold than before?
no, that was a mistake i meant higher temperature of course
Padre You should
not yet, but the month can still be very long
Update:
i have now tested the gelpacs again, this time i made sure that the temperature was ok and used a thin cloth. At this point I have to say that it helped at least a little, I had it in for about half an hour and my arousal went down a little quicker.
it didn't quite have the effect @Jenna described, but at least from my point of view it helped a little, we should give her the point (despite the fake story)
@Milady2 point of view here:
@Angelina , you should stop wearing as planned and avoid continuing. Get out, talk about this experience with your wife, understand not only what you want but what she wants too. Then, if needed, you can start not as an occasional thing but as lifestyle. before that you need to understand clearly what will bring to you being belted,even in terms of expectations. Maybe it's not what your wife wants, and she should have her own opinion. Definitely I don't think it's a good idea to continue.
End of Milady opinion
Padre Less than two weeks No Touch November is coming. It may bring you new heights
sorry, but at least for november i have ruled out any further use of the belt and bra 
NO!
Update:
first of all for information, there will be no voting, everything that happens after locktober my wife and i will discuss privately. you will know the results if there are any, but first i want a normal sex life again 
yesterday, unfortunately, i fought a little too hard against the belt. i kind of felt like it (maybe i wanted to provoke something) and of course my wife noticed, so i had to spend a few hours writing lines last night. i also wore the bands again for the first time. just as restrictive as before and i don't want them as standard, but the evening also showed me that my wife can enforce rules if they have been agreed beforehand
Angelina I am with you that you should not follow some pushing from the forum. It is your lig´fe and both of you will talk about how it was and what you will do in the future. I hope you can take something from this month in terms of wearing the belt and how it has affected your relationship. Perhaps new aspects will emerge.
Angelina I'd guess the fact that this time you are doing it by choice probably plays a significant role.