Dating a belted girl (or boy)

Susan AJ and I have talked about this at length. She does not think I am ready for sex and wants me to be in committed, long term relationship. She does know that we do other things, but thinks conventional sex is out of the question, at least until we have been together for longer. She would prefer I wait until marriage, but that is something we talk about.

Excellent that you discussed this. Very important that you keep up good relations with family. Very.

Avery We do talk about this. regularly. Susan knows I am against premarital sex. I know it is hard for her to wear the belt, especially when she is with her BF. But she knows how much I value her sacrifice. It is not easy to do this, especially in our hyper-sexualized society. But we both know she is doing the right thing.

Avery The girls know I would never "cast them out" under any circumstances. Yes my stance is strict, I understand that and I know many don't agree with it. I will always support them no matter what, they know that.

Avery Then we have a person coming along and telling her to go ahead even though that person recognizes Jenna does not want this. This endangers the girl's relationship with her guardian. The guardian who said in her second post she has considerable financial control over the girls.

Not to beat a dead horse here, but I have backed off that position considerably, as you well know. I have apologized profusely for my past deeds and actions. Yes it is my preference that they avoid sex, but belt wearing is only successful of both parties agree. We are all in a better place now.

Jenna he girls know I would never "cast them out"

Yes. And if you had copied in what I said people could see I said I was certain you would not.

Jenna We do talk about this. regularly.

Yes. And if you had copied in what I said people could see I said I was certain @susan would talk to you before proceeding.

Jenna Yes it is my preference that they avoid sex, but belt wearing is only successful of both parties agree.

Our only disagreement is that you prefer belt-wearing to moral education and emotional support.

Avery This endangers the girl's relationship with her guardian. The guardian who said in her second post she has considerable financial control over the girls.

Avery I'm certain Jenna would not cast her out if she went ahead with this. But some parents might.

It feelslike you are implyimg a certain degree of lip service there.

Avery You are wrong at this toppic.

Avery Cast out? It will not be parents and familly but dangerous psychopats

Kaja You are wrong at this toppic.

Not sure what you mean. If you think my views are wrong I have no comment. If you think we are off topic we are discussing the situation of a belted girl dating and what to do about sex. That's the topic.

Avery I believe I understand.

Milord I would like to know the unbelted point of view, not about dating in general

Then you should be specific boy or girl.

Avery I have moved our conversation over to "Belting for Nieces" so as not to incur anyone's wrath.

Susan You are 100% right. She thinks it is best to wait...

For you and Jenna I'll explain my post again because otherwise I'm afraid it could be misunderstood. Your boyfriend accepts a long-distance relationship and the chastity belt, that's great, he really seems to love you and if he can continue to accept it well, the relationship will work well in the long term, because then you already know how to deal with difficult situations. @Jenna once wrote that a condition for removing the belt would be that you have a long-term relationship and I think the chances are really good if the relationship continues like this that he will do everything to make it "worth it" (and yes Anyone can criticize my choice of words) to have sex with you (from your aunt's perspective and not right now, but in the not too distant future).

I'm sorry if my post was unclear

Angelina in the not too distant future

Before Christmas?

Avery Angelina spent four years dating the same person before they (after marrying) had the opportunity for a completely unbelted night in bed together. "Not too distant" could easily be over a year in that context.