jackstruble "Some discussions may be suitable" does not mean anything goes.

I am not going to tell you to stop or keep going, but be realistic with your goals. Being able to go from free to 24/7 lockup is a fantasy straight out of adult fiction. If it gets painful, take it off. If you want to spend less time on sexual things, distraction works better than denial. And you can always become a "good boy" once you are old enough that someone can appreciate that sort of stuff.

      jackstruble I am afraid chastity devices do not work like that. Denying yourself access to body parts just means you will spend the time you would have spent on sexual stimulation fighting against the cage instead. Maybe even more time, because there is nothing that tells you your play session is finished, if you catch my drift. If you want to use chastity as a way to focus, it has to start in the brain before it extends to your lower body, not vice-versa.

          jackstruble If you cannot keep you hands off yourself without a cage for a few hours, you should look into counseling, not cages. Try to mentally commit yourself to not touching yourself (or watching / reading materials unsuitable for your age) before you are done with homework first. Trying to exercise your willpower will get you farther than locking yourself up.

              jackstruble I think cages make a great reminder in that regard, but I am not going to recommend you to wear one at your age, particularly if you are having pain wearing it.

              Use it however you like. You may find that it gets easier to wear over time, but do not expect to be wearing it all day right away without major discomfort (and if you experience major discomfort or pain, take it off to give yourself time to heal).

              And definitely try to work on your willpower without it as well. You may find that the cage reminds you more of your body parts themselves than your commitment not to touch them.

              And by all means, do not give the key to a stranger, especially while you are still a minor.

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                  Do you know how long it will take for it to get easier? There is a little bit of discomfort but I found that a little lotion helps it. I think that being locked in the cage and working on willpower is good for me. I’m doing this myself so I’m not giving the key to anyone yet. It also helps because I’m now cut and the cage stops it from rubbing and annoying me throughout the day.

                      I’m going to cautiously answer this.
                      Firstly, 24/7 from the start as others have mentioned isn’t possible. This is something you lead up to.
                      Second, talk with your parents about parental controls. Minors shouldn’t be looking at/reading that stuff anyway. And if you feel you have a problem it certainly isn’t helpful having it available.
                      And lastly, there are much more helpful ways to solve this issue. If it’s a constant problem while you’re alone go out for a run when that feeling hits you, play some online chess games, video games, lift weights, etc. there are many healthy things you can do besides wearing a cage.

                        jackstruble It is highly individual, there is no set timeline. Lotion is definitely a good idea, keeping the skin moisturized and a little lubricated makes wearing rigid hardware a lot easier than leaving your skin to dry.

                        Be sure to give yourself plenty of uncaged time though. Do not rush into wearing it at school or overnight before you are certain you can wear it comfortably for most of the day. Make sure you wash your uncaged body regularly. And give yourself opportunity to have an uncaged erection regularly. Ideally every day, but at the very least once a week.

                          Sasha I’m an older teenager, nearly an adult, I’m able to make a decision on what I see or read.

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