Dating a belted girl (or boy)
curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.
Right, my world is viewed through an old fashioned lens, so if I met a boy wearing a chastity device I would ask him to stop it immediately.
Renita my world is viewed through an old fashioned lens
I think I am old-fashioned, also. I am curious as to why you would ask him to stop wearing. Because boys should not be wearers, because boys should have more freedom, so you can give him physical pleasure that he cannot give you? If he asked you to stop wearing, would you?
curious And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key?
He would have to ask my mom about this 
curious Would you accept?
If you meant in general, than yes.
Tjc Because boys should not be wearers, because boys should have more freedom,
Because men are different.
Tjc If he asked you to stop wearing, would you?
Depends on what for.
curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.
Maybe the old timers understand something about human nature that the whippersnappers haven't figured out yet.
Tjc chastity belt on a girl doesn’t impact feminity. Moreover it tells about a girl submitted and pure, both characteristics tied to a old fashioned way to see a wife. Some men can find this very appealing
A chastity cage heavy impact on masculinity
It actually speaks submissions and lack of willpower. Most women want a men that is strong and confident, master of his own life, “manly”. It’s difficult to transmit this idea if your manhood is caged. Cage is very emasculating
I’m not saying that it is right, I’m just
explain why, in my opinion @Renita and @MissBlossom find it so unappealing
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Renita If you meant in general, than yes.
Agree.
Renita Because men are different.
Agree.
Renita Roles.
And in nature. Gender deleting politics are absolutely nonsenses.
MissBlossom Maybe the old timers understand something about human nature that the whippersnappers haven't figured out yet.
Agree. It is as if you live in a 30 years old home, and, yes, of course, it needs some refits because, for example a pipe leaks water, and then, suddenly, a guessed architect comes and say that building has to be demolished.
Milord Cage is very emasculating
I’m not saying that it is right, I’m just
explain why, in my opinion @Renita and @MissBlossom find it so unappealing
Agree.
Milord Thank you for the opinion. I have not felt wearing a belt to be emasculating as that was not the intention. I suppose for some it is. I think I am strong and confident. People don't seem to be able to tell that I am a wearer unless they ask or I volunteer the information.
But your opinion helps me to understand @Renita and @MissBlossom
Tjc have not felt wearing a belt to be emasculating as that was not the intention. I suppose for some it is. I think I am strong and confident.
I had some nice conversation with my wife. She told me that she will find interesting a man in chastity cage, and will have no problem in knowing him better and dating him.
I am afraid from the point of logic that makes no sense.
If you can revoke your consent at any time - why bother asking your mother, because if she would hand over the key to the man, you could revoke consent and get out of the belt. So the key would be worthless. Why then ask your mother in the first place?
The only scenario where it makes sense to ask your mother for the key would be, if you had no say in your belt wearing and the current keyholder could simply decide to pass control to someone else - even if you do not consent.