Introductions

Vanessa

Thanks!

Since English is not my native, I don't really understand the difference between convinced and willing.
I would say I'm convinced as far as the excessive masturbation goes, but still a bit reluctant to wear a cage.
My brother is clearly a reluctant wearer, he only agreed because parents wouldn't let him move out otherwise.

And yes, we're supposed to wear it (at least) until marriage.
In my case, it's a little harder to explain the marriage, because two men can get "registered" at most in our country.

I think they wouldn't mind if we had sex. They know he's my boyfriend (although they would like to see a girl of course).
When they gave him the key, they said they are keeping one for a backup.

Well actually, many guys know about chastity cages, even when they are not using it and they are not into fetish.
When I change in the gym or before/after sports, they can see the bulge and subtle outline of my cage.
If they keep (secretly) staring, I can only think they know. But at the end of the day, I learned not to care about them.
A few guys actually asked (that's how we discovered with my friend Robin we're both caged), but that's quite rare to see.

Yes, Robin's parents locked him for excessive masturbation too.

Nate Since English is not my native, I don't really understand the difference between convinced and willing.

Convinced:you don't want it at first,but some arguments or some advantages make you wear one.

Willing:you want it at first.

Nate In my case, it's a little harder to explain the marriage, because two men can get "registered" at most in our country.

It should be considered as marriage,for the cage.

Nate When they gave him the key, they said they are keeping one for a backup.

So,no emergency key?

Vanessa

Thanks for clarification. None of us are willing wearers then, for sure.

As for the registration, there's a big problem that it's written in your ID. That means everyone who sees your ID and is homophobic (still quite common, unfortunately) will give you a hard time. It's one of the main reasons why nobody really does that.

My boyfriend has the main key, and we see each other nearly every day. My parents have one key for a backup. I don't think I really need to have an emergency key, as I never needed it and I could be tempted to unlock.

Nate Since English is not my native, I don't really understand the difference between convinced and willing.

i would explain it this way, a willing wearer is someone who wears the belt out of voluntary and deep conviction, i.e. someone who wants to wear the belt. a convinced wearer is someone who has advantages from wearing the belt (money from parents etc.).

Vanessa It should be considered as marriage,for the cage.

i think so too, until a few years ago same-sex couples could not get married in germany but could only register as a civil partnership, i think in my case my father would have accepted that as "marriage".

Sara2001 Do you have rules in this area?

I do..
But i think we have to go somewhere else for further discussion..
Do you use any chatting app or e mail?

Liana Do you use any chatting app or e mail?

I do, @Laura can you give her my email? Looks like this becomes a habit Thank you for your help.

Emily

welcome to the forum

what kind of belt do you have (i.e. which brand) ? Do you wear it 24/7 or do you have breaks?

Angelina its a mysteel and yes i wear it 24/7 for a long time now

Kaja i am from canada

Emily Hello Emily,

So why did they decide a Canadian girl needed such treatment?

James i decided too, not just them. Partly for religious reasons and partly as an agreement with my parents and partly because i think i understood some of the benefits

Emily Oh, how do you find attending school in a belt?

i am home schooled, so at least that part is easy lol

Emily That does uncomplicate thing - well, welcome!

James lol thank you!