markules
Did you look for professional help?
It acts only on the effect and not on the cause.

    Joh Did you look for professional help?

    You mean a prostitute? Might be a little expensive... 😆

      markules

      Welcome to the forum 🙂

      talk calmly with your parents about it. say exactly why you want it. if they are really as understanding as you write, it should not be a problem. but you have to get over yourself and also live with the consequences, because once you are locked up there is no going back. do you have a girlfriend? maybe she can take the keys?

        Max9 You mean a prostitute? Might be a little expensive...

        Funny interpretation 🤣
        No I meant help from a addiction group or psychologist to solve the problem not working on the effect.

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          Joh
          Problem: Addiction
          Effect: Feeuqent Masturbation
          Sloution: Cage / Belt

          Do you want to pay in cash or with card?

          Joh Funny interpretation

          😉😂

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            Max9
            You can have a different opinion, but I don't think it's good to make fun of it.
            Your proposal does not try to solve the problem but only to fiddle around with the effect.

              Joh The problem is the addiction. Many peopme tend to have a slightly different modification of their brain that causes them to tend to surrender addiction: Cigaretts, Alcoholism, Games or Sex / Masturbation. There's no therapy against this except for abstinence, like the anonymous alcoholicans do it. You can take anti-depression pills, they lower the sex drive, but that doesn't solve the ptoblem and has other side effects as you would take pill against something you don't suffer from to benefit from the side-effect... not advisable.

                Nate Do you carry your emergency key with you?

                These are in small boxes in my room,with plastic locks with serial numbers on these.I can easily open it,but can't hide it.

                markules

                Welcome!

                How often do you masturbate,when free?

                No keyholder,presently,so?

                Joh It acts only on the effect and not on the cause.

                I agree.

                Max9

                🤣

                Angelina talk calmly with your parents about it. say exactly why you want it

                I agree.

                Angelina do you have a girlfriend? maybe she can take the keys?

                It would be better,yes.

                Max9 The problem is the addiction. Many peopme tend to have a slightly different modification of their brain that causes them to tend to surrender addiction: Cigaretts, Alcoholism, Games or Sex / Masturbation. There's no therapy against this except for abstinence, like the anonymous alcoholicans do it.

                One must differentiate between the various forms of addiction. Cigarettes and alcohol are physically addictive, whereas gambling or sex addiction are mental problems.
                Of course, every addiction is an individual problem and so it must be treated individually. The goal is to manage the urge and not to be managed by the urge.
                Everyone is confronted with this problem to a greater or lesser extent and has to learn this. But some are driven by it and become addicted.

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                  Joh Cigarettes and alcohol are physically addictive, whereas gambling or sex addiction are mental problems

                  They all work with Serotonine, Dopamine, Noradrenaline, Endorphines, Phenethylamine and Oxytocine - the six chemicals that get emitted in your brain chemistry to make you become happy.

                  So, all in all, they work with theese.

                  Addiction works with theese chemicals. As soon as you take a dose of it a certain amount of at least one of those chemicals gets set free. Tabacco works in a slightly different way, too. It works with the transmittion of synapses by sendkng out an intense impulse

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                    markules

                    Marc, There is a possibility that your friend is not telling the whole truth of only mastubating weekly, he might be also having sex. I think you need are larger sample the just one guys orgasming habits before you do anything irreversable like giving your parents your keys.

                    That said a maximum of one orgasm a week is a good first target as you seek to control your libedo. Your long term target I think should be to quit masturbating completely but working towards once a month would be good.

                    It sounds as though you are currently orgasming 360 times a year . I'll take a few days as being about 3 days so currently that would be around 120 times a year maybe less when you go for longer which is a lot closer than your current target than you realised.

                    Do you think you are gay, bi or straight?

                    Just keep on keeping your penis locked as much as possible and look for a key holder who will be happy to supervise your cleaning and relocking.

                      Max9
                      I am not going to start discussing what is physically addictive and what is psychologically addictive.
                      When an alcoholic stops, he must never drink another drop of alcohol, otherwise he starts all over again. Other forms like gambling addiction or sex addiction are only a problem of the psyche and if you have that under control you can live well with it, play games and have sex.

                      Hello again all. I'm still locked in a chastity belt unable to have sex or to masturbate. Life is good.

                        Max9

                        i think therapy is better, the belt can be an additional tool, but it cannot replace it. i would also not recommend withdrawal to anyone who is addicted to drugs without the support of a psychiatrist.

                          Angelina I don't think that blaming your parants (accoridng to the clichee) will really solve the situation...

                            Max9 I don't think that blaming your parants (accoridng to the clichee) will really solve the situation...

                            In therapy you do not blame your parents, you talk about your problems and find a solution for yourself. The therapist guides you, nothing more, nothing less.

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                              Joh In movies it's always about like "and my mommy never accepted my the way I am"

                                Max9 I don't think that blaming your parants (accoridng to the clichee) will really solve the situation...

                                You should also not blame your parents but work on your problems, but without professional help it is difficult.

                                Max9 "and my mommy never accepted my the way I am"

                                You open open wounds with it 😂

                                Shrop Marc, There is a possibility that your friend is not telling the whole truth of only mastubating weekly, he might be also having sex. I think you need are larger sample the just one guys orgasming habits before you do anything irreversable like giving your parents your keys.

                                Right.

                                Jonas

                                Sorry,but I don't remember,is it willingly?

                                Angelina the belt can be an additional tool

                                I agree.

                                  Vanessa Sorry,but I don't remember,is it willingly?

                                  Yes, definitely, I think only consenting adults should use chastity belts.