youdontknowme
For me, a wake-up call is the occurrence of the following events in history:
1) the author declares that he (she) is a minor,
2) is forced against his will to wear a belt by his parents or guardians but does not take real action to free himself,
3) wearing a chastity belt is a punishment or consequence of some misbehavior (sexual or not) or to correct its effects or to improve academic performance,
4) the user tries to artificially maintain his topic, presenting "updates" of his story on an ongoing basis, sometimes even adapting it to the "expectations" and suggestions of other users,
5) most willingly focuses on his own violent experiences (because they give him the greatest pleasure),
6) regardless of the topic, he is mainly limited to reporting his experiences, he is unable to present more general conclusions,
7) there are extremely improbable themes in his story,
8) he falls into contradictions in his relations.
The more of the above points appear in the user's activity, the greater the probability that it is a person who only presents his fantasies, not real experiences.
And one more thing. Based on my own experience of working with young people, I sincerely doubt that a minor who has been abused actually seeks help on this forum. It is too "specialized" and at the same time it can be perceived as an erotic forum.
Finally, a caveat. Even a court with extensive evidence can make mistakes. All the more, a mistake may occur when assessing on the basis of reports published on the forum. However, this does not release either moderators or users from a sober assessment of the published content.
