Vanessa
Thanks!
Since English is not my native, I don't really understand the difference between convinced and willing.
I would say I'm convinced as far as the excessive masturbation goes, but still a bit reluctant to wear a cage.
My brother is clearly a reluctant wearer, he only agreed because parents wouldn't let him move out otherwise.
And yes, we're supposed to wear it (at least) until marriage.
In my case, it's a little harder to explain the marriage, because two men can get "registered" at most in our country.
I think they wouldn't mind if we had sex. They know he's my boyfriend (although they would like to see a girl of course).
When they gave him the key, they said they are keeping one for a backup.
Well actually, many guys know about chastity cages, even when they are not using it and they are not into fetish.
When I change in the gym or before/after sports, they can see the bulge and subtle outline of my cage.
If they keep (secretly) staring, I can only think they know. But at the end of the day, I learned not to care about them.
A few guys actually asked (that's how we discovered with my friend Robin we're both caged), but that's quite rare to see.
Yes, Robin's parents locked him for excessive masturbation too.
