curious And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key?

He would have to ask my mom about this 😃

curious Would you accept?

If you meant in general, than yes.

Tjc Because boys should not be wearers, because boys should have more freedom,

Because men are different.

Tjc If he asked you to stop wearing, would you?

Depends on what for.

            Renita He would have to ask my mom about this

            Interesting question for the topic, if someone would ask girl's parents for the key

                curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.

                Maybe the old timers understand something about human nature that the whippersnappers haven't figured out yet.

                    Tjc chastity belt on a girl doesn’t impact feminity. Moreover it tells about a girl submitted and pure, both characteristics tied to a old fashioned way to see a wife. Some men can find this very appealing
                    A chastity cage heavy impact on masculinity
                    It actually speaks submissions and lack of willpower. Most women want a men that is strong and confident, master of his own life, “manly”. It’s difficult to transmit this idea if your manhood is caged. Cage is very emasculating
                    I’m not saying that it is right, I’m just
                    explain why, in my opinion @Renita and @MissBlossom find it so unappealing

                        Milord Id want to know why he is wearing it before I form any opinions.
                        If he's wearing it against his will I can't hold that against him right? Maybe he just feels its right he wears one. Could be a lot of reasons he has it on after all.

                            Sasha of course, I’m explaining a feeling on why someone can see this as “wrong”.
                            Then knowing better normally the bias weakens, but I think the instinctual thought is this.

                              Renita If you meant in general, than yes.

                              Agree.

                              Renita Because men are different.

                              Agree.

                              Renita Roles.

                              And in nature. Gender deleting politics are absolutely nonsenses.

                              MissBlossom Maybe the old timers understand something about human nature that the whippersnappers haven't figured out yet.

                              Agree. It is as if you live in a 30 years old home, and, yes, of course, it needs some refits because, for example a pipe leaks water, and then, suddenly, a guessed architect comes and say that building has to be demolished.

                              Milord Cage is very emasculating
                              I’m not saying that it is right, I’m just
                              explain why, in my opinion @Renita and @MissBlossom find it so unappealing

                              Agree.

                                        Milord Thank you for the opinion. I have not felt wearing a belt to be emasculating as that was not the intention. I suppose for some it is. I think I am strong and confident. People don't seem to be able to tell that I am a wearer unless they ask or I volunteer the information.
                                        But your opinion helps me to understand @Renita and @MissBlossom

                                            Tjc People don't seem to be able to tell that I am a wearer unless they ask or I volunteer the information

                                            Most people are not aware that CB exist. Why they should be able to tell you are wearing one?

                                              Tjc Thank you for the opinion. I have not felt wearing a belt to be emasculating as that was not the intention. I suppose for some it is. I think I am strong and confident.

                                              Its an inconscious bias, not the truth.

                                                Sasha Could be a lot of reasons he has it on after all.

                                                The only acceptable reason if he worn it as a joke. Otherwise I would stay away from such guy.

                                                Laura if someone would ask girl's parents for the key

                                                It would demonstrate his maturity.

                                                      Renita It would demonstrate his maturity.

                                                      As you probably guessed, mostly disagree

                                                        Tjc have not felt wearing a belt to be emasculating as that was not the intention. I suppose for some it is. I think I am strong and confident.

                                                        I had some nice conversation with my wife. She told me that she will find interesting a man in chastity cage, and will have no problem in knowing him better and dating him.

                                                            Renita curious And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key?

                                                            He would have to ask my mom about this 😃

                                                            I am afraid from the point of logic that makes no sense.
                                                            If you can revoke your consent at any time - why bother asking your mother, because if she would hand over the key to the man, you could revoke consent and get out of the belt. So the key would be worthless. Why then ask your mother in the first place?

                                                            The only scenario where it makes sense to ask your mother for the key would be, if you had no say in your belt wearing and the current keyholder could simply decide to pass control to someone else - even if you do not consent.

                                                                Milord

                                                                i actually have to agree with you in a way. it may all be based on prejudice, but i would find dating a man in a belt much stranger than dating a woman in a belt. Probably because, as you said, many things are simply expected of a man and other things are expected of women

                                                                Milord She told me that she will find interesting a man in chastity cage, and will have no problem in knowing him better and dating him.

                                                                I wouldn't have that either, but he would have to have good reasons for it

                                                                    Milord Well, someone who dates a belted person usually is patient and searches for a partner to love, not to fuck.
                                                                    Many conservative and / or religious persons subscribe to not have sex before marriage anyway.

                                                                      as a long time locked male who is denied any release i have learned that her orgasms are mine as well. I get so frustrated that i am very satisfied with her pleasure. So if my situation were changed knowing what i know, i would definatly date a belted girl. my pleasure would become hers as well. it creates a very intimate bond. I'm sure some of the ladies are in this situation, and find tremendous pleasure in satisfying their partner while remaining chaste.

                                                                      Milord This totally depends on the grade of voluntarity in the keyholding desicison.
                                                                      Are you belted because you believe it's good for you or are you belted because you have to in order to avoid repressions.
                                                                      The cases you mentioned only apply to the latter case.

                                                                      Milord A chastity cage heavy impact on masculinity
                                                                      It actually speaks submissions and lack of willpower.
                                                                      So, for a woman it's a feature to have no willpower and to be submissive, whereas for a man its a bug.
                                                                      How can a belt have an inpact on masculitiy?
                                                                      A shield over a vagina also doesn't extinquish the private part.

                                                                      In the 21st century there are also some women who don't just cook and clean, but also go to work, study a profession and succeed in the career.