Introductions

Max9 The problem is the addiction. Many peopme tend to have a slightly different modification of their brain that causes them to tend to surrender addiction: Cigaretts, Alcoholism, Games or Sex / Masturbation. There's no therapy against this except for abstinence, like the anonymous alcoholicans do it.

One must differentiate between the various forms of addiction. Cigarettes and alcohol are physically addictive, whereas gambling or sex addiction are mental problems.
Of course, every addiction is an individual problem and so it must be treated individually. The goal is to manage the urge and not to be managed by the urge.
Everyone is confronted with this problem to a greater or lesser extent and has to learn this. But some are driven by it and become addicted.

Joh Cigarettes and alcohol are physically addictive, whereas gambling or sex addiction are mental problems

They all work with Serotonine, Dopamine, Noradrenaline, Endorphines, Phenethylamine and Oxytocine - the six chemicals that get emitted in your brain chemistry to make you become happy.

So, all in all, they work with theese.

Addiction works with theese chemicals. As soon as you take a dose of it a certain amount of at least one of those chemicals gets set free. Tabacco works in a slightly different way, too. It works with the transmittion of synapses by sendkng out an intense impulse

markules

Marc, There is a possibility that your friend is not telling the whole truth of only mastubating weekly, he might be also having sex. I think you need are larger sample the just one guys orgasming habits before you do anything irreversable like giving your parents your keys.

That said a maximum of one orgasm a week is a good first target as you seek to control your libedo. Your long term target I think should be to quit masturbating completely but working towards once a month would be good.

It sounds as though you are currently orgasming 360 times a year . I'll take a few days as being about 3 days so currently that would be around 120 times a year maybe less when you go for longer which is a lot closer than your current target than you realised.

Do you think you are gay, bi or straight?

Just keep on keeping your penis locked as much as possible and look for a key holder who will be happy to supervise your cleaning and relocking.

Max9
I am not going to start discussing what is physically addictive and what is psychologically addictive.
When an alcoholic stops, he must never drink another drop of alcohol, otherwise he starts all over again. Other forms like gambling addiction or sex addiction are only a problem of the psyche and if you have that under control you can live well with it, play games and have sex.

Hello again all. I'm still locked in a chastity belt unable to have sex or to masturbate. Life is good.

Max9

i think therapy is better, the belt can be an additional tool, but it cannot replace it. i would also not recommend withdrawal to anyone who is addicted to drugs without the support of a psychiatrist.

Angelina I don't think that blaming your parants (accoridng to the clichee) will really solve the situation...

Max9 I don't think that blaming your parants (accoridng to the clichee) will really solve the situation...

In therapy you do not blame your parents, you talk about your problems and find a solution for yourself. The therapist guides you, nothing more, nothing less.

Joh In movies it's always about like "and my mommy never accepted my the way I am"

Max9 I don't think that blaming your parants (accoridng to the clichee) will really solve the situation...

You should also not blame your parents but work on your problems, but without professional help it is difficult.

Max9 "and my mommy never accepted my the way I am"

You open open wounds with it

Vanessa Sorry,but I don't remember,is it willingly?

Yes, definitely, I think only consenting adults should use chastity belts.

Vanessa Sorry,but I don't remember,is it willingly?

would he otherwise write life is good ?

Hiya, I'm Jo. Amazed that there's a community for something like this, I kind of thought I was the only one! I'm nineteen now, and I've worn a chastity belt since I was thirteen. At first I hated it, but over time I've come to really appreciate the good being belted has done for me!

jocarpy Welcome - how did you come to wear a belt?

Angelina

If it's ironic!

jocarpy

Welcome!

Reluctantly wearer at first,and willingly now?

What good do you think it has done for you?

jocarpy
Welcome to the forum and I hope we can help in any cases.
From your name or wearing a belt either is not clear if you are a girl or a boy.

jocarpy

welcome to the forum

sorry but are you a boy or a girl? i can't really tell from your name

who has your keys?

James My parents thought it would help keep me under control during my teen years. At first they were wrong and it just made me act out, but these days I've come around to it

Vanessa What good has it done for me? It's helped me keep concentrated on what matters most - family and self-control! Teenagers are really vulnerable to doing stupid stuff, and the belt kept me under control!

Joh Girl! Sorry, the name is confusing.

Angelina See above Jo stands for Jodie. My dad has my keys most of the time, but my mum does if he's away.

jocarpy What good has it done for me? It's helped me keep concentrated on what matters most - family and self-control! Teenagers are really vulnerable to doing stupid stuff, and the belt kept me under control!

so would you say that in retrospect you are glad that your parents put the belt on you? Do you wear "only" the belt or also thighbands and/or chastity bra?

jocarpy See above Jo stands for Jodie.

thank you for the clarification