youdontknowme They're a bit weird like that. She did make sure I was okay with actually doing it first so I guess this is kind of my fault
Parents found out - gave them the keys
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CutiedeTahlia They're a bit weird like that. She did make sure I was okay with actually doing it first so I guess this is kind of my fault
Maybe they wear; or one does with the other as KH?
Greatcornbow She doesn't, she just knows what they are
CutiedeTahlia In the secret code of @Ines it means (more or less): "I don't believe a single word you say because you tell perverted fairy tales."
The thing that surprises me most is finding out something so big and scary ISN'T native only to Australian waters. You could tell me Australian fish shoot heat vision from their eyes and I'd believe you.
Yes, I usually make the same joke with @Jen . Even pebbles are poisonous in Australia!
CutiedeTahlia idk if this is a punishment or not either? because i did kind of break some of the house rules and she was a bit annoyed about that while we were talking. i'll have to see how things go i guess
you are 17 and living with your parents, it was clear that they would notice it at some point. now of course the question is if this is not exactly what you actually want, for the belt to work?
Ines The royal herring is the longest fish in the world with specimens up to 17 meters, longer than whale sharks.
really, do you have a book where all this animal facts are written?
youdontknowme but I still question any parent who would engage in such a dynamic.
on the subject of chastity belt no, on other things maybe. she wanted it so she should wear it properly, i think i can understand that. if then i would only do it for a short period of time.
Ines The Problem is that the world is not only black or white but has infinite shades of grey in between. Because we know nothing about their parents or mother especially how liberal or conservative they are, it's really hard to tell if it's a fairy tale.
We have heard other stories that hardly anyone found suspicious just because she was an adult but her adult daughters were also in the CB. But it was a fairytale and what an incredible one.
I have some doubts so far but not to the extent that her story is not true. I think we can watch it critically and see what else comes to make a decision.
There seems to be an influx of people who claim to have a BDSM relationship with their parents lately. And it is a common trope in erotic fantasies: Parents found out about the chastity device and take possession of the key. Usually a boy, since with penis cages it is usually easier to get one that is suitable for multi-day wear in secret, but not always.
Personally, I think there is little harm in extending the benefit of doubt to everyone, since they might actually be stuck in a situation where they need help. But also, with roleplayers, they either get bored or the stories get spicier and spicier, and calling them out usually helps that the former takes place. And finally, we do not want real-life wearers to take advice from people who claim to be in the same situation, but have never experienced it except in their fantasies, while stroking their... egos.
For me, a wake-up call is the occurrence of the following events in history:
1) the author declares that he (she) is a minor,
2) is forced against his will to wear a belt by his parents or guardians but does not take real action to free himself,
3) wearing a chastity belt is a punishment or consequence of some misbehavior (sexual or not) or to correct its effects or to improve academic performance,
4) the user tries to artificially maintain his topic, presenting "updates" of his story on an ongoing basis, sometimes even adapting it to the "expectations" and suggestions of other users,
5) most willingly focuses on his own violent experiences (because they give him the greatest pleasure),
6) regardless of the topic, he is mainly limited to reporting his experiences, he is unable to present more general conclusions,
7) there are extremely improbable themes in his story,
8) he falls into contradictions in his relations.
The more of the above points appear in the user's activity, the greater the probability that it is a person who only presents his fantasies, not real experiences.
And one more thing. Based on my own experience of working with young people, I sincerely doubt that a minor who has been abused actually seeks help on this forum. It is too "specialized" and at the same time it can be perceived as an erotic forum.
Finally, a caveat. Even a court with extensive evidence can make mistakes. All the more, a mistake may occur when assessing on the basis of reports published on the forum. However, this does not release either moderators or users from a sober assessment of the published content.
This post is turning into way more of a mess then I imagined
it can be a tough crowd, just be patient and share pertanant information. New people keep the forum alive
Renita Yes, we do also have a surprising number of females in same sex relationships under lock, and the number of underage beltings reported here should actually alarm child services around the globe (although I do have my theory on that, but it's only a theory), but the problems are:
Given that we have really no statistics how many chastity belts are in use, it's hard to give a probability. And technically even events with a probability 0 can happen, they are just less probable than that all the forum members winning their local lottery (including the ones that don't buy tickets).
The question is always do similar people attract similar people. Fact is this forum is one of the few places where you can discuss CB usage in fairly civilized non-sexualized environment on the Internet. Actually, AFAIK, the only one English-speaking one, and the German language one is already much broader, e.g. while they are welcoming to everyone, that also includes openly kinky user. Due to that I'm not mentioning the name or url of that site here, sigh, not sure what @Laura 's policy on that is.
Funny discrepancy, BTW, on the German site it's dogma that female chastity belts are basically not capable keeping females from masturbation, and are not really safe for long term wear. Somehow this is in open contradiction with the ladies here, or it's just that they were measured so much better?
But yes, in the end, the Internet is anonymous, at best pseudonymous. This is not the 1990s and the university chat channel where a clever IT person could unmask all the locals pretending to be somebody else. (And even then, it was more often the boyfriend/girlfriend of the account holder using that account to chat, while waiting for their better half, Internet access in the 90s was way less universal) Trust is usually build up over time. And analyzing their behavior, etc. E.g. take our newly wed. @Angelina Assume that you know nothing, because technically, we know about that entity not much beyond what she posted here, plus on the previous Mr. Poll thread, plus the fact that some users might have interacted with the entity via email.
What exactly could be his/her motivation to tell as a fantasy over 5 years? Money, nope, @Laura is not monetizing this site, so this is not "content" to get eyes on the site.
So that leaves us with assumption (as in high probability) that @Angelina is real and stand alone from @Laura. Is it a fantasy? Probably not, because the site is rather somber.But even if the members here would register with their electronic IDs (not all EU MS have them yet, AND outside the EU it's more like "look into your web cam and show your regular ID", which makes me wonder when somebody will realize that algorithms/generative AI can trivially modify the stream from your external USB webcam to show whatever you want.), that still prove nothing about the use of CBs, living conditions, and so on, so that would be pointless. So the old fashioned "think and engage your brain, potentially google some stuff" technique is the best we have.
End-Of-Rant
George
And Flarum threads are confusing Ranting on a 4 day old post with missing dozens other posts in-between makes one look a bit silly, anyway
The fact stays that on the Internet with identities created on the push of a button, only the longevity, potentially with some cross-referencing can make an identity/story believable.