Dating a belted girl (or boy)

Angelina with you, the situation is a bit more complicated. i don't even think the belt is the biggest problem, but the fact that you are in a long-distance relationship for most of the year.

It is hard not to have him around, but in some ways it is easier because when he is around he wants to fool around and that just makes it harder. I hope that makes sense.

Angelina your aunt will disagree with me, but i think for what he accepts (long distance relationship+chastity belt), he has actually proven himself very worthy of having sex with you in the near future, he seems to really love you

You are 100% right. She thinks it is best to wait...

Avery Just so we are clear I am 19 as is my BF.

AJ and I have talked about this at length. She does not think I am ready for sex and wants me to be in committed, long term relationship. She does know that we do other things, but thinks conventional sex is out of the question, at least until we have been together for longer. She would prefer I wait until marriage, but that is something we talk about.

Avery WTF

Milord But it is a personal opinion

Well, but an usual opinion in a "chastity" forum. Obviously I respect to everyone, but that is my opinion.

Susan AJ and I have talked about this at length. She does not think I am ready for sex and wants me to be in committed, long term relationship. She does know that we do other things, but thinks conventional sex is out of the question, at least until we have been together for longer. She would prefer I wait until marriage, but that is something we talk about.

Excellent that you discussed this. Very important that you keep up good relations with family. Very.

Avery We do talk about this. regularly. Susan knows I am against premarital sex. I know it is hard for her to wear the belt, especially when she is with her BF. But she knows how much I value her sacrifice. It is not easy to do this, especially in our hyper-sexualized society. But we both know she is doing the right thing.

Avery The girls know I would never "cast them out" under any circumstances. Yes my stance is strict, I understand that and I know many don't agree with it. I will always support them no matter what, they know that.

Avery Then we have a person coming along and telling her to go ahead even though that person recognizes Jenna does not want this. This endangers the girl's relationship with her guardian. The guardian who said in her second post she has considerable financial control over the girls.

Not to beat a dead horse here, but I have backed off that position considerably, as you well know. I have apologized profusely for my past deeds and actions. Yes it is my preference that they avoid sex, but belt wearing is only successful of both parties agree. We are all in a better place now.

Jenna he girls know I would never "cast them out"

Yes. And if you had copied in what I said people could see I said I was certain you would not.

Jenna We do talk about this. regularly.

Yes. And if you had copied in what I said people could see I said I was certain @susan would talk to you before proceeding.

Avery This endangers the girl's relationship with her guardian. The guardian who said in her second post she has considerable financial control over the girls.

Avery I'm certain Jenna would not cast her out if she went ahead with this. But some parents might.

It feelslike you are implyimg a certain degree of lip service there.

Avery You are wrong at this toppic.

youdontknowme I don't like to ignore you but here I think it's best.

Avery Cast out? It will not be parents and familly but dangerous psychopats

Kaja You are wrong at this toppic.

Not sure what you mean. If you think my views are wrong I have no comment. If you think we are off topic we are discussing the situation of a belted girl dating and what to do about sex. That's the topic.

Avery I believe I understand.

Milord I would like to know the unbelted point of view, not about dating in general

Then you should be specific boy or girl.